Would you become exclusive with someone you haven't had sex with yet?

Would you become exclusive with someone you havent had sex with yet?
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No, gotta make sure we get along in the sheets first
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  • I voted yes. I will not wait for marriage. But I would prefer that we are exclusive as in boyfriend/girlfriend.

    Why? I don't know. Had plenty of one night stands. They're missing something. That something is the only thing I desire. I'm not really obsessed with sex for the sake of sex anymore. It was always a thing I was obsessed with not because I needed sex but because I needed to know that i was capable of "getting" sex.

    But sex isn't the thing I have truly craved all my life. Truly I have craved the love of a good woman.

  • NO. Sexual chemistry is just as important as an emotional connection.

    • Do you ask them to get tested by a doctor if they've had previous lovers, if they're even honest? 😂😉

    • STIs, etc herpes hell 👀👀👀🧐

    • @itsclearlynicholas We get it! You’d rather be somebody’s pussy boy. If that’s the best you can do (your face says it all)…oops, sorry, I mean if that’s your preference 🤣, then blue balls it is for you! Hold on a sec………………

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Most Helpful Girls

  • You can commit to someone & be exclusive before you even have sex. Communication of sex & sexual activity goes a long way. And I'm not just talking about marriage here either when I mean commitment & exclusivity, those things can exist in any healthy romantic relationship long before marriage exists.

  • Yep I subscribed and signed up to the no sex before marriage club.

    • Amy would approve 🎵🎶

    • Lol anyways, there's a movie out

    • @itsclearlynicholas even if Amy didn’t approve I do what I want with my life cuz it’s mine and mines alone 🎵 ha my song sounds better than yours I win 😝 lol!

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  • I refuse to be exclusive, even with people I'm having sex with.

    Would you become exclusive with someone you haven't had sex with yet?

    So no, it would be out of the question to be exclusive with anyone, regardless of if we've had sex or not. That said, I'm totally open to dating people without a sexual component or if they take a long time to feel ready to have sex. I'm not depending on them for my needs.

  • Just speaking for myself, we hooked up on the second date with my girl, and two years later, after many wonderful things, we’re about to get married. I wouldn’t be able to commit myself to a girl who is truly bad in bed, even though the reason to marry her is that she’s an amazing human being, but if she hadn't been really good at sex, I wouldn't have even stuck around long enough to figure out the rest.

  • Yeah. I called it getting married….

    • @dishlady most people have pre-marital sex these days

  • No I wouldn’t

    • Same.

  • Yes, I don’t show interest in more than one person at a time.

  • Nope. I had to make sure we are compatible sexually before becoming exclusive or form a relationship.

  • Hell no. That's a big risk. If he's not good in bed then it won't work

    • Agreed

  • Yeah, I only want to sleep with someone I love

  • Oh, absolutely. Not only is it typical for me to remain 100% faithful and exclusive to the woman I'm dating/serving, this is always a strictly one sided arrangement, in that she always enjoys the freedom to date other guys whenever she wants, with my blessing, encouragement and even financial support, as well.

  • Tough one.. Exclusive yes. Married no!

  • Yes, I wouldn't want to have sex if we weren't exclusive.

    • @peachpie93 but what if he sucks in bed?

    • @JHAYES317 It can be taught. As long as he is open to communication and pointers lol I only been with virgins they both sucked but got better.

  • Is that the moment they decided? Close call.

  • This is what I would consider normal tbh , I rather not be intimate until things are official

    • Would marshmallows or cream feature on any exclusive dates with the lucky date? 🌹 Just asking for being curious 🧐 lol 😆

    • I don’t really understand the question... If you mean would I exclusively date one person then the answer is yes (once I know they’re not messing around )

    • Would marshmallows or cream accompany the date? 🍦🍨 👀 👅

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  • That's what happened to me. Of course, as soon as we said yes and became exclusive, we went at it.

  • Sorry the pic made me laugh 😂😂

    • lol 😂

    • @Xia1994 I don’t know what to say 😂😂

    • Your comment made me laugh 😭😂😂🥂

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  • Yes. But sexual compatibility is very important. I wouldn't wait till marriage, and if we didn't click it would be a heavy conversation

  • I went with a girl for 4 years and did not have sex with her. She was saving it for marriage. I would never do that again.

  • I am already

  • Yes, being exclusive would need to happen before having sex with her, otherwise its too risky.

  • As a germ-freak, I often think I couldn't date a woman who's already "done stuff"

    • @mikethebartender I'll have a Pepsi thanks, (sir this is a bar) 🍺🍻 "Mike, here's a tip - Pepsi me please" just friendly banter get it. I obviously don't go to bars, when I find vending machines or elsewhere for my Pepsi fix mmm 😋 🥤 soda

    • @itsclearlynicholas thats not being a "germ-freak" thats having common sense about infections.

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