Why did he try this in bed?

we were doing it doggy style and I orgasmd. when I come I kinda have those convulsions and I tighten up so he almost has to stop for a sec and then we change positions and/or get back to it. well this time I orgasmd and moved forward from the intensity and he came out. but then I'm pretty sure he tried to stick it in my butt lol like I was still coming for a sec and I felt him try to push it in. I've never done anal so he couldn't fit of course. then he just laid beside me.I don't EVER WANT TO and we have talked about it a few times. he always says he doesn't want to and wouldnt. we've been together like 9 months and he's never done this. so I'm not sure if he was just in the moment and accidently tried to get it in the wrong hole or if he was trying to do it real quick while I was orgasming and wouldn't have been able to stop him as quickly. if he really was trying why would he do it like that anyway when he knows I don't want to? and how should I talk to him? because I just acted like nothing happened and he never said anything. so should I just see if he tries again or ask him he really did try to slip it in?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • From that angle (doggy style), it's really easy to "miss" and end up "knocking on the wrong door", especially if you were moving a little or he was leaning forward and a bit off-balance. I'm not saying that he isn't interested in anal, because he may very well be, but I don't think this is really an example of him trying to be sneaky or anything. It's FAR more likely that this was a legit accident.

    Just so you know, it's also not uncommon for girls to bounce a little too high during cowgirl and end up coming down on him so he slips into the wrong hole. That isn't intentional either, but it happens sometimes if you aren't careful.

  • Both scenarios - accident or seeing if you'd do it when at peak hornyness - are likely.

Most Helpful Girls

  • my boy has done that a few times, especially when drunk...boys can be sneaky like that sometimes. They're usually lying when they say they don't like it.

  • accident but sure he probably wouldn't have minded if you'd have let him LOL

  • accident for sure. He just wanted back in and missed!

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  • Haha, I'm pretty sure it was an accident. Its not just him whose made this mistake.

  • Probably wasn't intentional.

  • Sounds like it was an accident. Those two areas of entrance aren't far apart!

  • he thought that maybe since you were excited and cumming you would have let him in you anally!

    he just trying to be slick!

  • Of course he tried to slip it in. He wants you to respond sexually without using words.