My boyfriend's Dad asked for sex?

My boyfriend's Dad is really weird around me and pretty checks me out and starts touching me a lot when my boyfriend isn't there. So recently he asked me if I'd be down to have a threesome with him and my boyfriend. Since I don't even know what to say to that I said nothing and just left. I mean his Dad is super perverted and really sexual around me. Should I tell his wife or my boyfriend?
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  • Hey, be careful. Dont be alone with the dad. This is honestly creepy you should tell someone you trust quick. I think the boyfriend should know not just for you both, but for the family.

    Ultimately, main concern is your SAFETY. If you're in an UNCOMFORTABLE situation with someone, RUN. LEAVE. Don't mind other people. Mind what you feel. Be safe!

  • Yes, tell your boyfriend, and also, don't be alone with him. I'm sure he'll say "oh, I was just kidding", and fine, if he was, someone needs to tell him he crossed a line. Then needs to monitor his behavior.

  • If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. But that's like my fantasy.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You do need to talk to your boyfriend about this. You must keep your distance from his dad, and that will require an explanation. You boyfriend may or may not believe you, or support you. If he doesn't believe you or support you, the only rational thing to do is end the relationship.

  • That is really creepy. If he's touching you without consent, it's sexual assault. You should tell your boyfriend that you can't be alone with his father anymore. If your boyfriend can't support you in this, you may have to find a new boyfriend. Sorry.

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  • Both... and it's call sexual harassment.

  • Call the police that's not okay and very predatory

  • Tell your boyfriend and make it clear that you will not be around his father any more!

  • Yes, yes you should tell them.

    • Ok I'll tell him

  • Definitely tell them that is fucked up

  • Wow, talk about no class. He is horny and you must be hot!
    I would tell the dad, "it ain't gonna happen, thanks for the compliment, and we will leave it at that."
    Telling the wife or boyfriend could cause a lot of problems for everyone, not just dad. And you would probably be the one kicked out.
    So, start with dad and say No... and be firm, but friendly.
    If that don't work, then you need to tell the boyfriend.

  • So sad you are going through that... He should be locked up or punish for destroying you emotionally. Yes tell your boyfriend and his wife.

  • Are you sure that your boyfriend doesn’t already know?

  • That is so fucked up... If you're not super into your boyfriend i would just break up with him because if you tell him he will always resent you for it but you can't go on without saying anything because of how inappropriate that was.

  • Both, that's disgusting. If my dad acted like that towards my girl I would shoot him no kidding.

    • Yeah it's pretty gross how he acts around me.

    • Yeah, I agree. He shouldn't be acting like that.

    • I'll tell my boyfriend about it.

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  • Run away and quickly

  • Tell them both at the same time

  • Are you the same chick who asked that question a while back saying you were tempted by your boyfriend's father?

    • Nope

  • Yep. That is totally inappropriate. Unless you're into that kind of thing, which it sounds like you are not.

  • Tell your boyfriend first

  • What the hell 😂

  • I think I know who you are. Hey, if your boyfriend don't do anything about it remember you deserve better. That's a total lack of respect his dad have towards the relationship.

  • Definitely.. you should tell your boyfriend about this. And if he is also involved in it, then I think you should breakup.

  • Talk to your boyfriend about it, especially since you're not ok with it

  • What in the world? That dad needs his ass beaten bad.

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