Make lots of hand motions when talking. Guys will subconsciously mimic your gestures if they like you.If you really want to hook him, wear makeup that makes your eyes appear larger and more prominent. Guys gravitate towards large eyes.people touch their neck, hair, clothing, or lips subconsciously if they like you. And if they can't look into your eyes, it's because they get embarassed, that means a lot. Or if they look too much into your eyes, that tells you that they think that the things you say are interesting, that you are interesting! That means a lot too.Please, please, please be yourself! Don't change to make someone else like you. If they can't love you for who you are, then they aren't worth it.Once you have a reason to talk, do it! Don't just randomly walk up to someone you hardly know and ask them out.When you're talking, look at body language. Read below for specific info.
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I'd say that he has more than a crush on you right now. That fact that you could enter into a no-strings attached relationship with him as far as having sex tells me that you still have just a crush to you, but definitely not to him. He already has feelings about getting too attached to you that way, and he's also worried that if you happened to get too attached to him in spite of your desired no-strings attached arrangement, that you might get hurt if he's not available for you as a boyfriend because of your non committed type of arrangement. A crush becomes more than a crush when you start bonding physically and emotionally and depending on each other. As long as you both feel free to come and go with no attached emotions getting in the way regardless of what you've shared with each other, it's still just a crush, a great friend or a FWB type of arrangement.
0 0 0 0Lol. Okay. So this guy has gone way more than crush. He really wants a relationship with you. But when he saw that all you want is just NSA sex then backed off saying he likes things as they are and he doesn't want to hurt you. It actually hurt his feelings and he is just hiding his emotions like that.
0 0 1 0Honestly, I only said that because there are complications. He's good friends with my ex too, which he didn't seem to care about. And he's got a girlfriend already! I can't see a relationship coming out of this, at least not right now, so that's why I suggested that. How do I take it back?
Open relationships are rarely, if ever, meant to be serious. His feelings for you are more serious than that for his girlfriend. Just tell him what you told us, except this time he may initially show as if he really doesn't have feelings (coz he would feel a little awkward to admit he was hiding feelings that way). But there is a very high chance that he would let you know his true intentions too. And probably he is not thinking about his current "open" relationship too much anymore.
Well, we stopped talking for a bit. I finally got the balls to contact him again, but we haven't talked about it yet. He seems a little off, so I figured I'd just try to make it less awkward. Also, he told me he was thrown off because I started talking to my ex again. We decided to stay friends, except now I get the feeling that my ex is not over the breakup and his friend knows that. I decided that we can't be friends if that's the case so for now no more of talking to my ex.
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0 1I told you that there's a lot going on his head. See. haha. I don't know what type of person he is but as for me I can't live with someone if I weren't serious. But from the present situation it seems that that's the situation with your friend and his "GF". It's kind of strange but they were probably having just a short term open thingy under the umbrella of "live-together open relationship". It's kind of strange though but it's true in this case.
0 0 0 0So do I continue contacting him every once in a while, or just let it be? He responds, but the conversations are never as lively as they used to be, but still he responds which is a good sign, right? And how do you know that his feelings for me are stronger than his girlfriend? He lives with her which to me is a big deal. I keep thinking how he really went out of his way to talk to me, even though we haven't seen each other since he started dating his girlfriend and we live 3 hours apart.
I said that feelings for you are more than he has for his Girlfriend because he has obstacles when approaching you - i) you were his long time friend. it's kinda difficult to tell your friend that you have a crush on her, risking the friendship. ii) he lives with his girlfriend and he is messing around you, which needs a certain amount of emotional drive to do, especially since you know both of them. You can overcome those two obstacles only when your feelings for this second lady is more than that for your..
Girlfriend. So, I am pretty sure that's the case.
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