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What does it mean when a guy won't buy condoms??
Anonymous
OK so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and we have had sex before. The first time we used a condom (that I supplied aka got free from my college health center as a just in case Because the issue was starting to arise and I wanted to be prepared) and of course it broke. used plan b and everything was OK. I went on birth control immediately following this. We have had sex a few times since without condoms while on the pill (not a lot since we live so far away due to school and other things like roommate and parents and of course my period.) I have had a few instances where I have taken my pill late and then freaked out that I was going to be pregnant and of course when my period was a few days late I would freak out even more. Anyways. Now I have told him we need to use condoms this was a month ago and he still has yet to get them. I told him I wouldn't due to the fact I don't know which ones to buy since I supplied the cheap ass one that broke. I was home for a week for spring break over that week he tried 3 time to have sex with me and of course failed due to not having any condoms. I asked him why and apparently it doesn't cross him mind when he's at the store. even though we have had one of these instances where we were fooling around then a little while later we will go to target or something of the sorts. I just want to know what is up? I have never been with a guy that isn't jumping at every chance he gets to have sex. I am just really confused by it.
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 24Tell him that it's fine if he doesn't want to buy condoms, but if he doesn't, there won't be any sex.
haha he's too scared to buy condoms! or he doesn't like the feel of them
maybe he hates condoms, me and my boyfriend have never used condoms, I'm not getting pregnant again, I have 3 kids already and am in collage myself my boyfriend doesn't want to buy condoms because he knows I'm not ready for another child and I take my pills sometimes a bit late, I haven't gotten pregnant yet having sex more then once a day. guess some guys aren't concerned about making babies
He doesn't want to use them, that's a benefit of being in a committed monogamous relationship. Condoms really suck, I won't have sex with one, I'll go without first.
he is cheap and he doesn't care about you that much. he just cares about himself
Chuck Norris does not wear a condom. Because there is no such thing as protection from Chuck Norris.
No, Chuck Norris didn't finish High School: High School finished Chuck Norris.
hahaha he is breakin you down! go on one of the hormone thingys
cheap ass
What's happened since? Has he gotten them?
If you're unsure about the pill get the depo shot. Then you don't have to do anything. You should also both have a full battery of STD tests before getting rid of condoms completely.
it means he's an idiot. Condoms are cheap easy to use and are 99 percent effective if used right and they help you last longer.
He's apparently cheaper than he is horny...
birth control is an effective way to not get pregnant , its obviously not 100 % but it still works. so y are yu pressuring him to wear it chil..ur in a relationship you should trust him enough to hav sex and not worry about stds in sh*t
It means he is cheap and is only thinking of his pleasure.
Dump him
Dont sleep with a guy who isn't okay with using condoms...how do you know if he's not using one with other people?...think about it.