Are there any guys who just completely given up on dating?

[Anonymous]

I just don’t see the point I’ll be 25 on my next birthday no real friends and never been in a serious adult relationship. I’ve only slept with 2 women (lost my virginity at 21 and the only thing that’s saving me from being an “incel” is probably my looks n height (I’m 6’4) people tend to think I’m just some pussy magnet or I just get women easily lol and inexperience past a certain age is definitely a turnoff to women (no my dick isn’t small) I see guys complaining about how height and looks are everything lmao BULLSHIT! I’ve gotten over 100 matches on tinder in just 3 weeks but it leads to nothing no dates maybe complements but that’s about it. I honestly plan on taking myself out at some point I’d rather do that then live past 30 or even close to it. I feel like it’s much more difficult dating for men , life in general. With men it’s either you have it or you don’t and most men don’t. I’m handsome but I’ve had good looking friends and honestly women throw themselves at good looking guys despite what they say they just don’t want to be labeled a slut.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Thanks for sharing your story. I can relate myself, on the good looks and still not being lucky enough to find someone. It’s all choice for me. I rather wait than match left and right with the wrong people continually.


I have given up though and am ok with that decision. I’m living life, chasing dreams and accomplishing goals. 👏🏻🤙🏻

[8Bit_LYNX]

What do you mean take yourself out though?

[Asker]

End it all! I’d rather disqualify my self than live a lonely meaningless life. I’m not depressed or anything by the way it’s just how I feel.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Message me!

[Anonymous]

At least you're smart enough to see the reality of dating in today's world and how a lot of women are. Sure some guys get really lucky to find some sweet girl, but it's just like winning the lottery. Just make money and have fun and don't bang your head against the wall about women, you'll just get heart broken.

[Asker]

Dating is literally like tinder in real life and it definitely benefits women unless a guy is like super handsome he’s not having that many options with women I honestly don’t think the average guy is getting laid constantly and if he is he has to put in twice the work the more desirable guys did smh

[Opinion Owner]

You're right, men have to please women, read their minds, keep them satisfied, keep them happy. Try to impress them, compete with tons of other guys. Too much BS, you're better off without all that, but then they call men incels or MTGOWs or what ever, lol Sure if a sweet girl appears like magic, jump on it, lol but good luck in winning the lottery. Women have a high body count because they can get laid whenever they want, just flash your panties, lol

[Randy888]

I mean i dont feel like i will ever be loved by anyone but i dont give up.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Hang in there little bro!! 😥

[Asker]

Dude you’re only 15 lmao you have PLENTY of time. how’d you even find this app lol

[Anonymous]

Was it just casual sex only or one night stands?

[Asker]

The girl I lost my virginity to we kinda “dated” and the other girl was kinda like a sneaky link (casual) situation. I think I’m being a little dramatic tho, I’ll just have to put myself out there more to have better success with women. I really have nothing to lose at this point.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm on a long dryspell and I'm motivated to find an escort or sex worker, something I thought I'd never do, pay for sex