Am I wrong for wanting my boyfriend to call me dirty names during sex?

My boyfriend is great but he won't call me dirty names in bed. I want him to call me his bitch, slut, cumdumpster, whatever but he says he respects me too much to do that but sometimes I just want to feel dirty and like I belong to him. Like how can he have a problem with this when he has no problem with anal?
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Thank you I will talk with him later tonight to hope he can see reason.
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  • Not at all

  • I think it's fine. Not all the time though.

    Maybe discuss with him and use it like role play. Use dirty talk for not 1 - 2 times then avoid it for 2- 3 sessions

  • Oh I wish you were my pet my dirty sexy pet

    • Seriously you need to tell your boyfriend to man up and treat you like your his dirty little whore who needs to do what whores do suck all the cum out of his cock before someone steals his girl just for sex and threats her the way a whore should be treated in bed

    • Hey why don't you hit me if you want to I'll talk to you

  • Yeah

  • Its ok.

  • You like dirty talk and there is nothing wrong with that

  • All that words are so embarrassing. I would never say any of these to a person I love

  • Everyone is different.

  • Send his email, I will ask him and I will tell some New names which will bring you more pleasant

  • There isn't anything wrong with it you fucking whore!! Just kidding!! 🤣🤣🤣. That kind of turned me on!! He doesn't know what he is missing!! Lol

  • Thats hot

  • Let him know its something you like.

  • lol I can

  • It's normal during sex

  • you're not wrong at all. But on the flip side: some of us men aren't really vocal in bed. Maybe think of it as a sign of respect he doesn't want to verbally denigrate you?

  • ur not wrong, each person needs that to feel more excited, I totally understand the fact that u want to be his thing

  • Tell him you’ll give him blowjobs on demand any day in which he does this

  • It's not wrong if it turns you on. He may get better if you watch some porn together where the guys use that kind of language and you tell him how much it turns you on.

  • You are not wrong, he should be understanding and accepting of your desires, its not even abnormal. My wife knows when I call her "my slut" during sex that it's a term of endearment

  • He sounds dumb