Are Female Doms Attractive?

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I'll be blunt. I like it when guys beg. I like it better when they cry and beg all tied up. I like it when they say please and ask first before even attempting to send me nudes.

It took me awhile but I recently realised that I may be a dominant. I haven't changed, though! I still talk nicely to guys and ask for their opinions and preferences. It's only when I bring out the subject of ropes and tying them up do they start giving me weird looks.

Guys have double standards. Why can't they let a girl tie them up when the idea of tying up girls appeal to them so much? Is it because females doms are unattractive and unnatural? Is that it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For a while my wife and I had a very toxic relationship after we were first married probably because she was still in her teens and shit testing me and thinking that a wife should dominate her husband, I didn't know what to do until my Dad told me how to get her under control by spanking her. I only spank my wife to discipline her when she misbehaves or is abusive. The last time I had to my wife called bastard and tried to slap me over something petty. I handled it by putting her across my knee, lifting her skirt, pulling down her underwear and slapping her behind with the flat of my hand as hard as I could repeatedly for five minutes until her ass was red raw. She cried and was still mad but calmed down when I said id give her some more and she ran off to her parents. She later came and apologised and admitted she was was wrong and deserved what she got, I guess her folks set her straight. We had amazing make up sex and she was able to sit down again normally without soreness a few days after. She has been as good as gold since, id recommend it to any man who's woman isn't acting right.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I find female doms attractive. I like to switch between dominant and submissive roles, so the ideal would be a girl who is comfortable with both roles, too. I love both tying my girlfriend up and being tied up by her. I love the feeling of being unable to resist anything she wants to do to me.

Kkaos · Answer

I'd be attracted to it if she was older than me as that would help sell the situation. If she was the same age or worse, younger, it just wouldn't feel right.

KeiranByrne · Answer

I love dommes!

GingerGuy · Answer

Some guys LOVE that. I'm not one of them but might let you do it anyway if it brought you pleasure. I'd be only doing it for you though.

Dargil · Answer

Not in the slightest.

Intraluminal · Answer

Lots of guys would live you. Go check out FetLife

dazza0791 · Answer

oh well its the kind of partner i would have liked if i was single as i enjoy the things you mentioned and then some.

Tomsta · Answer

I'm a switch so i have both sub and dom tendacies and will happily be the sub from time to time

bruce3 · Answer

ı dont like it

Decentguy · Answer

not to me, because im dominant

Yumix · Answer

yup. I consider myself switch so I can see the appeal

ACrazyHaggis · Answer

yeah i can kinda see why some guys appeal to that not sure if the whole cry and beg thing is all me but the role reversal in the bed room can be a good way to mix it up a lol

_HimigNgKalayaan_ · Answer

Nope

Blitzkrieger · Answer

Its about sexual turn ons not about double standards. Just accept that most guys are not submissive.

CT_CD · Answer

I wouldn't let a girl tie me up. Then she can do anything she wants and I can't get away.

dontknow12 · Answer

Yes I find them attractive. I like when they take what they want.

Kevin11231999 · Answer

I don't have a problem with them. My girlfriend is a little like that. Never been tied up though

bustmyballsmiss · Answer

hell yeah 😀

SunWav3 · Answer

everybody is different. I actually love dominant women and I love to be tied up but usually men are the dominant ones and I think the majority of men likes to be dominant or they just have the mindset that they have to be the dominant ones, so a girl who takes over this role may be seen as strange or as someone who takes away a part of their manliness. I don't know if that's a good way to describe it but I hope you know what I mean. I don't mean it in a bad way, as said I personally love it and you'll find someone who does as well.

and I don't think that female doms are unattractive by the way. but when a man doesn't want to be tied up, he shouldn't be forced. he just won't enjoy it

RBNBXL · Answer

yes, i think from time to tile being dominated is very excitening.

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer to be the one tying and beating up the girl. But I'd let you hit me so I have a reason to take revenge and make you my slave. :D

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