Any men can handle relationship without sex?

[Anonymous]

Personally I wouldn't like to lose my virginity till marriage but I guess any men wouldn't handle relationship without sex.

[TonyV]

Some guys are also religious, they exist.

Me personally, no I wouldn't be in a sexless relationship, I'd maybe intertane the notion of either the poophole loophole, or just blowjobs cause I know some religious women while do that stuff but strictly no sex, no.
I wouldn't wait years to have sex and I wouldn't rush into marriage to get it either.

I definitely wouldn't do all the other relationship stuff without sex either, we ain't cuddling or sleeping in the same bed, not even sleeping in the same room, would just be to frustrating, we'd almost be more like roommates at that point.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Forever? no, thats not a relationship, its a weird friendship. However if its just waiting till marriage like you mentioned, I would wait, but only 1 day before engangement.

I need to know the sex is good before agreeing to marrying someone, but I also need to know the mental compatibility is good before having sex (and knowing the latter takes a few years, so if thats not enough waiting time for her, nothing is).

I've never had sex and I'm in my mid thirties, I can handle it just fine, but I'm not marrying a woman who isn't horny or isn't compatible in bed.

[Càitjet]

It's about compatability, if you both believe to wait then it's easier. There's men that wait until marriage too it's just finding then, but your area for dating is reduced drastically. If you want to save yourself that's a choice you stick too for yourself, not because men 'can't' have a relationship without sex.

[MTC29]

My SO is constantly horny, so I'd like to give it a try.

[ChrisMaster69]

There are guys like that, however as with girls wanting to wait until married, they are few and far between.

It’s all about two people being compatible.

Would I want to marry a girl who is saving herself for marriage, no as I would not know 100% that she was not a percentage of asexual, had sexual hang ups, would then turn sex into only for making kids and not for pleasure.

it’s personal choice and mine has always been to avoid that type of girl totally.

[Freiburger]

If the man's family and wider community expect him to marry a virgin, then yes. However, if this is not the case, no - most men will not wait until marriage, and most women will not either.

[Jamie05rhs]

They don't expect me to marry a virgin (because they're even more cynical than I am), but they DO expect me to maintain my own virginity.

[Berethor]

If you virgin that wait till marriage then you might be worth it, but it not much of a relationship.

[mrmonogamous]

I do not believe in promiscuity, but I believe sex belongs in serious monogamous long-term relationships. I cannot imagine marrying someone without ever having had sex. It is vital that the two of you are compatible between the sheets.

[ticklelover2045]

Um I am and have been in a sexless relationship for more than a year and I am a virgin anyways

[Avicenna]

Very few can, TBH. And you'd have to be worried about him cheating because of this. I've seen it happen.

[Asker]

But im so shy and I don't want to end up with bad relationship.

[Avicenna]

Someone like you is at great risk of being cheated on. Choose a guy very wisely, because some may say they can wait until marriage, but few can.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Avicenna You don't have to be so negative.

[Avicenna]

@Jamie05rhs; I'm just being honest. She's going to get a variety of opinions here, not just mine.

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs probably he is right most of guys told the same.

[Jamie05rhs]

What did those guys tell you? That they would cheat if you didn't give them sex?

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs kinda yeah.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker That's messed up.

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs can't change the fact

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker You can "change" the guy! (Meaning get a different one.)

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs I know but you should know all the man want to have sex end of it so..

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker No, they don't.

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs at least most of guys are like that or they want to get intimate with the girl they like.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, most, yes. My issue was just with the word "All."

[Dargil]

I do not expect intercourse, but I do want sexual intimacy (hand and oral).
A relationship without sexual intimacy is partitioned and I would not stay with it.
If I don't cum (within a reasonable time), I will go.

Men make better pals.

[RealMarek]

You’re most apt to find a man who would be compatible with this at a church, and even there it will be a minority of men in most cases. Also, waiting until marriage does not guarantee a good relationship. I found that out the hard way.

[FunkyMonkee]

I did it for 6 years!

[Wubs3000]

religious or asexual men yes

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm not asexual, but I am religious.

[bowenw]

Is oral permitted? I could easily live with just that.

[Asker]

I dont think so but probably every guy would ask it from me. Maybe if I like guy a lot.

[bowenw]

I hope you like the guy a lot if you plan to marry him.

[Asker]

I hope so

[bowenw]

You will have to let the guy know your feelings about sex before marriage and what is and isn't permitted.

[Asker]

There is no guy around. I'm just too shy and I asked here because dont have courage to ask this someone else

[bowenw]

I'm sure there will be many guys in your life.

[Asker]

Probably thanks for advice

[bowenw]

I wish you all the best.

[Asker]

Thanks 😇

[bowenw]

Please feel free to PM me if you wish.

[Kreneman]

I use to struggle with that along time ago but now I am waiting for marriage. I have been celibate for over 10 years and now I am engaged to get married soon.

[Ironic_Method]

I'm sure some can, but not me. Also, it would really suck if you got married and then found out you weren't sexually compatible.

[MikeInHawaii]

It shows you’re worth having and you’re weeding out your bad relationships before they begin. Just be aware some fuckboys will still be interested because they want a challenge.

[Pejtu]

No thanks if u dont wanna fuck then whats the point of being together

[Jamie05rhs]

I can! Easily!

[AimeeKyle]

I wouldn’t, but that is just me.

[Johnthompson418]

Not true

[pizzalovershouse]

Its cuz you dont have to wait till marriage if the guy is willing to wait a month or 2 an if you both really care about each other then it's how you show each other your care it's like a bonding of 2 bodies in doing what feels right for each other's pleasures

[Jamie05rhs]

@pizzalovershouse True love isn't about pleasure.