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Sexual Health Any guys here who are AGAINST their gf masturbating? How can I get my boyfriend to join me?
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My bf for some reason hates the idea of me masturbating. He says that he wants to be the only one to please me. He said before he would masturbate a lot as a teen and he doesn't want me to get like he was. I told him a showerhead is nice, but dick is better and he has nothing to worry about. I told him I just have a high sex drive and can't see him everytime I want to. I keep trying to reassure him that vibes, showerheads, nothing can replace his great penis, tongue, or his hands! I have fantasies where I'm using my showerhead to focus on my clit and him kissing my neck and licking and sucking my tits. I have other fantasies that involve me and him masturbating and watching each other. Many more that I'd like to do with him but he's so against it. :/ Any guys here against their gfs masturbating as well? Is there anything she can do to change your mind? Should I just give up on him accepting it? Any ideas? Help please? :/
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l tell him I only think about him and the things we normally do during sex when I masturbate. Which is true, I think about him and all the things we do. I tell him when I'm pleasing myself, I think about him. He still is against me masturbating :/
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 29Wow, sounds like he has some serious control issues. It could turn into something far more serious later on.
Do it in front of him. Give him a good show. Let him see how you like to be touched and he will get over that hang up real quick!
... also if you masturbate while deepthroating him, I can't imagine a guy not enjoying that.
yea nothing wrong with girl masturbating my ex-girlfriend
used to do it in middle of night when we watch t. v. late at night
well she did it cause i like being cock tease i loved the smell her
pussy would put off i laid there my cock would be rock hard but
i told her it was okay i use pull my cock out of my underwear she
would watch it grow much bigger and harder she run her fingers
under my nose, face give me sniff oh wow i loved it after hour
with hard on i let go of my load of cum we both be laying there
breathing so heavily
I don't get it. I think it's hot when my wife masturbates. It turns me on when she tells me she has done it. I travel a lot for my job and she tells me when she does it while I'm gone because she knows how much it turns me on.
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No it's not only girlfriends I masturbate with female friends and family. Your boyfriend is nuts.