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My vagina doesn't feel like a fleshlight?

so I'm in my 20s and I've heard that fleshlights are supposed to feel very similar to how an actual vagina feels. I'm feeling a bit insecure now because recently I had access to one and out of curiosity I felt inside of it. It is just a regular one, it's not one of those that vibrates or has extreme details on the inside. But it still felt a lot more textured than my vagina does. The fleshlight had ridges on the top and bottom that went all the way through the whole thing. When I finger myself, I feel ridges at the beginning but toward the middle of my vagina to my cervix it's completely smooth with very little texture. Does that mean I am possibly less "pleasurable" to a man since I don't have much texture down there? I have also heard that younger women have more texture down there. I am in my early 20s and never even had kids so I don't know why I'm so smooth down there? Is there something wrong with me? Do vaginas usually have ridges that are all over and not just toward the opening?

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  • So the way evolution works, it basically stops at adequate. The average vagina is adequately pleasurable enough to result in procreation. Nature ends there. Fortunately, people are greedy, ingenious and resourceful. So we can make an article that is more pleasurable than what nature intended.
    Fortunately for you men still have not experienced a sexual revolution like the one women had. It’s still widely considered creepy and perverted for a man to own sex toys. Men are also not encouraged to seek more satisfaction from sexual encounters. So their standards are actually pretty low. Finally, in the extremely unlikely case that you come across one self respecting man whose sexuality wasn’t completely demonized by every facet of society, all you have to do is bring more to the relationship than your vagina. He’s probably not telling his hopes and dreams to his flesh light. It’s definitely not cooking and cleaning for him. It can’t make babies.
    You have little to worry about. Your granddaughters though. They’re going to have to figure their sh*t out in a major way. Ell oh ell!

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  • Male "toys" tend to be designed with very exaggerated textures compared to the real thing, and you shouldn't expect them to actually FEEL like your REAL vagina. Part of the reason for those enhanced ridges is because they work to help retain the lube (which you are expected to use) much better than if the sides were smoother. Actual women produce their own lube, and so they don't need quite as exaggerated ridges, but since toys don't, those ridges provide several functions, one of which is keeping the lube inside and slowing how fast it dries out.

    Anyway, believe me, an actual live, wet and willing woman is ALWAYS going to be better than ANY toy - a toy is a very poor substitute for a real women, no matter how exaggerated the internal texture.

Most Helpful Girls

  • XD XD XD its retarded to really think a fleshlight is going to be the same as the vagina. its merely a tool and has nothing to match with.
    do not be having sex if something so basic eluded you. we don't need to breed more stupid

  • Why compare the best thing to a silicone? It's like comparing cock with a cucumber. Can that fleshlight self-lubricate and warm up by itself? I bet you that any man would happily prefer 🐱

    • Oh no, I can't edit that one. Should've just used the banana emoji lol.

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  • Haha . I don't even need to test that out I'll stick with the vagina

  • A vagina and a fleshlight are quite different. A vagina is a natural part of the human body, with its own unique features, including natural lubrication and muscle contractions. A vagina's texture, warmth, and responsiveness vary greatly due to a multitude of factors including physical health, arousal, and emotional state.

    A fleshlight is a commercial product designed to simulate the feel of a vagina. It is usually made from synthetic material to mimic certain physical aspects of a vagina, but it cannot replicate the complex biological aspect of a human.

  • I don't have experience with a Fleshlight but IME different vaginas feel surprisingly different.
    Also this might just be me but the part that feels the best is the initial opening/entrance so I mean I wouldn't even worry about it.

  • Sweetie a Fleshlight can't hug, kiss or move without human intervention. I can assure you that a guy would choose you over the Fleshlight as there is no comparison to the real thing.

  • When guys say a fleshlight feels like the real thing, we just mean that it's close to as stimulating. A real vagina feels way better because of the warmth, the fact it's actual skin so you feel the texture, the muscles moving in there, the way the woman reacts to what you do in there.

    The fleshlight feels really similar if you compare it to sticking your dick in a sock yea, but it's far from the real thing. Unless you're just a porn addicted dude. In which case there's literally something wrong with a guy like that.

  • Wtf are u talking about u get your insecure but you are doing way too much to much u can't know how pleasurable your pussy would be to a guy as u can't fuck your pussy

  • Vaginal Rugae. (ridges). Not throughout its length.

    • These ridges don't actually go all the way through the vagina? I've always heard that they do. If you don't mind telling me, when do they end in a normal vagina? Because I have ridges around my opening but toward the middle of my vagina all the way to my cervix the ridges start going away and it gets smooth.

    • Please?

    • These ridges don't actually go all the way through the vagina? I've always heard that they do. If you don't mind telling me, when do they end in a normal vagina? *From "first hand" experience, in about 2+ inches in and then it smooths out inside. You want this so semen does not collect in the valleys and prevent them from swimming to the cervical opening. The purpose of rugae is to receive more pleasure and stimulate the penis. Because I have ridges around my opening but toward the middle of my vagina all the way to my cervix the ridges start going away and it gets smooth. *Correct. you are normal.

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  • The problem is you are putting your fingers in your asshole because you are a fake account and don't actually have a vagina,

    Why would a woman "come across" a flashlight and put her fingers into it?

    Put more thought into your next troll question

  • Your vagina is perfect

  • There is no comparison. A realy vagina feels soooo much better than a fake one!

    One key point is how wet you get - with a toy you can lube up as much as you like. Do you get very wet?

  • Don't worry I'm sure your vagina does the job. It's suppose to do.

  • A toy isn't going to match the real deal, you have nothing to worry about. A woman's vagina is infinity more comfortable and stimulating than one of those things.

  • OMG your bag will beat a flashlight 100,000 to 1. Seriously? The real thing vs rubber m lube,?

  • This can't be a real thought lmfao

  • A fleshlight isn't warm. It's not naturally wet. It's not connected to another human being with a soul, and arms.

    If you believe your entire worth is the texture of your pussy, then don't be surprised when you are treated that way.

  • A real vagina and real butthole feel WAY better than a fleshlight

    • It's meant to replicate a real one tho. Mine is smooth inside, it's supposed to be textured. I'm young, I don't know why I don't have much texture down there. What could be wrong? And does this mean I won't be able to pleasure a man as good as a normal vagina would? Please be honest

    • I don’t think you have anything to worry about. I’m sure you’ll be able to pleasure a man and there is nothing wrong with your vagina. You can get different textures and styles for fleshlights that don’t exactly replicate a real vagina. Don’t worry about it 😊

    • Yeah but normal women are textured down there, are they not?

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  • If a guy chooses the fleshlight over your vagina then he most likely has some issues. They have ridges and ribs and vibrate because thats what they need because they dont feel as good as vagina

  • This is fucking stupid. You felt inside a piece of latex and now you're insecure?
    Gtfo

  • Any guy wants the real thing

  • Thank God. You’re a girl, not a plastic fuck toy.

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