Are women ungrateful?

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The whole civilization is created by men. We have comfort, health care, a roof over our head, eletricity all because of men. Do we ever thank men for offering so much? Do we ever show gratitude for just standing there looking pretty in a corner since the dawn of time, while they sweat blood over their foreheads to build the freaking human civilization? Or we are spoilt and take everything for granted? If men vanished all techinicians, builders, miners, contruction workers would dissapear. the civilization would fall into smithereens. we would become animals again.

Itsmeyay · Accepted Answer

I agree with some of it, we'll most of it, and am very thankful for a woman that makes so much effort and is even willing to fight for or stand up for men. But in the end, 8 don't really think that you will succeed in this age to do so, reason I have is because there are obnoxious boys, they tend to prove you wrong just by 5hinking... Now they still have to talk... My point is, I personally believe that men were selfish and egotistic in the past, that is the only reason why only men were allowed to do anything which included controlling women. If it weren't for that, women would probably have contributed to much greater lengths, which would probably have included physically building and planning of towns. Society today would also have been much different, women would have been expected to pull their weight in a physical wok environment is what I can Imagine. Men would literally only be able to carry more weight at a time than women in general, it's a biological physical trait, to make up for that, only women can give birth, which is why 8 would rather carry more than go through the pain.

That being said, it's men's self doing to have built and planned most structures because we suppressed women. It's our own fault if we don't expect women to carry stones, let me also mention, here where I live, women carry more weight than man for a longer period of time. They put massive amounts of weight on their head and carry it far distances, men would want to carry the weight in their arms and would probably be able to lift more weight, but wouldn't be as effective as the women to move the weight such distances. Unless they copy. What a women invented. In a physical environment.

So the prove is there, woman are also capable and will probably have contributed much more if only men had allowed them. No matter if we took long to introduce the idea, that doesn't even make any difference, the point is stil that me being stronger physically brought it on ourselves to rule the world.

But thank you for your thought, it really is a kind gesture, and I wish more men would also appreciate what the women does for us, if more people were like you, the world would be so much better. Almost like heaven on earth. Very close.

super147 · Accepted Answer

Standing there and looking pretty? Is that how you see the role of women throughout human history? Who gave birth to, and nurtured and educated, all the men who you cite as having done all these great things? What about the contribution of women to medicine? What about female monarchs?

Are you not grateful for the actions of women in the past that have allowed you to be able to have this opinion on this forum at this time? Are you going to say thank your for that? Or for your right to vote? Or for your right to work? Go on, say thank you to your fellow women.

Ragini · Accepted Answer

Well, I guess both, men and women needs to be thanked. It's not that women are ungrateful because, women over the years... Decades have been kept under shield... They were tortured and were submissive ones. The men ruled the world. Women had no say. So now when women got rights, obviously more focus is on women... Hence we see, "women empowerment", "women..." etc. This said, men need to be applauded too. I don't really like that last sentence of yours... the world is a male dominated society but it's slowly changing. You can't really say that, "we would become animals again". It just doesn't sound and feel good. We aren't ungrateful. Because we ourselves got our rights after a long long time. We are in the phase enjoying those rights. So calling us, "ungrateful" isn't really wise. Or then, think the other way... Were men called, "ungrateful" when women had no say whatsoever? Women fed men... Yet women were treated pathetically. Men weren't called, "ungrateful" then. So why should women be called, "ungrateful" now----when men don't even suffer 1/10 the of what Women did since years back...

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

Considering that during the period of time when men made all these great advancements, women had no rights, no options, and no choice to help society in the same ways even if they wanted to, no. I don't see any reason to thank men for being the ones to do those things. If there was more gender equality during that era, women would have contributed to society in the same ways. And there were some women who DID contribute greatly to science and technology although it wasn't as common. Plus, while men were off screwing in light bulbs, women were cooking, cleaning, and going through childbirth, so I'm going to have to call it a draw.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wholeheartedly disagree. Civilization was built by both men and women but our perceptions of history have been kinda screwed with. A lot of historical research is from a time where men were thought to be strong, whereas women were though weak. Modern research actually suggests that contrary to what we've been taught, women did participate in hard physical labor and warfare and findings were misinterpreted because nobody even considered that it could've been a woman.

Frigg_xoxo · Accepted Answer

Yes it is true, we have become incredibly selfish and naive

Just_another_Indian · Answer

As a man I think so I think that women are amazing. As a man I think that women are a gift to us men. Women have qualities that men don't have and vice versa. The two supplement each other very well. Woman's task is to create a family and make sure that everything is fine in the family (also a bit a man task). A man is more aggressive, and are made to lead the world. It is not okay to say its men's fault that world is bad, or in decay. A woman is very strong in her expertise, as is man in his. A woman has an task in the world, as man.

I_am_imPaulsive · Answer

Why are you a female anon when you're obviously a man?

writing_essays · Answer

Without woman giving birth - human beings WOULD NOT EXIST.

Twin2814 · Answer

during world war 2... the only reason Amarica stayed alive and running was because women took all then mens jobs in the mills and factories.

JuicyBrain · Answer

I think it's true for both sides. Truth is, we need each other.

Blonde401 · Answer

Please hand over your vagina, we're revoking your woman card. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

SovereignessofVamps · Answer

Uh, without women no one would have been born.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Denying the fact that men build civilization is ignorant. Men went to wars just so that their women and children could be safe and have a good life. They didn't find just to kill, they fought to build a better life. Women back then knew that and they appreciated it. It's only nowadays when women (not all) have gotten together to bash men and ignore the facts that almost everything they have is because of men, and whether they like it or not, the ability to vote is because of men, because men were the ones who allowed women to vote. They should have been able to vote from the beginning, but still, without men, they still wouldn't be able to vote.
Same thing happens with people bashing whites, when they live so good thanks to white men.
The ungratefulness in this current generations is amazing. Imagine if your parents worked their asses off to provide you with food, shelter, clothes, entertainment... but you hate them because they didn't allow you to go to parties when you were 15.

TooskilledforU · Answer

From the viewpoint of a man, I will say that I believe that a lot of the things that men created were for a variety of reasons including their own self-interests, so they were not doing it for thanks. You are more than welcome to say thank you, but many of the men who created our civilization are long dead, but you can thank men today for their individual contributions. I honestly think that in our society, men who fought in wars have never received truly enough thanks for their service throughout the years. Women are also in need of thanking as well since they raise our children, be men's better halves, and have contributed many things to society as well. I work hard for my family, and I do not need a thank you, all I need is to make sure that they are taken care of. My ex was very ungrateful though, she would be mean to me after I bent over backwards for her, and that didn't help the situation.

TheUltimateSucc · Answer

Yes, women in a general sense are ungrateful moreso than men in my opinion.

Dog19 · Answer

Honestly yes

FatherJack · Answer

My ex wife most certainly was , after carrying her fat , lazy arse for years , so got rid last year & never looked back. It is easier being a FT working single dad , she was a burden !!

gobsmacked3 · Answer

how is the whole civilisation created by men when without women there is no man?

Centurion20000 · Answer

Most of them are like Stalin... not the mass murdering part.  The part that quoted "Gratitude is a disease of dogs."

red_knight · Answer

yes women are ungrateful... but such is life... they've learned it's easier to get what they want by getting all dolled up.. If the guy fails to meet her wants there's always other richer men. tsktsktsk!!!

if men vanished necessity would bring the rise of women to fill in the blanks needed for thme to survive..

CancerianMan81 · Answer

yes they are cause they don't appreciate anything

CT_CD · Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Answer

How I love sexist posts. Kindly fuck off. >.>

Anonymous · Answer

Yes the majority of women are ungrateful. Especially western white women.
There are many who get that society has become what it is because of men, but there is a majority that are simply to caught up acting like victims to give men credit for the back breaking work they do, for basically putting their lives at risk just to make women's lives easier, etc.
They simply reduce the entire concept to "without women there wouldn't be men." because they need to somehow take credit and marginalize all the major accomplishments of man because they simply can not allow their ego to accept how much men do for women.

It's the spoiled brat mentality which is causing men to start telling women, fuck it.. we don't need your shit. And when they do again the ego won't let them accept it and they shame men for not putting up with their shit.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman's natural state is submission to her man. If she doesn't submit to you then she doesn't respect you. These "dominant" woman find themselves single aged 30 and hit the wall as they find a woman's most desirable is between 15-29 and that because they refused to submit to a man's will they will be forever "strong independent women who don't need no man" as no man desires them anymore for anything other than a quick pump and dump.

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