Would you be disappointed at all if your husband had a short penis?

[Anonymous]

Would you be disappointed at all if your husband had a normal girth, but a 5 inch long penis? I know you would love him and all that, but would it bother you at all in spite of that, seeing as how he's the last man you're going to sleep with?

[Koncieved]

Your penis is in the average range. And the average penis is more than enough to satisfy the average vagina. Girth is more important than length anyways. Penis size is about as relevant to sexual pleasure as a woman's breast size is for men. The only reason she should be disappointed is if your not making her orgasm. So just satisfy her. Sex gets better with experience, not size. Someone with a 5 inch penis can make a woman orgasm. Someone with an 8 or 9 inch penis may or may not make a woman orgasm. Men with larger than average penises tend to be good at sex though, which I have a theory for. A man with a larger penis is going to be more confident and take a lot of pride in sex, thus he practices a lot with his partner and gain that experience in bed. While some men with smaller penises would generally equate to less confidence. They may be more timid and shy about sex, thus not getting as much experience. It's just a theory of course, a strong theory.

[TC123]

If she's into you she's going to get off. Penis size only matters if they have a big box.

Besides, would you really want to be with a girl who couldn't love you because your penis was only average? No, of course you wouldn't. You'd kick her to the curb and find someone better.

[Asker]

Nah man I figure she would love, but I would want her to be fully satisfied, and hopefully with what I've got.

[TC123]

If she's with you she likes what you have. Nothing more to it than that.

[acubed25]

Sex is incredibly important in a marraige but 5inches is actually average and a good size especially if you have a decent girth. Technically you only need 3.5-4 inches to cover all the nerve endings that are at the start of the vagina and also the g-spot. Most people think you need length but girth is actually more important. Personally I wouldn't be disappointed with a 5incher you can do a lot with that without ever having to worry about hurting her like you would if you had a longer penis and hit her cervix. The best way to know is to watch her during sex and see if she is enjoy herself and also asking her what she does and doesn't like and what she would like for you to do. Communication is key.

[rachiee]

Well if he's my husband than that obviously means that I've accepted him and not made his penis size an issue or I wouldn't have agreed to marrying him (that is if you practiced sex before marriage). But honestly the truth is that girls don't care about size when its all said and done if they truly love the guy. If the girl cares about an issue like that then she's not fully capable of having a real relationship based on feelings rather than just solely on sex.

[Asker]

Well I meant would her sex life suffer, however she might feel about her husband. Would it disappoint?

[bansheeminx]

I agree with Rachiee.

[Asker]

Better yet, even if you don't make penis size an issue, is it still an issue in some regard?

[rachiee]

No it shouldn't disappoint her if she is a genuine person and loves you for you. Guys always think that sex and their size is a big deal but its not a big deal at all if the girl is serious about you.

[Asker]

Wait, women say sex matters all the time. I know how when you have real feelings for a woman your feelings are more prominent, but sex is still important. can you address that?

[babyshambles]

It sounds like you are the one with the issue not your wife, she is probably happy with you annd loves you and its you that has a "manhood" issue and no matter how many girls on here tell you it doesn't matter you will still be worried! Seriously size does not matter trust us we know

[Asker]

Why can't men be cut a break for having a manhood issue, when we are always expected to be careful in dealing with issues of womanhood and femininity?

[babyshambles]

Because women are expected to moan and winge (although I dont!) but men are suppose to be men! like get a grip!! be a man!! suck it up and stop being a big girl worrying! Jesus she married you didn't she! :) xx

[needtoknownow]

Science proves that women only need 3 inches of penis to experience pleasure internally. So with 5 inches you have that covered. The fact remains that most sex professionals will tell you that the clit is the focus anyway. If you are that worried about your size just master giving her oral!

[cajundani]

It doesn't really matter to me...as long as he knows how to use it! and if he can't always please me with his d*** then there are other ways, but I have had small ones and large ones and since I am stimulated mostly by my clit...they all work goo for me!

[Asker]

That's interesting, so then how is intercourse itself important to your sexual pleasure?

[cajundani]

Its important because with you inside me you are hitting the g spot and clit stimulationat the same time......Wow....done right I am seeing starts!

[dynamic23]

IIRC, the only empirical studies done on penis length say that the average length is 5.1-5.3" with a standard deviation around 0.3". With self reported surveys, it jumps to 6.75". I would say that if you've got a 5" penis, it's not "short", it's actually rather average.

[missprettylady]

maybe your the type of guy that get bored easy and at the beginning the relationship is fun because is different from the one before but after a while it gets the same and it because boring to the point that you don't like anymore, yup it happens to girls to!

[Asker]

Huh?

[missprettylady]

Sorry mistake

[missprettylady]

yes I'll be devastated... I just hope he know how to work those fingers ;)

[Asker]

See every once in a while I hear something like this and I wonder wtf.

[Asker]

You would be devastated if he had a 5 inch penis?

[ap1100]

I don't think it's an issue. The thing I always find interesting is polls where women ask each other if their husband is the best sex they've had, and most say "no".

[mikesaracino]

And then they tell their husbands different. And why do guys have issues?

[dont-taze-me-bro]

As the saying goes, it's not the length that counts. Anyway, most women can't get off with pure penetration as is.

Lick the alphabet, woman goes wild, ?, profit

[Xenophobia]

...another penis question.

[TC123]

At least it's not one of the "who do I give a blowjob" ones that seem to show up a dozen at a time.

[babyshambles]

find other ways to please her, go down on her and perfect it so it drives her wild and she's begging for more, experiment with her,its not all about penetration for us anyway most girls are more sensitive on the outside. play with her while you are having sex BUT you probably don't need to do any of this she married YOU and she's happy with YOU and she loves YOU! Don't believe what you read its not all about the size xx

[Asker]

What you wrote kinda makes it sound like a 5 inch penis won't do the trick lol

[Asker]

You don't think a 5 inch penis could satisfy a woman? I would HAVE to do other things, even more so, to somehow make up for it?

[babyshambles]

I did not mean it like that! Obviously you are pleasing her aren't you? I mean you must be able to read the signs when you are having sex! I read your comment below to Rachiee you are asking if her sex life would suffer, well you are the only one who can say if it is or is not! you are being too negative and if you feel insecure and you don't want to ask her then I'm giving you pointers to just "try" in bed, if you know you are satisfying her then there is no more worrying! good luck x

[Asker]

:) Thanks

[ashley_17]

ummmmmm?

[Asker]

That's a yes, yeah?

[Shadow_in_the_dark]

not again 0_o

[needtoknownow]

Listen to me bro. Most women don't experience internal orgasms in the first place and most sex experts will tell you that what they think is internal is actually from the clit grinding during the ole' in and out. Any lover worth his weight in salt will learn good fingering skills and oral. Direct clitorial stimulation is what women want-- and if not there must be some psychological issue going on for the reason they don't want touched or licked.

[Anonymous]

I'd be so disappointed I'd probaby ball my eyes out. Really, if a woman marries a man, she probably already knows his size & if she doesn't, she won't care anyway because she loves him. Women aren't shallow, they love the man not the penis. Well, they love the penis too, but only because it is about of the man they love.

[Anonymous]

no

[Anonymous]

i'm assuming that we didn't have sex prior to marriage. I wouldn't be disappointed, because it's how you use it that counts

[Anonymous]

As long as you know what to do with it that would never be an issue. Actually that is pretty normal.