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Just accidentally sent naked pictures to my guy friend...what do?

I meant to send them to my boyfriend, but I accidentally sent them to a guy friend who is one away in my contact list. There's no way to un-send them. I just sent a text that said "Just realized what I did...going to go die in a hole now". Any recovery from this?
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Update time-- I told my boyfriend, who just laughed at me and said, "So now I have to share you?" The guy is a pretty close friend, but what makes it more awkward than normal is that he revealed to me once when drunk that he thought my body was hot and that he thinks about having sex with me. He texted me back this morning and said, "Props on having classy sexting photos." Hopefully he deletes them and doesn't show them to his roommate...
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  • You made his... Month, maybe. Tell him he can do what he wants with them but respectfully ask that he not show them to anyone else. That's about the best way to deal with, I think... Ultimately, it's not that big a deal. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Your body isn't sacred, not in that way, I mean, it's not like unveiling the secrets of the Freemasons to a government official. If he's a trustworthy friend, you'll face no repercussions, and laugh about it in time.

    And anyway, that's only if he's sexually attracted to you, if he isn't, he'd be like, 'Wauughh' and delete them.

    Tell your boyfriend, too. Hopefully he sees it the way I see it, ahaha.

  • Honestly I don't care how good a friend this guy is, odds are about 9/10 he's going to show them to at least one other person. He'll likely at least show them to his best friend. I know I would unless they were from a girl I wanted to date or something. He may also hold on to them for blackmail material and um...well good material for something else.

    My suggestion would be to get with him in person as soon as possible and make sure he's deleted the pictures. He may have already saved them to his computer, but there isn't much you can do about that so this would be your best bet.

    • Why would you do that? Child molesters are above that

    • Seriously, any guy who just randomly gets naked pictures of a female friend, is lying if he says he won't show them to at least one friend. The only exception would be if she was so close of a friend, she was like a sister to you. I've also had a habit of girls f***ing me over (cheating, lying, using me, etc. ) so I've learned my lesson to never pass on an opportunity for blackmail material. I know it sounds sick, but I'm not the kinda person that just lets people get away with screwing me.

    • i wouldn't show them what kind of idiot are you?

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  • Oh sh*t.

    If he respects you then he's going to delete the pictures. Your face weren't in the pictures, right?

    Perhaps next time, you should put in the contact first then the pictures second. Most phones would allow that.

    You should tell your boyfriend just case and it doesn't come flying back at you in a bad way.

    • You know better than that! The guy has already expressed how hot he thinks she is, those pics are in his special save for ever file. Odds of him showing others are pretty good also.

    • I didn't see the update. My bad? Well, sh*t sucks.. Take it as a lesson learned and be happy that your body is hot. That's all I gotta say. Awkward is better than him posting it on the internet and showing his roommate.. I don't think someone can stoop that low.

  • Eek that's so awkward! Like others have said, meet the guy in person and ask him to delete them. Make sure you tell your boyfriend before it comes back to bite you if anything goes wrong in the future.

  • You might consider doing him if he will get rid of the pics! lol

    He as expressed to you already how hot he thinks you are, so those are in his special keep for ever file and you know it.

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  • no worries...it'll be a laugh...but aside from that, if he is a good friend, you can count on him forgetting the whole thing...if he is only slightly a good friend, count on him not deleting the pics and saving them not to blackmail you, but because he is a guy and guys are horn-balls like that...

  • If you're good friends, it should be all cool.

    But if he's a really good friend, he'll delete the pictures off his phone when you ask him.

    Probably best to be there and watch him do it.

  • lol that is pretty damn hilarious. And super embarrassing. I hope you are hot.. for both of your sakes.

  • The key here is, "How close is your guy friend?" Either way, you should ask him to delete it and if you want, ask to be there when he does it. If he is a close guy friend, then chances are he will do it and not blackmail you or make you feel terrible about it. If he is more of an acquanitance, then it's much more awkward and you will have to really talk to him about the whole situation because he might not understand what is going on. Give us an update on the story lol.

  • If he is a good dude he won't tell anyone, I wouldn't. Just to let you know though he is definitely doing exactly what you think he is right now.

  • I don't think he'll show them he probably just thinks you're hot now.

  • His recovery is going well. He's feeling great right about...uhhh...let's give this guy a little more time...now.

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