Why do guys leave right after sex?

my (ex) *cough* boyfriend lways leaves RIGHT AFTER sex. it makes me cry and feel like sh*t. he's like, "oh I have homework to do." well you can do homework later. ***girls- how do you feel when this happens? -guys- why do you do it?***
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Most Helpful Girl

  • he sounds like an asshole. he's using you.tell him how you feel and if you have someone close you can trust you need to talk to, talk to them. sounds like you're hurt and just make sure you choose a better guy next time. someone who doesn't leave you like this. not all guys are like this. guy I'm dating isn't like this at all. so find a better guy and maybe stay away from jerks like this.

    • Thank you. but I'm attached to him because he was my first time...so, I hope you can understand where I'm coming from.

    • Haha one more V-card he can chock up the list :D

    • He's your first time...so? you deserve better. unless you tell yourself that, you'll just end up staying with a jerk. if I stayed with my first time, I guarantee I would have been dead long ago, I was in an abusive relationship. sometimes you have to say no. say no and go forward. being stuck with someone who doesn't care about you is not good for you no matter if he's your first, second or whatever. guys go to work for it to be with you. don't downrate yourself in anyway.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys are not as emotional creatures as women are. To us, sex is intimacy. Also be careful, if he says he has homework to do, that could mean that he is interested only in the sex he has with you. Maybe he just likes you for sex. Is he romantic and likes talking about his feelings? Just be careful please since he could be using you. Good luck!

    • Thank you.

  • Sounds to me like you're just a come dumpster to him.

    No man that cares about his women leaves right after sex, or makes up excuses like that.

    That's not right, leave that asshat mc douche bag.

    You're under 18, I can GAURENTEE he doesn't care for you unless you're f***ing him.

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  • You're being used/played.

    • Haha yeah. as XOXOGossipGuy wrote how do you not realize this? He's young, in a world full of porn and loose girls, he's probably getting enough elsewhere

  • are you serious? he doesn't care/give a sh*t about you, you only uses you for sex, you're his come disposal. how do you not realize this?

  • He's your ex and wants to stay your ex.