Anyone else have the problem where you like a specific sexual thing but your body really isn't made for it?

Sorry for the random bikini pic in January but I just wanted to show that I have a thin frame but recently I find myself wanting more and more rougher sex even though my body can barely handle it. Any solutions to this? I've just tried getting used to it by making it a regular routine.
Anyone else have the problem where you like a specific sexual thing but your body really isnt made for it?
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  • This is a new and interesting kind of sex question. Personally I've never had that issue, but it's always been the women who couldn't handle something I wanted to do or couldn't handle my heftiness, which is why I tend to be gentle when first getting intimate until they get good and warmed up and can trust me, and I'll admit that I tend to be paranoid about hurting them in some way. But I know what you're talking about being slim and wanting hard sex that is a little too much for you, as I've heard some other women say that.

    • It sucks because I actually prefer guys on the "hefty" side because during sex the extra weight and pressure will make me orgasm really hard and if he fucks hard then it's guaranteed multiple orgasms but I just have to endure some pain and being scared of getting crushed lol

    • I think you should try to pack on at least a few pounds if you want to handle our hammering better lol.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I was with a very nice, very sexy girl who desperately wanted vaginal penetration from behind while spooning. She had too much padding in the rear for me to get much more than the tip in from the very curled up position she wanted. She wanted to try it all the time. It was fine for me—especially as it always ended with me giving it to her hard from behind while she was laying flat (she had the perfect body for that!)…but it disappointed her that she was not built for the specific thing she wanted.

    • Gotta have the long dick for the fat asses.

    • I know. It’s about the only time I ever felt dissatisfied with mine.

    • That sucks. I can imagine how it fucks with your head. I hope you bounced back from that.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I like to have sex as close to 24 hours as possible even though i know i’ll be in extreme Pain after. Like literally paralyzed, can't walk, stomach cramps type pain. But sometimes its so worth it

    • It's definitely worth it or else I wouldn't keep risking it!

  • "Any solutions to this?" - Yes, try putting some meat on those bones. I can actually count your ribs.

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  • Why does that look like Vancouver in the background?

    why do you want rougher sex, is this like a slowly becoming more desensitized thing or just a desire?

  • I bet the one or one's giving you that sex are walking around with big smiles! LOL

    • Bet!

  • I think you can do it. You are fit.

  • Honestly the only thing I can say to that is to try to muscle up. Your body is so thin I’m not sure you can get much more muscular but that would protect the skeleton more as well as give some padding from the hard stuff.

  • I got too many questions of my own, have you tried discovering whether it's a position or momentum thing?

    There are adult toys for that