I'm totally into BDSM, not actively, unfortunately, but in fantasy, and hopefully for real someday.
If all participants are completely on-board with it, I think it can produce some of the most sensual experiences possible.
I do practice some self bondage and pain infliction. It definitely heightens my experiences.
The research I've done regarding the subject indicates that the participants receive very high degrees of satisfaction. It may seem counter-intuitive, but the person in bondage or submission is actually the one in control and is getting the most out of the experience.
I used to avoid BDSM porn scenes, but once I did some research into it and found out the psychology behind it, it began to interest me. That being said, it's very easy to see that there is a lot of exaggerated acting going on by some of the BDSM porn participants, to the point of being humorous, then tiresome.
But, yeah, if my wife would come around to it, I'd love to engage in BDSM in our bedroom. She won't though.
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Thank you for reading it, and for asking the question!
for...
reasons, it builds a better marriage, it keeps sex from becoming boring and the same routine..
My adopted mom told me she has to plan ahead to keep her marriage from becoming:
- Kiss the wife when you get home
- After changing for bed, kiss the husband, try not to stiffen up as he goes straight for your pussy, jams a finger in to make sure you are wet, then pushes your legs apart, crawls on top of you, mashes you flat, and after a couple of thrusts, he is done.. Then rolls off you, rolls over and goes to sleep...
She said it used to be like that after she had twins.
BDSM for me is a welcome change and often surprise. He mostly is into spanking me for being a bad girl and occasionally likes to uses scarves to time me down, face down while he puts a pillow under my hips and then teases me and spanks me til i am begging for sex...
As long as it is not vicious, mean, and he doesn't leave bruises or break bones or terrifies me, then I like it..
I do admit he sometimes likes to use a ball gag with a hole in it and that can be too much if I can't use my hands to slow him down...
for bdsm its the spices that are needed to keep a relationship fresh and fun plus for me it gives me empowering feeling i feel good it makes me lustful and seek my mans attention in a very sexual way and we both love it
I'm quite clearly FOR it, but it's an individual preference, and it's completely fine for people who don't care for it. I'm not going to tell you what kind of movies to watch or what kind of food should taste good either - do what works for you ("you" being anyone who reads this).
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm for it. Me n husband rarely do it though
"For" because it brings more spice to a relationship.
What are your BDSM limitations?
@Agonist, these are "too much" for me: 
As long as your comfy and safe sure do as you please
Huh?
I'll try anything once, how else can I really form an opinion on it?
haven't tried anything yet tho😭😭😭
I'm for it but you must have complete trust between you Respect their Limitations Boundaries Safe Words and Pain Thresholds # Warning # though I watched this Murder programme On or was this couple where the male enjoyed knife play ( stabbing ) and blood play ( flowing blood ) Not my cup of tea Not to that extent The guy took no notice when she asked not to be stabbed anymore In the end she died
I'm for what she's into specifically. I have yet to currently take a side on it
I think degrading stuff maybe not but again it depends on her
always for... never against :P :P :P besides much of the best sex i've experienced was
BDSM, Kink, Fetish, Roleplay :P :P :P
I am team (FOR) and not just in the bedroom ;)
We have our secret closet for all our toys and tools such as : whips, positioning pillows, tie bondage, hand and leg cuffs, horse whip, roleplay clothes, cock rings, leashes, belts and so on. I have a beast in me that need to stimulated now and then and the Mrs. is still exploring her freaky mind and she is not shy like she used to be.
What about you? What is it you want or want to do?
For. Very for. Anyone who thinks the guy is truly in charge doesn’t get it.
I'm into the idea, but with put experience so that is something I would hope to learn more about what I think of it in the future :-)
For me though, definitely no bodily fluids (Blood/scat/golden showers etc)
Another awesome opinion! Thank you!!! For being sooooooo freaking AWESOME 👏
Your Netflix and chill girl looks like a lot of fun. But then I'm biased. Don't need no BDSM with her. Just get undressed and boogie!
She's adorable!!! And so clever!!! Love her look too!!! Too MUCH botox but you can tell she's STILL extremely beautiful 😻
I get home from a long day at work, she puts one of these in my hand:
Sits me down and next thing I know, it's:
I’m for it for people who are aroused by it, done safely. I don’t think it’s something people “should” do just because.
that said I think some people view it wrong and think about learning to push boundaries. I’m not sure that’s actually got any point vs the rush being from that flirting with the boundary without desensitizing.
people say sex is mainly in the mind and that’s... true and not true lol. But certainly d/s and a lot of power play kinks are entirely in the mind. For a lot of people the s&m part is a prop for their d/s fantasies so for them it’s also all about the mind. “S” is always in the mind. Some M are going for an endorphin rush I guess but it’s mainly mental for them too.
Spanking is great, but not really into much else
Never tried it. But willing to give it a try.
Since I'm not a professional I can only give an opinion I'm far changing things up in the bedroom that could be fun depending on the theme and what turned the woman on... my common theme is woman gets turned on I get turned on therefore if it doesn't include pain I'm all for it
Its a broad range of stuff. I'm ok with some cuffs and spanking, but I'm not playing dress up or talking like a 5 year old. I'm not cool with calling anyone I'm sexually attracted to "daddy" that's fucking weird👀
I am all for it, but it is a personal prefernce, it is not for everyone. As long a everyone stays safe, sane and consensual, it is all good! I enjoy switching myself but have been much for submissive since being kept locked in a chastity device.
For, as long as my partner is as well.
I'm surely not a permissive person so maybe as being the Dom I might be willing to explore possibilities.
duh, for it
am a dom so being agaist it would be being against myself
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