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Virginity??
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what happened to virginity? i mean I have noticed a lot of girls ashamed of being virgins or shy to admit it I'm not a virgin but I mean if a girl tells me she's a virgin I would have more respect for her what happened? why is it these days that it's better if you're not a virgin I'm not saying all the girls are ashamed of it though
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What Girls & Guys Said
39 8well, it's the 21st century and everyone seems to think that all virgins are prudes and considered old fashioned. if a guy or girl is a virgin I have respect for them right from the start (especially guys because they get a lot more pressure to lose it) and if a guy or girl is not a virgin I don't judge but personally I think a girl should be a virgin - pure and cherished, call me old fashioned, I don't care, I made my decision and I'm going to wait till I'm married to have sex. I just think it's more special that way; having one man be your first and only.
I respect that
I would be considered old fashioned as well. Sex after marriage is all I've ever been taught.
There's something sweet about that
I just feel like it's one gift that I could give to show the guy that I am theirs and that they are mine. I've been told that I should stop thinking that way but I don't want to. I like the idea and I wish virginity was cherished by people today, like in past centuries.
The term virginity is being "thrown around" nowadays just like the word love. I am a virgin and I think its mainly a complex issue. I mean, if I was to have sex with a guy who was not a virgin, (I believe in abstinence), Id be totally terrified because they are experienced, and I am not. I am totally not ashamed of being one.
This really baffles me . Why would you be terrified? I am a guy and I seriously think that it is the guy's job to make the sex great . Well not 100% but may be 80% . Besides, if a guy couldn't understand that may be the first or second time will not be perfect then he is not worth it . Every body was a virgin one time.