Are you ok with your partner watching porn?

Question

Some consider it cheating...

Kyren · Accepted Answer

If your partner knows you're watching pornography as a compromise to your high sex drive in order to relieve yourself when your partner can't at times, if they both watch it together or it doesn't create any impacts in the relationship, it's not cheating since no one is being emotionally harmed in the process. On the other hand, if you watch pornography to gain self-pleasure in causing emotional harm to your partner by getting your sexual relief from videos/imagery over your partner, it's considered cheating. Cheating happens when there's another person involved (even if you aren't with them in person) who shares the intimacy and sexual desires with you instead of your partner.

Most people would refer to this as "Cyber Cheating", however there are grey areas in determining what people would think is considered cheating or not online. To keep it simple, if watching pornography hurts your partner, it's time to stop and think it through.

Bismarck12 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't care if my partner watched it, but I've had partners who were very bothered by the fact I watched porn. I admitted to one girl I dated that I did and she seemed very disappointed. I tried to explain that it's only when I can't have sex with her, but she was pretty sad about it. I told her I stopped watching it but I really didn't. It's not that big of a deal to me.

breadisyummy · Accepted Answer

I think it is perfectly normal to turn to porn. As long as my partner and I have a very healthy relationship and told me its fine. They don't need my permission. What they do on their alone time and if they feel horny when I am not around I think its okay. What can you do? Porn is there easy to access.

memeqweenn · Accepted Answer

of course. it's unrealistic to be able to satisfy him all the time, and since men are visual they need the extra stimulation to get them off. it's not cheating.

DinaM · Accepted Answer

I'm fine with it. Long as I'm allowed to read my erotic comics and stories. ^_^

Cmasterson · Answer

Yes, perfectly fine with me! Just dont let it interfere with the relationship negatively.

BreakingSound · Answer

I don't care, I watch it too.

1Anon · Answer

I don’t mind him watching porn at all; I’d love it even more if we watched it together lol

fauchelevent · Answer

I'm fine with it. As long as it's not affecting our relationship, I don't see why it'd be my issue.

PillowThief · Answer

It's great knowing that there is a stock photograph for everything. xD

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

Not at all.

JustRollTheDice · Answer

Semi but don't see why they would need to

SirRexington · Answer

Why would they need to? If you are in a healthy relationship porn is unnecessary. When I was dating I never needed it.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes makes no difference to me as long as the porn doesn't replace me.

BobbyC65 · Answer

I can care less if they watch porn.

OatsnWhey · Answer

I don't know if she's rubbing her bean all day to another guy I'd prly have an issue with it.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

I don't care; I'm not insecure enough to tell her what she can and can't do with her eyesight.

AM-205 · Answer

Only if She would be open with me, and enjoy us watching it together...

blondfrog · Answer

yeah I dont care

neoagent1 · Answer

Yes she can watch porn all she wants.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

No, but I don't consider it cheating either.

Rick912 · Answer

Porn can give you a lot of ideas to try.

MeatPuppet · Answer

Sure. I wouldn't mind her talking about her porn taste to me either. I know I would probably still watch porn too. All the merrier if her porn tastes match mine. That would be one more thing we have in common.