Aside from the obvious age difference, is there anything different - good or bad - about having sex with an older partner?
OlderAndWiserEditor
Not all older women who date a younger man have cougar attitude!When I was 23, I had a girlfriend who was 46. She enjoyed having sex with me because I think it had been several years since she had been with another partner. She only wanted to have missionary position sex. She was willing to do it seven times in one night but she was very quiet and reserved in bed. Her age and experience did not make her a better lover.
When I was 25, I had a girlfriend who was 37. She had a very strong libido and wanted to please me but she was also fairly inhibited. There wasn't anything about her age that made her better as a sexual partner.Evelyn - the 37 year old girlfriend - closely resembled Suzanne SomersWhen I was 26, I dated a girl who was 34. She had a very strong libido, was eager to please, was uninhibited in telling me what turned her on, and she was willing to try things that were new to her. She was a great sexual partner but I don't know if it was her past sexual experiences that made her so desirable.
(All of this happened in a 6 year period in which I was having casual relationships. It was a long time ago in a place far, far away!)
I concluded that, for me, a woman's age did not have much relationship to how much I would enjoy them between the sheets. What is your experience with older sexual partners?
High five. Good for you buddy. Older women are great when you are young knowledge and she won't break up with you and tell everyone your small or something to punish you. Gotta worry about the Std's though she has been around much longer.
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COMMODOREIIMaster
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I was 23 and gabe my virginity to a 36 yr old woman. I came out good and able to experiment. 😎
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TwalliMaster
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I would say the more "experienced" a partner is, the less likely they'll try new things. I don't know my girlfriend would have try anal with me if we weren't each other's first
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GreenGold1992Master
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experience
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ask4anyXper 7
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Yes there is and I say it's good.
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utterlyconfusedXDXper 4
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No I don’t think there’s anything bad about it. id do it
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itsmearjun007Xper 3
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Experience is a bliss... and she can help with different creative positions
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Slim57Master
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Good: they're most likely more experienced, Bad: they're not as flexible. Just from my experience
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sydneyboyXper 6
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Age has nothing to do with it
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Anonymous
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I have a question for you OP, how did you met and started your relationship?
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OlderAndWiser
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How did I meet which woman?
Opinion Owner
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In general about cougars.
OlderAndWiser
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The 46 year old woman was my next door neighbor in an apartment complex. I asked her to feed my fish while I was gone for a week, then I offered to take her to dinner when I turned. (I actually had the hots for her 17 year old daughter but I had the sense to not pursue that!) The next woman (Suzanne Somers look alike) I met at work. She was a prescription pill addict and needed a father more than she needed a boyfriend. The third woman knew my brother (a rock 'n roller) and I met her at a gig my brother was playing. She got drunk and asked me to take her home.
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Opinion Owner
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Wow man, it just got along for you!
OlderAndWiser
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I don't advocate doing what I did. Serious relationships have much more to offer than casual encounters.
Anonymous
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If you make each other happy it's fine. Don't listen to others, especially the creepy guys here on GAG
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Anonymous
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No, Women Are The Same No Matter What The Age... I Lived With My 42 Year Old Girlfriend For 3 Years, I Was 22... She Had The Same Attitude, Played The Same Games Girls My Age Played, She Stated She Was Better At It Than The Young Bitches I Was Use To, Cos She Had Been Playing Mind Games Longer...
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Anonymous
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No, stop paying attention to what society, and the media has brainwashed you into thinking about older women. Besides not everyone ages the same. I’m 37, and have been on a couple dates with a 23 year old., The guy was young but still a legal adult old enough to make his own decisions. I also been told by many people have been told that I could pass for a 26 year old.
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10 27High five. Good for you buddy. Older women are great when you are young knowledge and she won't break up with you and tell everyone your small or something to punish you. Gotta worry about the Std's though she has been around much longer.
I was 23 and gabe my virginity to a 36 yr old woman. I came out good and able to experiment. 😎
I would say the more "experienced" a partner is, the less likely they'll try new things. I don't know my girlfriend would have try anal with me if we weren't each other's first
experience
Yes there is and I say it's good.
No I don’t think there’s anything bad about it. id do it
Experience is a bliss... and she can help with different creative positions
Good: they're most likely more experienced, Bad: they're not as flexible. Just from my experience
Age has nothing to do with it
I have a question for you OP, how did you met and started your relationship?
How did I meet which woman?
In general about cougars.
The 46 year old woman was my next door neighbor in an apartment complex. I asked her to feed my fish while I was gone for a week, then I offered to take her to dinner when I turned. (I actually had the hots for her 17 year old daughter but I had the sense to not pursue that!) The next woman (Suzanne Somers look alike) I met at work. She was a prescription pill addict and needed a father more than she needed a boyfriend. The third woman knew my brother (a rock 'n roller) and I met her at a gig my brother was playing. She got drunk and asked me to take her home.
Wow man, it just got along for you!
I don't advocate doing what I did. Serious relationships have much more to offer than casual encounters.
If you make each other happy it's fine. Don't listen to others, especially the creepy guys here on GAG
No, Women Are The Same No Matter What The Age...
I Lived With My 42 Year Old Girlfriend For 3 Years, I Was 22... She Had The Same Attitude, Played The Same Games Girls My Age Played, She Stated She Was Better At It Than The Young Bitches I Was Use To, Cos She Had Been Playing Mind Games Longer...
No, stop paying attention to what society, and the media has brainwashed you into thinking about older women. Besides not everyone ages the same. I’m 37, and have been on a couple dates with a 23 year old., The guy was young but still a legal adult old enough to make his own decisions. I also been told by many people have been told that I could pass for a 26 year old.