Is prostate massage necessary for men? Why?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Necessary? No- most men go their whole lives without getting one. But they can probably help with prostatitis (symptom relief, at least), and I'm told prostate stimulation can lead to very intense orgasms, so there's value there.

Unfortunately, most men are vehemently opposed to anything with the slightest whiff of homoeroticism, and think this qualifies.

[Asker]

But it's not a gay thing.

[NamerOfStars]

I'm not saying that it is, just that that's how it's SEEN (or how they see it, if you prefer to think of it that way). And given that openly gay men are generally not going to share that perception, they're more likely to be open-minded enough to try it, which reinforces the association.

[DJB72]

Not necessary for health unless you can't have an erection because of a stroke or other physiological damage, in which case you need it once or twice a month the reduce the chance of prostate cancer.

That's necessary

Pleasurable is a totally different matter and if your girl is into providing it for you, all I can say is :

[Apple1996]

necessary if you wanna have fun

[Asker]

Yes I want to have fun.

[Fuentes]

Super SuS

[Apple1996]

@Fuentes why is it sus lol

[Fuentes]

Anything to do with butt play on a man is SuS lol

[bananathunder]

lol never tried it

[Taylor22424]

I have, and it's fun, especially when a girl does it to me.

[RobT312]

No not necessary. But it’s pleasurable sexually

[Asker]

Yes it is pleasurable sexually. Then Why do men don't talk about it? First time, I was shocked to read about this topic online.

[RobT312]

Because anything anal comes with a stigma and misconception that it’s wrong or dirty or gay

[Asker]

Oh ! Okay. But it's not a gay thing if I am doing it by myself and with my girlfriend / wife. I am straight man. I want to try this with my Girlfriend.

[RobT312]

Yup i tried with my girlfriend (now wife) . She said “if we try anal and if you are going to try it on me then i want you to try as well”

[Asker]

Great! So did you enjoy it? Or stopped doing it?

[RobT312]

Yeah we were skeptical but really liked it. We go for anal when we are feeling kinky or want to just change things up when having sex. Have you tried yet?

[Asker]

No not yet. I will give it a try soon.

[epicsoundwaves]

Medically necessary? Absolutely not. There's no normal medical reason for a man to get a prostate massage beyond the quick DRE where the doctor palpates your prostate.

Personally, it's a big way to improve pleasure and intensify orgasm.

[b_lova]

About as necessary as when doctors diagnosed women with "female hysteria" and would provide clitoral stimulation or use a vibrator until orgasm during the 1900s.

[HelpfulWoman]

it's "necessary" if you want it.

[Asker]

I want it if it has some benefits.

[summiter]

No but it sure makes the orgasms better

[Berethor]

No, I am not into gay stuff, men had lived many centuries without a shit like that.

[DrPepper12]

JFC what is gay about it? And you're SO WRONG historically.

[strateguy632]

it isn't

[AviatorTom]

Why would it be necessary. It can be pleasurable, or it can be not much, which is typical when the doctor checks the prostate during a physical.

[Dargil]

No, but like a Rib Eye Steak done medium, it makes life better.

[Drumlin2001]

Maybe not necassary but good fun

[MicroJ]

It's not necessary, but it can be fun and very pleasurable.

[LeoTheCar]

Only if you're not able to masturbate.

[Mickbert]

Not necessary, but definitely feels great!

[DrPepper12]

Necessary? No. Desired? Yes

[Alex-Snow]

Not necessary but if done correctly it leads to a great full body orgasm

[mistershy94]

necessary for what exactly? For experiencing pleasure, for medical purposes or what do you mean?

[Asker]

I mean, is it harmful or has medical benefits? Everyone should do it or not? I never heard men talking about it.

[mistershy94]

It can be harmful if done incorrectly, it's the same as anal sex for women

[NetherlandsNar]

I enjoy doing it

[MasterKS]

@netherlandsnar well done.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I wouldn't be opposed to getting one but it's not necessary for my existence on this plane of reality.

[Fuentes]

No that's Sus af

[dean53AU]

Not necessary at all, its all about pleasure