What can I do about my breasts?They're soooo ugly!

[Anonymous]

My breasts are pretty small,a 36C and unfortunately they are not perky and sag,but it's like a weird type of sagging,not like weight loss or "give birth" type of sag,the just aren't perky.And my areolas are BIG and I hate hate hate them!They're so ugly and disgusting.Ugh. Is there anything I can do to make my breasts better looking?Any exercises?Cause I'm 16 and I can't have surgery yet but I hate looking at myself in the mirror naked.Geeze,if I were any guy,I'd never want to see me naked. Anything

[ZenSpace]

OK, first get a grip. Do not say things like that. Do not say you "hate" some part of your body. That body is you, if you hate it, you hate yourself. Try liking yourself. If some one hates themselves that is about the biggest turn off possible.

Second, no one cares about your areolas. Really, you are absolutely the only one who cares about that, guys could not care less. Maybe there is some crazy bitch in the locker room teasing you about it, but the guys do not care at all.

Having said those 2 things, I hope you've calmed down a bit, ok?

Now, if you do not enjoy the shape of your breasts, it is perfectly ok to want to improve them, just first accept yourself and like yourself as you are.

If you are serious about surgery, you could do that someday, in the mean time just try getting some bras with underwiring. Go to Victoria's Secret and tell the sales people you want bras that will hold your breasts and support them, so they will look different. People come to them all the time with questions like that, they will be happy to help you.

[ShesMygirl]

Look...with one exception I didn't see a single ridiculous answer.

We are our own worst critics. Just because there is something about you that you don't like, doesn't mean anyone else will, or that they will even notice.

Perhaps you ought to also ask how many men think fake boobs are gross. I for one do, and I know lots of guys who agree...yes, I can spot them without much difficulty. They very very rarely ever look right again.

So now you want to trade one issue for another, and end up finding an off center nipple is the new end of the world.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, short of plastic surgery, there is nothing you can do. Exercises won't fix this.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you wanting to improve this and you shouldn't get lectures about that. I hated my nose as a teenager and my family would tell me it was fine, I should let it go. I did not let it keep me from dating or hold me back in life, but I really did not like it. So, in my early 20's I finally had money saved and I went to a plastic surgeon and had it fixed. 20 years later I can say it was the best money I ever spent! It is a gift that will last a lifetime.

I dated a guy who had gynecomastia (male breasts) and he actually had money from an inheritance, TWICE, and continue to avoid doing something about his situation, even though it was affecting his self-esteem (since a teenager) and his dating and his sex life and he was 31. I thought it was so sad that he continued to suffer over something he could fix. I realize surgery is not an option now and maybe you will never want it, but there is no other way to address your situation.

[JeanetteG]

Fake breasts cause a bunch of health problems and you'll never be able to breast-feed your children. Any guy who dumps you or says he doesn't like you because of your breasts, won't really care about you no matter what you do to them. Don't risk your health by undergoing a surgery that won't really fix anything. Also, unless you've been disfigured by abuse, undergoing surgery just makes you seem shallow and insecure. Neither are attractive traits. Find a good push-up bra.

[Opinion Owner]

Though she throws in the comment about not wanting to have a guy see her breasts, this is really about her, not some random guy. Getting sag removed from breasts is not the same as having fake breasts. She doesn't have to put implants in, though she may want to do that too. I don't think it is wrong for someone to choose plastic surgery to make themselves feel better. It won't make your relationships better or get you a boyfriend, but it can pick up your confidence.

[beckysue]

Unfortuneately we have what God gave us and that's about it. You can try working out your pectoral muscles, there should be equipment in your schools gym. The one where you sit down and push the things together with your elbows bent, arms towards the sky... that's probably a really bad description. Big aereolas can make anyone self conscience, but it's a lot more common than you think.Buy bras that make you feel sexy. And a C cup is not small, dear! It's perfect! Rreally, ask any girl with a B or an A ;)

If you feel like this is something you need to do for your self esteem, start saving for that surgery now! I would love to have it. Mine are fine, but perkier is always better in my opinion! lol I just want them to be in the same place when I take my bra off! lol

[Asker]

Yea,actually mine are small.I don't really care about the size,but they are small

[tigerlily19]

Exercises tone the muscle behind your breast, but after awhile they make your breasts smaller so I wouldn't recommend them.

You could do breast massages. They firm up your breasts while making them fuller, but you have to do them often and it takes awhile to notice the difference. Just look up 'breast enhancement massage' on google. The massages can sometimes add growth, but if you do them once a day for a few minutes you could probably just get the firming effects (unless you want more growth, that is)

I don't know why you would say those are small. I'm a 32B and I'd love get them that big (and I'm trying lol).

[PredictablePen]

honestly, 36c isn't that small..but its human nature to look at yur body and be unsatisfied. but at yur age, yur still developing and shouldnt be unhappy with the way you look. you need to enjoy life for now and make guys focus on yur more important aspects. as for exercises that might improve yur bust, have you tried any light toning work outs? dumb bell bench press would be less strenuous on u, and might make things tighter. I'm no trainer or anatomy expert, but it definently wouldn't hurt anything

[danielle1715]

I am a 36c also I have never once in my life thought my boobs were small.. In fact up until now I always wished they were smaller. I guess I developed earlier then my friends I was so embarrassed all throughout middle school and even my freshman year. Not every girls boobs are perfect heck mine aren't and trust me I hated them for a very long time but eventually you need to learn to love what you have. My friend who has not boobs wishes she had mine meanwhile I would gladly give her some so my clothes would fit better. I've gotten over stupid stuff like that I always thought someday I would get surgary too (a reduction specifically) but I realized it wasn't worth it.

[IHateMeganFox]

36c isn't that big hun, you must be a very petitie girl if they look big. mine are 34DDs now thts big. but ur lucky you have that size its like perfect.

[saphirasilverwings]

Um. If you feel like 36C is too small, give being a 32A (like me) a try. Nipples come in all shapes and sizes and one size isn't necessarily better than another. And you're 16- there's no way your boobs are less perky than they should be. Just because they don't defy gravity doesn't mean they're sagging. You don't need to change your breasts, need to gain some perspective- you're totally normal and just fine how you are.

[Asker]

Ummm yes they are actually saggy and they are not perky

[saphirasilverwings]

Well I can't really say without seeing what you mean but I seriously doubt that they are as bad as you make them out to be. I don't know what you're comparing yourself to, but it's not the average woman's breasts, that's for sure. Not if you feel this way about them.

[Asker]

Look I've done enough research of breasts and breast development and I'm pretty sure they aren't normal or regular and sag.

[saphirasilverwings]

If you're so determined I can't help you.

[m1988]

The only thing you can do if you want to change those things about your breats is get surgery. There isn't anything else.

[Brando]

I've learned to take these types of questions with a grain of salt. Since they are coming from you and people are their own worst enemies, it's hard to tell how much is being exaggerated out of insecurity.

So I'll say that breasts are supposed to "sag", it's gravity. Everything "sags" on me too, so don't feel left out ;) 36C's don't seem small to me, I think C cups are actually the average size in the US. I think you might just be stressing over your own body because you compare it with other women. How do you make yourself look sexier? Accept yourself and smile your biggest smile!

[katiesmuff]

You are way over rating your pitfalls young lady. Everything thing you said to describe your boobs makes them quite common and natural. Where the heck did you ever get the idea that 36C is small? That's what I have and they are anything but small and they sag. The girls use to look forward but now they are checking out my feet! LOL No guy or girl has ever complained about mine and I am quite sure when you get old enough to let others see yours there will be no complaints.

[Asker]

Yea they are small,or at least mine are but I don't think they are.Most of my friends have perky ones

[katiesmuff]

Don't work yourself into a frenzy by comparing your t*ts with other girls. We are all different

[l-hedoniste]

Find a boy who enjoys your breasts--it'll be easy, trust me--and let him spend quality time with them. Soon, you'll like them like he does.

[MareBear0615]

I like this answer....it's really true and believe me for most guys if you take you shirt off in front of them they aren't gonna say..."WOAH PUT THAT BACK ON!!!" lol don't worry it will be fine :) good luck when you turn 18 :)

[bytesunfish]

First and foremost, I sincerely doubt your breasts are anything to be ashamed of. 36C isn't especially small. It's pretty close to the ideal size in my book.

If you want to make them perkier, I really only know of one thing and I don't think this has been suggested yet... If you spend some time on bench press working out your pectorals, the muscles will become firmer pulling your cleavage up slightly.

[AnarchyBytchcraft]

I can vouch for that, plus the burn feels soo good!

[Cdawgg]

excercise your arms

[Xenophobia]

I like All boobies...just remember sing that song "I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts" hopefully that makes you feel better.

[strawberrysweet]

baby, I don't think there is anything you can do to fix this but a c is not small breast. and in my experience, all the guys I've been with love the big areola's. guys love boobs, no matter what they look like, don't beat yourself up over it. if it bothers you that bad, buy you a miraculous bra from victoria's secret, it will work wonders!

[JeanetteG]

Find a nice push-up bra and wear it all the time. Your breasts will take on that shape even if you take if off, if you wear the thing often enough.

[AkilJoseph]

Am not gonna lecture you then,lol but surgery would be one thing.But I can't tell you the guy that hates em would be a fool.

[dctrhu]

It is NEVER founded to believe that any man will think you're ugly or un-attractive. It isn't worth it, and neither is he, to be honest.

Believe me. If you have boobs, there are many people out there that WILL appreciate them, and you should be one of them.

[hunglowman4you]

Hello! In order for me to give you my professional opinion I need to know your height and weight. Also your mothers height and weight?

[Asker]

You're a freakin perv

[stalinhornsby]

You will grow out of it. Keep wearing a bra. Also, buy pretty bras.

[jacquesvol]

There's one thing that can make you happier: accept yourself as you are. Nearly all breasts, except the smallest ones, end up sagging.

IMHO a C-cup is not small at all, it's even above average. Large areola are exciting for a man. If yours are too light colored you can use lipstick on them.

[Asker]

Lipstick?No mine are dark:(

[jacquesvol]

I bet most guys will adore them

[jeffrey_lebowski]

36C is not small. And not everyone has perky breasts. So what? Sagging breasts can be sexy as well. My opinion. And one more personal opinion, I think big areolas are the most attractive thing(and I bet if you googled it you would find out that many guys think so). Why would you think that could be ugly? Don't think all guys have these stereotype opinions and want skinny girls with big perky breasts (which doesn't fit together anyways, by the way, unless you have implants - which I think is the most ugly thing). All breasts are beautiful, as long as they're not fake. Don't even think about getting surgery once you're old enough! Many people are insecure about how they look. But just check other questions here, the vast majority of guys are very clearly against surgery. I hope my opinion was a bit helpful.

[Houssam]

go to a doctor and get them fixed..36 C is a perfect size .. you only need minor cut - stretch- stitch kinda operations then

[SDiego]

I bet your breasts are more beautiful than you think they are. Honestly. I bet there are several guys who would love to see you naked.

[sexcrazed123]

sounds okay...

[vrana]

hey! I hate my breasts too... that doesn't mean you can't find a guy who does... some guys like small boobs, some like big boobs... but they are just boobs, personality really is what counts... [and that really is true]

[sunshine4hym]

Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do. HOWEVER. Heat makes a difference. If your cold and nothing is covering them, they get bigger, rounder, and perkier. It's a good thing ;) But it's difficult to accomplish if your in the middle of a makeout session or the likes. My advice, go somewhere chilly, or give yourself a few minutes before you see a guy, and manage it.

Next time you're cold, see if it makes a difference. :)

[bill15844]

Well first natural breasts sag a bit it's a gravity thing and as far as areolas go some of us love big wide areolas especially nice dark ones. The contrast is so sexy

[sydneybaoo]

36C,is not small.

36A maybe,but C cup is way above average.

Nipples? Not anything you can do about those,but perkiness...wear a bra to bed,push up bras can really help,too.

[Anonymous]

You can use a push-up bra. It makes them look better a a little bigger.

[Anonymous]

sweetie.. no guy is going to care what your nipples look like if he really cares about you and loves you. if he does care.. dump his ass immediately :) you are beautiful and deserve the best.

[Anonymous]

Your breasts sound like mine, lulz. Cept I love mine... (just the feel, even if the sight is sometimes discouraging)... Anyways, there aren't any exercises to improve the shape of your breasts. Sometimes working on your pectoral muscles can help lift your breasts a little, but that's a slight chance, I'm not sure how it'll work... Using weight training like the fly ( link might help.

Don't hate any part of yourself :) Other people will sense that animosity and it'll drive people away.

Plus, as friends told me back when I was having self esteem issues, you don't have to take off all your clothes when you're with a guy :)

[Anonymous]

be glad you have a small sized chest. I have 32dd and I hate them. yes I get compliments on how big they are but I always wanted a chest reduction. but I guess I should be thankful for what I got because it could be a whole lot worse, for ex they could be way bigger like my friend's chest is

[IHateMeganFox]

Same here sis, except 34DDs. For some reason guys don't even like big boobs anymore. its strange.

[18xkissez]

Same here! I'm a 34DD. my back hurts! haha

[Anonymous]

if you don't wanna listen to these pplease answers then go ask a plastic surgon what he thinks when you turn 18 and stop wasting these people time with your dum question until then wear a f*****g bra and never take it off. that way you don see them and they won't sag.

[Asker]

Why are you so rude?You obviously know nothing about breasts so you have no reason to answer

[peace-love-couture]

There was no reason to call her Q dumb.Maybe you should call the hundreds of Qs asked by guys "Is my penis big?" "Is my penis small?" "What can I do about me penis size?" dumb.And you really recommend she never show her breasts?

[soccerxally37]

He spelled dumb "dum", there is not point in entertaining his foolishness. But sweety, I didn't realize it until it personally happened to me, guys don't really care as long as they are boobs. Well, they care, but as long as they see boobs, they'll be happy. Also check your posture, it'll make them perk a bit more

[20Questions]

The only boobs I hate are the fake ones

[SDiego]

What an asshole...

[Asker]

You're a dumbass

[ZenSpace]

Dude, that is a bit harsh, this is a 16 year old girl who is genuinely asking for advice. There is no reason to accuse her of wasting peoples time. Seems like your the one wasting our time brother.

[Samii00]

Your answer,it isn't even an answer,but it was pointless.Why be so mean?She asked a serious question

[Anonymous]

well then stop looking at yourself naked in a mirror.

or just stop criticizing yourself. any guy who isn't a d*** wouldn't care.

[Asker]

I shouldn't have to dislike my body

[sa230e]

I agree. Stop disliking your body.

[Opinion Owner]

Well there isn't really anything you can do about it so why can't you just learn to love your body just the way it is? no one should have to dislike their body. which is why they should do something to change their attitude, not who they are. are you seriously going to pay money to get surgery when you're older? that's f***ed up.

[TayTay96]

Answerer You have problems. You shouldnt judge her about that, it's personal. If ur gonna be a b***** about it you can go fal in a whole

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not judging her. believe me I am totally self conscious I'm saying why would you try to change yourself when you can just change ur attitude about it. And its not personal. She shared it with the whole world on the internet. the minute she posted it here it was no longer personal.

[Anonymous]

Oh please. Small?! I wish mine were that small lol I'm 32 A. XD

You are one lucky gal, be happy with what you have, C cups are the perfect size :)

[Asker]

I didn't ask about my size