Bisexual people: if you are in a heterosexual relationship, how often do you crave sex with your same sex?

Bisexual people: if you are in a heterosexual relationship, how often do you crave sex with your same sex?
As a heterosexual, I obviously have only a limited and inadequate understanding of same sex attraction. I can't imagine just turning off my attraction to women. So if you are bisexual, and you are in a heterosexual relationship, can you just "turn off" your attraction to same sex partners? What do you do with your urges to have sex with someone of your same sex? Do those urges just disappear? Do you tell yourself to ignore them because you want to be faithful to your partner? Just how in the hell do you deal with that? And how often is that a problem for you?
I'm not bisexual and I just want to see the results
Vote A
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I NEVER crave sex with someone of my own sex.
Vote B
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I crave sex with someone of my own sex MAYBE ONCE A YEAR OR LESS.
Vote C
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I crave sex with someone of my own sex A FEW TIMES PER YEAR..
Vote D
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I crave sex with someone of my own sex AT LEAST ONCE A MONTH.
Vote E
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I crave sex with someone of my own sex AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK.
Vote F
I am bisexual. If I'm in a heterosexual relationship, I crave sex with someone of my own sex AT LEAST SEVERAL TIMES PER WEEK.
Vote G
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As a heterosexual, if I am in a committed relationship, my partner can satisfy all of my sexual needs. If you are a bisexual woman, aren't there things that women do for you that the opposite sex cannot? (And vice versa for men.) And if so, aren't those needs unfulfilled as long as you are faithful in your heterosexual relationship. These are sincere questions, as I was once married to a bisexual woman and she cheated on me with another woman, not with a man. I am really trying to understand.
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  • Pretty often... sex with a man is usually more kinky and dirty

  • I'm fine with what I got, all I would need is humor and online comics..

  • You should add another option about heterosexual women who date men and have sex with women.

    • The term "heterosexual" refers to someone who is ONLY attracted to members of the opposite sex.

  • I’m a bisexual guy and I’m in a long-term monogamous relationship with my female partner (who’s also bi).
    Before her and I got together, admittedly I was a total slut, frequently hooking up with women and men. I figured out I was bisexual in my early twenties and after my first experience with a guy, I definitely knew I enjoyed both men and women. When my partner and I started dating, I stopped all my sleeping around, and at first I was pretty okay with it, since (to boast) she’s got an amazing pussy and we had a lot of sex.
    But when I was single, I found out that I liked the cock. Like, a lot. Maybe I felt like I had to make up for lost time, because once I gave my first blowjob, I was instantly hooked on dick. I sucked as many guys off as I could, regularly heading out every other afternoon or evening to some dude’s house to suck dick.
    After a little while in my relationship, I started wanting some dick. And that craving just keeps growing- like my god, I really wish I could suck cock again. I have this fantasy that I’ve made an arrangement with my partner and a discreet, clean guy. My partner allows me to visit this dude every so often so that I can literally get my fix for cock- I get to his place, drop to my knees, service him, and then I‘m on my way. And I’m so relieved that I‘ve finally gotten some dick in me, and a fresh load of cum in my stomach.
    But that’s just fantasy

  • i'm not bi so i couldn't answer this question. but the person i love is gender fluid bi and it's ok if they want to be with women just not other guys since they have me

  • I am Bi-sexual but I do not feel the attraction to the same sex in a way that I would want to have sex with them, I would want to kiss, cuddle, date and want to marry and even adopt a child together, but if I got in a relationship with someone of the same sex, it would mean sex was off the table and I understand that would be a big thing to ask of them.

    It would be a big thing to ask of us both because my sexual desire resides towards females, so I could only have a sexual based relationship with someone who was of the opposite gender and that is a big thing to contemplate for the future.

    I don't know how my relationship will work in the future or who I will meet, will it be a guy or girl? Will they be accepting of those types of feelings I have? Who knows, it is such a faraway thing, I cannot even guess because I never even had a lover so I can't even work based on previous relationships.

  • I am bi and watching porn would be enough for me

    • So you do have FF sexual cravings when in a relationship w a guy? And do you ever tell a boyfriend about your cravings for another F, and if so what does he say?

  • Same way as you (hopefully) don’t feel the need to sleep with other women when you’re in a relationship.

    • I have never been unfaithful even once in 50 years of being sexually active, but my partners have always been able to satisfy all of my needs.