Is it weird to want to be tied down?

I've always had this fantasy about wanting to be tied down during sex. Guys would you be weirded out if a girl asked you to do this? Have any of you done it?
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The only person that I have slept with wasn't very open sexually. He wouldn't experiment at all...how should a girl go about asking to be tied down?
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  • you could tell him calmly

  • hhhmmmm...thats naughty but normal...its depends on the kind of guy you date...but as for me its cool

  • There's nothing abnormal in wanting to be tied up. I've always wanted to tie up a woman but have never quite succeeded. The closest I came was a girlfriend that liked for me to pin her wrists above her head when having sex . But when I wanted to take it a step further by tying her up she said no. I believe it was a trust issue. If you and your boyfriend trust each other then it will work out. I agree with the other commentors that you need a safe word. You never know when you may need to escape quickly, such as it the case of cramping/muscle spasms. But the bottom line is that a lot of men would like to try this so don't be too embarrassed in suggesting it to your boyfriend.

  • start some foreplay then grab a pair of handcuffs from under the pillows and say look what I found, and then give them to him and put your arms out and say sorry I've been a naughty girl.

  • Just be yourself and be open about it it's normal to ask what you like

  • First most guys would love to do that to you. Have you spread out exposing your everything, nothing left to cover. They would get on you and fuck the hell out of you until you beg to stop, but that means your getting closer. He won’t stop until you orgasm!

    Do you have Kik?

  • I do not have a clue:/

  • You tell him you're too tired and just want him to do all the work this time. The best way he can make you come is to tie your hands above your head and take his time ravishing you. Being tied makes you able to let go, fight your restraints and just be selfish with your orgasm. Be sure to have a "safe word" in place in case you need to escape due to fear, muscle cramps, etc. Then give him this link as the target, end game ... but you want him to slowly tease you up to this point until you beg for this.

    link

  • i would totally tie you down and have sex with you. You're such a cutie :D

  • I would love if my girlfriend did this stuff with me. It would be naughty and a little different. I also would like to be tied up with the girlfriend on top of me having sex with me. I haven't done it but it sounds exctiing

    • You would like to be Tied up like how?

  • It depends on the girl. I've dated some girls who were very shy and it would weird me out if they asked. I've also dated some very spunky, hot headed girls and if they were to ask for this it wouldn't weird me out as much.

    Either way, I would have been willing to comply.

  • Not that weird

    I'd do it, just wanna make sure the girl is okay