Should I be concerned that I got a boner seeing my cousin in a swimsuit?

I feel really embarrassed and awkward about it, I don't know what to think.

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  • Yes. That’s how it starts! This exact thing happened to me and it lead to sex everyday then a whole kid situation. My grandma was not having it. We had to get rid of the kid.


    Hopefully by now you realize this is all bullshit… Totally kidding my dude. None of this happened. Just wanted to scare ya.


    Should you be concerned though? Fuck yes! That’s your cousin dude. Okay we get she’s attractive now and if you’re saying she’s hot than she’s really hot but, you gotta be strong and die inside a little when you see her and that’s all you can do. Hopefully she didn’t notice and definitely don’t tell her or the others! Asker her to bring her friends to a pool party. They might be on her level of attractiveness and at all costs don’t lay an eye on your cousin around her friends let alone ever again. You’re good though man, that’s life. Good luck!

    • She noticed.

Most Helpful Guy

  • i'm an American so it really shocked me when I learned that throughout most of human history in most cultures reproducing with your cousin is actually kind of the norm and no, there's not a problem with the offspring. there's enough genetic diversity there for the offspring to be perfectly fine.

    so, biologically, your reaction is normal.
    however, culturally, you're a very brave man for admitting that, and I would just keep it a secret.

    I literally have no female cousins so I have no idea what you're going through but the scientific part of me wouldn't judge you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • A girl I won't name told me her European cousin was hitting on her at parties and it made her uncomfortable. I would just say to avoid it and hope they find somebody and forget about you.

    • My cousin seems to like it.

    • You guys both sound young. If so it's the raging hormones whispering in your ears.

  • As long as she's above age, nah, don't be concerned. Can't help biology

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  • Hey it happens it’s natural. Hope she didn’t notice, but don’t worry about it

  • Only if she laughed.

    • She didn't, pretty sure she was flattered. Lol

    • @Asker can you follow me asker?

    • The male question anonymous asker please follow me? You sound a groovy guy lol with the 31 year old relative lol 😆 swimsuit lol

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  • It's not normal. Secretive incest. Yuck.

    • I've try to control myself, sometimes I can't.

    • Then get help. Stat!

    • Incest only happens if you act on it. Plus cousin marriage is legal in parts of the US and other countries.

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  • No, I always got a boner seeing my cousin in a swimsuit, especially putting suntan lotion on her legs !!!

  • Attraction is attraction. If you didn't act on it no harm no foul. I had a cousin who was super gorgeous growing up definitely was attracted physically but not in any other way. She is not attractive anymore saw her a few years ago at a funeral. Yikes time passes quickly

  • We can’t help that. Our monkey brains don’t care for our ethical values. As long as you don’t act on it you’re good

  • How old was your cousin?

    • Thirty one.

    • Ok then who cares? It's not like she was a young teen or something. Did she notice?

    • Yeah.

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  • Why would u be embarrassed about it huhh

  • Don't worry about it

  • Nope, as a mater of fact if you think she has any interest perhaps let her know. You don't need to yank it out and start pounding on it while looking at her but she may have some ideas

  • No. You can't undo millions of years of evolution If you found her attractive. If it just happens spontaneously, same thing - evolution. Don't sweat it!

    • It happened another time when she was in a dress.

    • So? You're related, you're not dead. You wouldn't be the first and you won't be the last.

    • THIS. He's far from the first guy to think a female cousin was attractive. He'll be fine as long as he leaves it at that, and thinks with his brain and not Peter.

  • Not necessarily. It's natural to be aroused at the sight of a person who's physically attractive to you, can't really help that part, especially if you're a younger person going through puberty.

    Nothing to be embarrassed about, it's a bodily function... as long as you leave it at that you're all good. Don't overthink it.

  • Yes. Now bugger off to Alabama.

    Simples...

  • If she's hot, it can't be helped. I get aroused if I see my sister shaking her ass.

    • She's hot.

    • So it's not a surprise.

    • She noticed and smiled.

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  • haha yeah. What were you thinking?

    That's a rhetorical question. I don't want to know what you were thinking.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/nWN7POyT1wk
  • No it's normal

  • Did she see it? Or you are the only one who knows? If she saw it don’t worry about it she is probably a pretty girl anyway. If you are the only one to know then don’t worry about it because know one else knows.

    • She saw it and smiled.

    • So you may need to show her more often….

    • Let's not encourage incest, please 💀

  • Aslong as you don't act on it you're fine

  • No. It's how I started hooking up with my younger cousin.

  • You can't control biology

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