I know a lot of girls who worry about loosing it, a friend of mine said it hurt so much her first time that it took her a whole year to do it again and even then it still hurt, apparently it hurts more if your nervous about it. My first time I was 16.
I was one of those people who was really insecure about themselves and when a lad started taking interest in me I couldn't help it I fell in love with the idea of being in love, I would have given him anything, and I did.
id known him for quite a while but we had only actually been going out less than a day when we had sex.
my friends were really protective when they found out saying he had forced me into it and made me do it all because he was older and more experienced. The truth is if anything it was me who convinced him, I was ready and willing and he told me I didn't have to if I didn't want to.
I wasn't with him for very long, yes it may have been a mistake but I don't regret it, I was relaxed and comfortable and he was helpful and understanding, it didn't hurt, it felt good.
don't get me wrong I would never say that sex isn't a big deal but after the first time you stop worrying about things like whether you will be bad in bed or what hey will think of you when your naked and you think about the good stuff more.
well that's my opinion anyway.0 1 0 0Great to have a girl's experience on this.
I don't think there are that many people who are really "scared" of losing their virginity.
I was pretty nervous about sex at first. I wasn't worried about what would happen afterward. I was concerned about things like, would it hurt, what if I suck in bed, what if he's grossed out by my cellulite. That sort of thing. But after I did it once, I realized that none of that stuff is as big of a deal as it seemed. And I wasn't nervous anymore.0 0 0 0what happens after you lose your virginity, is that you're not a virgin anymore and you go on with your life.
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Scared of LOSING their virginity? Most people on here stress still having it.
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0 1heres what happens: you cease your obsession with trying to lose your virginity and that's it.
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