How does it feel to be dominated by your partner?

[Anonymous]

I am going to be dominated by my partner next weekend and I'm nervous about it. He's going to be very aggressive and rough with me. I've been wanting this for a while but now I'm scared as the time is steadily approaching.

He says he's going to put his dick all the way in the back of my throat hard and rough. I'm afraid of gagging on it.

How do I prepare myself for this?

[RavVid]

Look the thing about domination is it doesn't need to be rough or hurtful. A man is sufficiently stronger than a woman that he can force sex upon her. but he doesn't have to hurt her in doing so.

As as an example - a man pins his girl down and doesn't give the option of NO. Not allowing the option of NO is the essence of domination. He is going to penetrate your vagina with his cock regardless of what you say.

Now he could ram it in and hurt you, or be more insistent and just be a little slower giving you time to wet up. Both are dominant, you get no NO vote and you will be penetrated. In the first case you may be dry and be hurt. Maybe it turns out that faced with imminent sex you wet up immediately - that is a self protection mechanism women have. But you aren't going to know first time out of the gate.

With your expected face fucking, gagging is an autonomic reaction and is nearly certain to occur and you also need to breath.

I think redo the rules of engagement. You don't get to say NO. You do get to struggle cause that is fun. Nothing intentionally hurtful.

People will say to have a safe word. Your throat is filled with penis - a safe word will work won't it? In any case a playful No, Stop, Get Out is entire different to No, Stop, Get Out you're hurting me. Safe words are just stupid PC.

[MicahRaine]

Don't get into it until you understand it and you're completely comfortable. Otherwise you'll be unprepared and it'll end up being more than you expected and could feel more like rape than sex

[Asker]

Oh ok. Thank you.

[LadyKitty]

Okay now domination doesn't have to be about rough oral sex. I suggest looking up bdsm and make sure you are doing things much more safer and stuff you are potentially into.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[MadhuriDixit]

Feels so good that words can't explain! I often can't get over how sexy dominant men are

All you have to do is completely submit your body for him to have his way !

[Asker]

Ok I can definitely do that! Thanks!

[Arabianhorse]

Just be femenine and submissive in a sexy way , not like a died body tho, you will love it , you always can take it out when you feel you gagging right before its too late

[spartan55]

Are you sure you understand what you are getting into?

[Asker]

No I'm not which is why I asked the question. I'm not sure how it's going to feel.

[spartan55]

If you are unsure you definitely should NOT do it. DO NOT let your boyfriend pressure you into it. If gets mad about that he's a douche you should dump.

[Asker]

Ok. He's not pressuring me into it though. It was my idea initially but if I no longer want to go through with it, I will just tell him and I'm sure he will understand. He's a really good guy. He is actually extremely nervous about doing it.

[spartan55]

Okay, well that's good. You should have a candid discussion prior to do it to find out what you are both comfortable or not comfortable with. Decide on a safe word and be prepared to use it if needed. I know that all sounds a little weird but it makes things so much better.

[Asker]

Ok. I will have a very honest discussion with him about it prior to doing it and we will come up with a safe word. Thanks.

[spartan55]

Good luck, and have fun. Don't take it too seriously. All of the best sex I've had has had a healthy amount of communication supporting it.

[Asker]

Ok. Thank you!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Tell him to take it slow. He's probably gonna try to act out a porno thinking there's no reason you wouldn't be ready for him to go ham right off the batt.

Even if you're being dominated, you still need to control the pace if it's just the beginning. Come up with a safe word and tap out if you can't do anything else like how they do at the end of a ufc fight.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[The_Sexpert]

Just have a safe word and everything will be fine

Trust him.. that's the beauty of sex..
Especially when you're getting dominated you are very vulnerable... thus it requires a high level of trust on him for you to submit to him

The one who needs to prepare and plan is him.. all you have to do is lie back and submit to what he does

Hope he gives you a safe word and a safe gesture before hand , else remind him of that and make a decision mutually... and use it if anything goes wrong just in case

Thank you

[Asker]

Ok thank you!

[bowenw]

Practice with a dildo to work on your gag reflex. I've heard some people use a toothbrush.

Be sure establish a safe word and hand signal to stop him if you are not comfortable.

[Asker]

Thank you. I will do just that!

[bowenw]

Try to enjoy it. Please feel free to DM if you wish anytime.

[Asker]

Ok I will. Thanks.

[Iron_Man]

I wanna allow it ever

[Iron_Man]

Oh, I didn’t read the rest of your question. Why do you surround yourself with these kind of people? This will never end here. This will continue on and on.

[Asker]

You saying you won't allow it?

[Iron_Man]

Yeah, that was voice command error. I won’t allow it to be dominated.

[Asker]

I said I wanted it and he just decided to do it.

[Iron_Man]

Well, I had told you that I didn’t read the rest of your question

[Asker]

Oh ok.

[NewUser22]

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[MasterKS]

you will have great time.

[jamie8989]

Is his dick overwhelming big that u won’t be able to handle it?

[Asker]

Its not overwhelmingly big but big enough to choke me when doing deepthroat.