Am I just too unattractive to find love?

[Anonymous]

I'm 17 and I have 11 exes, yes you read that right, and you wanna know what? They all cheated on me, WITH MY YOUNGER SISTER. Every time I bring home a boyfriend they are all attracted to my younger sister, she has big boobs and a big ass, blonde long hair and huge blue eyes, very long eyelashes, and overall just a perfect body and face. (also a perfect personality). They all look at my sister, starts to flirt with her and so. I caught TWO of my exes having sex with my sister, 3 exes masturbating to her bikini pictures, a few making out with her, checked phones to some of my exes and they all talked about my sister to their bros, and so on. I've just given up hope, I guess I'm too ugly to find true love.

[kmg9150]

You engaging with the wrong guys... not every guys like that stereotype if features. I dont know how your ending up dating with them but do you feel you need to he in a relationship? Fill a void, feel an emotion, prove something to a sibling or yourself? Guys jerk off, whether to a picture of your sis or someone else its not something to be offended my, but sex... the other thing is you can't just blame the guys for fucking her because she allowed it. You ever think that your sister is the one getting them to to derail you? So its not they all want my sister, its your sisters makes them want her, because its not normal she just innocently has thes guys changing direction, and I doubt she is being forced to take the D... sound like your sister has issues with her own self image snd against you for whatever reason. But on your note, you should get to a point of self love to where you are happy by yourself, not seeking a relationship... otherwise your creating to much if a chance you'll be in it for the wrong reasons...

[Asker]

Thank you you're right

[kmg9150]

Thanks. It sucks, but dont let the fact that "its family" and can't cut them your life. I had to with my mom after realizing how long Id been mistreated. Just think of this, all your sister did was save you from wasted time having relationships with bottom quality boys... She thinks she's badass, but only scummy dudes want her, so stay up. Focus on you. Know what your worth, respect, honesty, kindess, support, etc. I wish there had been places like this when I was younger, I can't believe how long it took me to learn things should have known... hit me back for whatever, always glad to listen

[ohshee]

That really sucks that your sister is that way but at the same time I don't think it has anything to do with you being ugly because I don't believe that you are I believe that it has something to do with young boys didn't want to get in anybody's pants if they can and if your sister's going to allow it they're going to go for it this is going to sound stupid but it's true you should be happy that you found out right there in there instead of wasting all your time because now you know exactly who these boys are and you shouldn't want anything to do with him or them I think you just have somebody watching over you and they're protecting you from getting hurt from these boys they're waiting and wanting and have somebody else in line for you that would be perfect but you need to find more confidence

[Asker]

Thank you

[ohshee]

You're welcome but you have to understand your beauty is on the inside and the outside get that confidence and you will see what I mean

[Emii_Urashima]

Your sister should have enough respect for you to realize that your boyfriends are off limits.
I would not do that to my sisters. I understand that she probably has a high sex drive, and I can relate to that, but she is obviously attractive enough to find other guys besides the ones you bring home.
Oh, any boyfriend who would cheat on you with your sister is not worth your time, anyway.
You are better off without them.

[Asker]

thank you girl i love you

[Emii_Urashima]

You're welcome. It has nothing to do with you being unattractive! Your sister probably wears tighter, more revealing clothes than you do.

[Asker]

she does, every time i bring a boyfriend home so always goes and puts on slutty clothes ( she puts like a underwear thing but it's kinda transparent) and she bends over in front of my boyfriends. She also brings guys home all the time, from what I know her body count is over 100.

[Emii_Urashima]

Are your parents ok with that? You can DM me if you want.

[Asker]

my parents aren't alive, I am living with my oldest brother, he is me and my sister's guardian. (He's 21). Honestly he doesn't like it but he doesn't really care so she is free to do whatever she wants.

[butterflydivinity]

YOU are and always have been enough! '
They're attracted to your sister because they want the thing between her legs in my opinion and she allows them. I can't say the same for you, but a lot of men are pigs. You are valuable, you are worthy, but they aren't valuable or worthy enough of you.
Stop letting them get the better of you.

[Asker]

but 11 of them all cheated on me

[Asker]

thank you though

[butterflydivinity]

And ALL 11 of them... just want SEX

[iBeowulf]

The sister is a dirtbag, but men are pigs? The female own group grender bias levels. Smh.

[butterflydivinity]

@iBeowulf I didn't say all men, I said some men. I don't get why a 15 year old is having sex and allowing sex to happen between them 11 times over!

[Little_Bumblebee]

Your sister is just a big cunt...

[Asker]

pretty much yeah

[MCheetah]

You're seventeen! Not to mention, a female. Stop being delusional. You'll be fine. Also, you're probably taller than her anyway.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Red_Arrow]

No idea how you look since I have not seen you. But I bet you are not ugly! I am guessing your sister just has more sex appeal. That does not mean you are ugly, or even that you do not have sex appeal.
How old is she? And why does she fuck you over like that?
I would suggest that you do not bring your guys home. That will keep your sister out of it.

[Asker]

She is 15, I don't know why she is fucking my boyfriends. Thank you though

[Red_Arrow]

I still recommend that you do not bring them home. Go somewhere else. Keep her away from your guys. Sounds like the guys are creeps for doing that, but they are the ones you are with.

[Asker]

okay thank you

[Aurora1010]

I don't think she has a perfect personality if she did that to you, that's low and gross. I just find it hard to believe.

[Asker]

She is kice to everyone expect for me

[Taylor_C]

There are tons of ugly fuckers out there who apparently found love. If you aren't Frankenstein's monster, there is no reason you shouldn't be able to even if your sister is prettier.

[Asker]

okay thank you

[Grond21]

Extra points for knowing Frankenstein was the scientist

[iBeowulf]

What if your boyfriends were just with you for sex and your sister was more generous?

[Asker]

maybe

[iBeowulf]

Winner, by TKO: ya booooooy! 🥊

[TurningGraves]

You need to drop your sister… on her head. Maybe it’ll make her a bit uglier.

[Asker]

Thank you

[humpbackjack]

If it bothers you then whoop her ass that’s what a big sister is supposed to do to a little sister that does shit like that of course though I don’t think this is real

[Asker]

Ok thank you

[Koneko911]

Troll

[PoliteSpeaker]

This can't be real. What sister would do that.

[Asker]

Yep :(

[Browneye57]

It's not your look, it's your sucky personality. What is even more weird, is that at 17 you think you're entitled to some kind of exclusivity. So, out of the 11, how many did you actually intend to marry? None? That's what we thought. So it's not serious dating in the first place, more like just for shits and giggles, some entertainment, some fun, and some experience. You got that, so quit whining about everything.
Just don't bring the serious ones home.

[Asker]

I actually wanted to marry most of them :(

[Browneye57]

At 17? You're simply just not ready. And you're too impatient, and you have a poor self-image. Do the work, be your best, get some help if you need it.

[Asker]

Okay thank you so much

[es20490446e]

Get into threesomes I guess 🙈

[Asker]

No that's unholy

[es20490446e]

Then get a sister-less house.

[Ironic_Method]

Sounds like you have a type.

[Asker]

oh maybe

[AlexSal]

It's just the age. They are all inmature and horny to be in a serious relationship. It is obvious the guys are going after sex and nothing else. Wait a few years and it'll get better.

[Asker]

I hope so, most of them also go and fuck my sister because I am saving my virginity to marriage but my sister just has her legs open for anyone. Her body count is far over 100 and she is only 15

[Amyj987]

Perfect personality...
Sleeps with sister's bfs...

[Asker]

Yeah she is nice to everyone expect me

[Asker]

Expect for me*

[Yaharro]

No where just stupid to make them your boyfriend at the first place

[Asker]

Yeah..

[Twalli]

The big bibs would be a turn off for me

[Asker]

why is that?

[Twalli]

I prefer smaller boobs, always have. Ass shape is more important than size for me too.

[Asker]

oh alright

[Guanfei]

Your sister is just a hoe, that's all. Nothing to do with you.

[Asker]

okay

[Clarke498]

There's no such this as a "perfect face" or a "perfect personality". People like different stuff.
And just the face that you've been with 11 guys, is a crystal clear sign that you're not too unattractive.

[Asker]

Okay thank you

[EnglishEuropean]

You're having a laugh.

[Asker]

Maybe