Why are so many women insecure about their breast size?

Yes, us men have preferences but I doubt it very much breast size would ever be the reason a man chooses a woman to date or settle down with and if they were that shallow why would you want anything to do with them? Personally I always liked them big and but I married a flat chested one.

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  • for the same reason some men are insecure about their...

    - dick size
    - height
    - hairline
    - chin
    - jaw
    - shoulders
    - legs
    - arms
    - nose
    - abdomen
    - calves

    and yeah... women do have their preferences as well but I very much doubt too, that any of these thing/sizes are their "definitive deal breaker" and I'm sure is not their priority at all, NOT ALL of them can be so shallow, certainly not the majority

    and you, are right... if they're this shallow why would anyone want to be with someone that shallow

    so... it goes both ways, both men and women... SOME of them go to extremes and think about extremes, and this is to their own detriment too

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  • I suspect there is a mixture of things one will be looking at several popular and famous people likey has an impact and well there is often a common body type that is popular in different time periods and that changes.

    I think as well it's more common when they are younger and it's easier to think having big breasts is a part of being a woman and the fact that people often at schools have a tendency to make fun of those who dont develop or develop late and like wise develop early.

    It can be down to the people they know such as friends or past partners. Partners keep bringing up their breast size and stuff as a complaint. And friends for instance if they had friends who were say larger in the chest and always seemed to get more attention it could cause them to think there chest is the issue.

    Basically people can be really terrible and even just hurtful without meaning to and people can become insecure about something without anyone intending them to.

    Apologies for the poor wording.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's just a thing like when you grow up you want boobies and when they don't come It's a disappointment and seeing other girls having it just causes that insecurity, it's the same as guys who always worries about their dolick size,

    • Tits aren’t the equivalent of dick. Tits are there to feed babies. Dicks are there to sexually satisfy women

    • Likely also competition for males makes life harder if there's a woman who's "genetic gifted" versus others who are more average... lol cue the 🦚 its tail may be heavy, yet it gets the female peacocks lol 😆

    • (peacocks, it's true, it's how they get the mates lol)

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  • The same reason guys are insecure about their dick size.

    Why are so many women insecure about their breast size?

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  • You’d be surprised. I’ve seen guys push for their women to get implants or reductions and then dump them shortly after.


    in my opinion a woman’s body is her own to be happy with, take it or leave it. Same goes for guys.

  • I thought the tit size obsession ended with the 90's. Are they still using that as an excuse to get fat? I know they started using their ass size as an excuse to get fat. Chicks just want to be fat.

    fucking fat chicks am I rite?
    fucking fat chicks am I rite?
  • I agree with you.
    Some girls tend to obsess about details like their noses, lips, the size of their boobs, butts, areolas, inner labia, etc. They are insecure about their bodies and think there is such a thing as perfection when, in actuality, everyone is different and there is no standard of perfection.

    The majority of guys don't judge women's individual body parts.

    I think insecurity is the result of on-line porn, the beauty and fashion industries, movies and media.

    I'd like to look like a movie star, but I'm not going to get plastic surgery to achieve it. Despite that, I never had complaints from women.

    Having self-esteem and confidence, not to mention personality, goes a long way toward others thinking you are attractive for who you are. If a person thinks they are sexy, others will, too.

    And then there is the fact that everyone has different preferences and you can't please everyone. But some people are going to think you are ideal.

  • While your question is specific to the topic of breasts, the truth is all people have insecurities about a dozen different things. I think society as a collective whole lays a lot more emphasis on appearance at the feet of women than men, but both sexes get it in their own way.


    In my experience I’ve encountered the following: tall girls wish they weren’t so tall. Short girls wish they were taller. Dark girls wish they were lighter and light girls wish they were darker. Girls with straight hair are always trying to curl it and girls with curly hair are always trying to straighten it. As far as boobs, the girl who wants a breast reduction walks through the same door to a surgeon as the girl who wants breast implants.

  • lots of women in general are insecure. I think the negative bias causes them to find something they can complain about, as they perceive an easy excuse as to why they are not valued.

    it may be true in cases, but I find women (or men) can overcome negative adversity from others with positivity... if their inner self has the strength.

  • you do realise many women's insecurity do NOT take a man's opinion into account? men's preferences for the most part do not factor into this at all.

    • Yes I’m aware of that. But still doesn’t make sense

    • XD then that is a you problem and shows lack of intelligence.

  • As @nathandavis says and saves me typing.

    Social media is the biggest cause of body shaming and setting false expectations, then it’s fashion industry

  • Because we can't just be happy with the size we have lol

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  • I've never been.

  • It seems no women are happy with the size they have if they're small they want to be bigger if they're big they want to be smaller jeesh

    • Really? I'm happy with mine 😋

    • @MGTK7 well that's good to hear are you small average or big just curious

    • Pretty big for my height

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  • same reasons dude are insecure about height or dick size, lack of abs, etc

  • They've been told to be.

  • Probably because that's what they think men are mostly after. If they are, that's not the right guy for them! Sure, I love big tits but, in the first place, that's just the icing on the cake! Secondly, if I find a great girl and she WANTS bigger tits, there's ways to make them grow! We can work on that together.

  • A lot of women think men prefer huge breasts.

  • Girls should not be concerned about having tiny breasts or even being flat chested. It would actually be best and more practicable for them.

    • True but easy for u to say lol

    • @MGTK7 In what way do you disagree?

  • If she ain't 20s and got E's, she's not dating me 😈😋♀️🤣✌🏻👌🏻😅😈😋🥛🥛

  • I am not insecure at all. I used to be as a teenager but not anymore. I have small breasts and i dont care if men like them or not. Men's opinions on my body are irrelevant to me.

  • The same reason some men are insecure about literally everything.

    • What is your social circle like? What kind of men are you hanging around?

    • Literally everything? Women are without question more insecure in general

  • The same reason some guys worry about the size of their dick

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