Any advice for new mommy doms?

[LittleAF73]

So I used to be into ddlg, from the little perspective. I recently got into a casual relationship with a guy, and we're both switches. I've abandoned my past ddlg life because my experiences with daddy doms was very toxic. This guy recently told me he's into mdlb (mostly just the nicknames and the dynamic), and I've always been curious to kinda try things out as a mommy dom. We've been kinda testing things out at the moment but I just feel like I could be better. At this point I'm using what I know I wanted as a little, and basically trying to give that to him as much as I can. The attention, being called cute things, reassurance, and just being there for him. Just basically trying it out with the stuff I wanted, and without all the toxic traits I had in a ddlg relationship. Because I know how much it sucks, especially when I was feeling little. Am I starting off well? How could I improve? Anything helps, and please no hate ❤️ thanks

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you sound like a lovely and beautiful woman and your desire to be pleasing to your man is - and I really mean this - beautiful. It may just in part be your sexual instincts (and his) but that does not make it less.

My girlfriend and I tend to have a rather natural and primal sex life. NOT in a BDSM sort of way but in an "animal" and "instinctive" way, with licking and even some biting and scratching. I could go on, but my point being that I cannot really say that I have anything useful to offer you by way of advice.

However, what I will say is that, every now and then, we do want to switch it up and sometimes I do want my girlfriend to be either dominant or - more often - the "mommy" role.

Especially, I admit, something happens when I suck my gfd's breasts. Suddenly I feel like a "baby" again. I just want her to hold me and stroke my hair as I nuzzle up to her in her lap and lick and then suck on her nipples. (When she was lactating after having our three children, it was especially intense.)

All I know is that I want to be held and cuddled and I want to hear my girlfriend tell me that she loves me and that I am a good baby. Mommy loves me and I am naked and she is naked and all I know is that I am safe and wanted. Her nipples offering me nourishment and a feeling of being loved. (My girlfriend even suggested putting me in a diaper and maybe her changing me, but we have never gone that far.)

My point in all this is that it is less about what you do than the atmospherics you create. Make him feel like a little boy or a little baby. Know that he wants to be comforted and loved and held. Stoke his hair as he suckles you and tell him that he is a good boy and you love him.

That will do more for BOTH of you than you can imagine. The mood drives the technique, so to speak, rather than the other way around.

Again, truthfully, it is not that my girlfriend and I go that way very often, but she has made it memorable when she does. She gives in to every mothering instinct and I just regress to the baby that I used to be. I hope that helps - at least a little.

[Opinion Owner]

Saw your update. Very sorry to hear it. Do not lose heart, though. Give it time and move on. Because, in time, someone as lovely as you seem to be will find someone who will care for you and appreciate you for your incredible qualities. Including that willingness to go the extra mile for a man, emotionally and sexually. Happiness always.

[LittleAF73]

Thank you, means a lot

[sarasubmis]

Sounds like fun. You seem to be doing a good job so far, you sound like a very caring mommy ;)

[sissyboy86]

OMG I dream of finding someone like you

[sissyboy86]

So sorry he's gone! He doesn't realize how are someone like you really is

[Big_boody33]

Yeee i'm a mommy dom lol i love doming littles

[Big_boody33]

Pm ill tell you okie Im a switch so I know both sides