Is it weird that sometimes I feel the desire to receive a spanking from my boyfriend?

Since I met him, my life really changed. He is respectful, gentle, playful and dominant. Old fashion type of guy. So he understands I like pain and he usually smacks my bottom during sex. The thing is I crave/need to get spanked outside of the bedroom as well. A while ago, I purposely made fun of him and tried to annoy him. He was laughing the entire time. We were sat on the couch. Then I was on my knees next to him and I tried to tickle him. During that cute fight , I falled over his knees and I tried to get up but he kept me there, caressed my head and back saying:"that's it. you need a punishment". He spanked me for like 2 minutes while I was complaining but really , I was in heaven. Eventually I thought I should complain more and the situation couldn't be more exciting because his exactly words were:" imagine if I pull your jeans off, you won't be sitting down for days". Why is this so hoot? What the heck is wrong with me? 🥺
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  • Nothing is wrong with you , you are a good girl , I love girls’ like you , because a girl that is submissive to me , is a keeper , you love looking up to your man and you love the dominance of your man , your boyfriend would be one dumb motherfucker if he ever betrayed you or hurt you , if he ever does? Please hit me up lol A good female is a girl that treats her partner like her King, not a joker , She will easily become my Queen if she treats me that way , I will protect her and value her as much as I possibly could. When a girl tries to be dominate over her man , and treats him like shit , the other guy can have her , she sadly
    Means nothing to me. I will only give my heart to a girl that values me and appreciates me and stays
    Loyal and faithful to me , that knows what it means to be in a relationship, In a sense you are an old school girl as well by you loving the dominance of your man , a non submissive girl is a girl that needs to date Simps , not a real masculine man.

  • Nothing is wrong at all. Spanking is being dominated and lots of women like being dominated. I think it is innate that we chastise females by spanking their bottom. Probably goes back to Homo Erectus.

    Out of the home if I say it is time to go, and 5 minutes later she is still chatting I have no hesitation in administering a smart spank to her bottom. In front of everybody. Women object and complain but they seem to enjoy being able to complain.

    Australian Aborigine men used woomeras to chastise their women's bottoms. So we know it dates back at least to 60,000 years BC.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He sounds similar to my partner. I love to be spanked. He'd never spanked anyone before as he's a very gental person but I Brought out his dominant side and now he spanks me and dominates me so good

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  • Not at all... does it usually lead to some fun sex?

  • Not really

    if you like it, chances are your brain handles pain the same way it does pleasure. It can get off on both pain and pleasure, so a spanking gives you that pain and pleasure fix

  • It means you have a kink. There's nothing wrong with that. Although I wouldn't make it a habit of making fun of your boyfriend if I were you.

  • No, not at all.
    Hopefully he will enjoy fulfilling your desires.

  • Not at all. Every girl needs a good spanking once in a while.

  • You are not weird. It's a relatively common thing to enjoy.

  • Not at all honey

    • @elizamichale1 If a girl asked me to spank her: "Give me three steps, sister, three steps toward the door, and you'll never see me no more: LOLOL

    • @Bricealan what really

    • @elizamichale1 I don't think I want to "spank" anyone?🤔🤔🤔🤔😁 The idea just doesn't appeal to me.

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  • Does it actually hurt? Or is your nervous system just less sensitive?

    • It hurt but he didn't really put his entire force into the spanks. It's more like a sting sensation that becomes pleasure after I while. Don't know how to explain it.

    • So asker, the real sub question is question ❓- why did the jeans stay on? Why didn't you unbutton with one hand or even let him pull it off, slide it off? Without skin tears 😭

    • Well it was just a threat and I didn't think he will go through. Anyway today was no need because I had a skirt on and all he had to do was :put me over his knee, face down , skirt up. After that we went to the park and I had trouble sitting on a bench. Don't get me started with the handprints I had all over. I still feel like I'm a weirdo but hey. We are all mad here. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • More like during doggy style sex or foreplay on the couch for fun before a bed lol 🛋️ 🛏️ hand ✋🏻 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

  • Sounds 🔥🔥🔥 enjoy! Nothing wrong with you!

  • Not weird at all. Enjoy the sex and the great orgasms!

  • No, that's not weird at all. :)

    • Not at all 👀👀🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

    • @itsclearlynicholas No, its not. Its just a fetish.

    • Gonna be some handprints ✋🏻✋🏻👋🏻🤭 on that lady with her lover 👌🏻😋😋👀♀️

  • Not at all, he's so lucky you feel that way

  • Congratulations! You have discovered spanking! Enjoy!

  • Thats normal
    I felt hot for what u said hahahaha
    I love that so much 🔥🙈

  • I think that kind of behavior should be encouraged!

    Have fun!