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Why does my husband like playing with my ass so much?

My husband is OBSESSED with my ass. He wants anal every time we have sex, and if I'm not in the mood, he fingers my ass while he's doing me. Anything having to do with my ass makes him hard. Why does he like ass so much? It can't be just because of how it feels on his d***, because he puts his finger in there... I want serious answers, guys. I'm so curious as to WHY...
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  • As the saying goes, too much of a good thing isn't a good thing! It's much better to balance things in a person's life no matter what it is. Moderation wins out whether it has to do with alcohol, sweets, salt, certain foods, sports, etc.. unless a person is involved with that as a livelihood. Same goes for sex. It's OK if he prefers your ass and wants it often if it's OK with you. But wanting it all the time is out of line and will eventually lead to trouble in one form or another. Being obsessed with looking at your ass is one thing. Being obsessed with enjoying your ass internally is something else. Let's face it. That's not the main purpose of a person's butt to be having someone be sticking some thing in there every chance they get. He's definitely has a fetish! That's why! It needs to be controlled and calmed down before he does harm to that part of your body that needs to function properly in order to keep working the way it was designed to work. Once you start having trouble down there it won't be fun. He needs to be made aware that you do have other parts on your body too that need some attention. I do think you need to tell him "not so often" whenever he starts his usual routine. Just slow him down before that part of your body starts slowing down because of all the extra activity that wasn't put into the picture when it was designed. There's no reason you need to be giving into him all the time. Time to set your limits before it's too late. Good luck!

  • Theres not much about a woman a guy would or could not get obsessed about, so to have your ass at his disposal would only spur him on to enjoy it as much as possible, among other things as well, so just take it as his desire for you is so great, nothing could gross him out about you, to him your perfect and he wants to enjoy that,x

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  • I mean there are evolutionary reasons we could get into... Look at animals and notice how a when a female wants to show availability to sticks her butt out (cats, dogs, lions, monkeys, apes, chimps, etc) ... And I do believe that is the deep root of some men's attractions

    but I think the simple fact is that he has an a** fetish. some men like breasts, some legs, and on and on. It seems to me that he is just a butt man

  • I guess he just likes...big butts and he cannot lie...

    • > . < I knew that was coming

    • LOL. had to.

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  • Asses are fun to play with. It's also a traditionally taboo area, so that can be a huge turnon for a guy. Plus, since some women get pleasure from anal play, when he's giving it attention as well when he's in your vagina he's trying to stimulate all your areas. If you don't want that stimulation all the time, it's up to you to express that to him.

  • Well, in the past, I've been not too interested in anal, but experience has shown me that not women are tight, so anal will feel better.

  • Like most men, he's an ass guy

  • Im a an ass man myself. I love anal and playing with my girls ass.

    BUT, I think every time you have sex he has to put something in there is a bit much.

    If its bothering you I think you should talk to him and ask him to tone it down a bit?

  • He just loves women's butts! I'm an ass man and I always look at girls butts they are just so sexy

  • Well, he's a guy. That's what guys do.

    Just give him access to your asshole full time, and he's gonna be luckiest man.

  • so think he likes your back;)

  • I suppose its like a fetish.

  • Well I'm a butt guy, and every time I have sex I end up taking the condom off and finishing in her ass. Why? Well I'm a guy.. If I see something or someone I find attractive I want to f*** it, and if she won't let me f*** it I'll finger it. Because when it comes down to it I just want to stick something in there.

  • I have no idea why, but I am exactly the same way. I am equally obsessed with my wife's vagina and her ass. Fortunately she loves it and we have anal every time course conditions allow it, which is 95% of the time. I am a VERY lucky man.

    There is no good answer to your question about why. A lot of guys are that way. My wife's ass is magical to me and neither of us cares why. It just is. That's sexuality...there are no other answers.

  • That's because women's ass are very erotic and intoxicating to the eyes.

  • Sounds like he just has a fetish for butts. It isn't any different from any other fetish really.

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