Guys, Is porn really so satisfying that you dont have a desire for the real thing anymore?

I know I'm a girl, but I can hardly get turned on by porn... I HAVE to think of someone I know in real life... Porn is boring to me; it's fake, it's scripted and even when it isn't scripted for some reason that I don't know yet, it doesn't stimulate my brain (or rarely does)

Whereas when I got out (like shopping, grocery etc) I check people out, I check women out when there a hot one wearing something that and I look at her ass or vag now THIS gets me going.. I will get home and masturbate GOOD. I much MUCH rather that than porn.. I also listen to my neighbors moan and masturbate while listening each time and I c*m.

Now I look around me, and see plenty of men who don't want the real thing because they are happy with their screen time.. And I would like someone to explain this to me please? How is porn so fulfilling? How can you prefer it to real tits in front of you? At least jerk off to a naked women that's in front of you no? If you really prefer to jerk off, why not use a real person?

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  • Porn is always available. But I agree with you, it gets real boring after while. There no erotica. It's guys showing off their dicks and female prostitutes acting the way they think guys find sexy.
    And it is turned out like in an assembly like with the same exact camera angles and sex positions.

    Jerking off can never compare to being with a real woman. A hand is not a warm, juicy, responsive pussy. And there is more to sex than genitals. I love the woman's entire body - seeing her facial expressions, the way her body moves, the way she responds to eroticism and having her tender flesh kissed, licked and touched. Stimulating her erogenous body to the point of ecstasy. Seeing and feeling her orgasm, and being so aroused by her sensations, looks, sounds, movements, enthusiasm and encouragement that I can keep going forever.

    Maybe some people have never experienced that. Maybe that's why they are satisfied with masturbation. It reminds me of when Chance Gardener in the movie Being There said "I like to watch".
    Some people may have other reasons for avoiding contact with people and feel more comfortable being alone.

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  • C - porn serves a purpose for men that most women will never understand. Our imaginations are stimulated much more by visual stimuli than women's are. Listening to my neighbors have sex does nothing for me, but watching a video of them might.

    Do I prefer it to the real thing? Not if the real thing is great. But keep in mind, sex is harder work for men than it is for women. Women are largely passive participants in sex, and men are "responsible" for their own pleasure AND the woman's pleasure. Otherwise we are called selfish bastards. Sometimes we need a release without all the "responsibilities" we are saddled with in hetero sex.

    By the way, I agree with you about scripted porn. I have no interest, which is why I watch amateur porn.

    • You're still very young but we are in the same age brackets, so I'm gonna ask you, aren't you desensitized by porn after allllll those years?

    • No, I'm not.

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  • I definitely still have the desire, but my fear of rejection and heartbreak is just as strong. I'm not a fan of casual sex so I'm not just gonna hook up with someone, and it's hard to find a woman who would both find me attractive and want to he in a committed relationship with me. And on top of that, it's getting harder and harder to trust women nowadays. I've been hurt pretty badly and I really don't want to go through that again. So because of all of that, when I need to get off, I just have to make do with porn.

  • Porn is ok to look at if a guy wants to watch something to jerk off to. As you know this happens with most guys. But it is not even close or is a substitute for real sex.

  • You can't compare women to men when watching porn. Women are not visual. Even if you are a bit, women will never come close to being as visual as a guy. But it never replaces the real thing.

  • What's the use in desiring what I don't have? When I can use something I do have?
    I can desire for 1Million but if I only have 100 I am only gonna spend a 100.

    • Okay. And how satisfying is your screen? If you had a girlfriend (or boyfriend), would you still choose screen time over a real person? How hard does your screen gets you then? Solid hard or soft hard?

  • Sometimes it is good when you are alone and need stater fluid, and it is possible to get new ideas as well.
    But a good partner beats a screen anytime.
    I had a former girlfriend that loved watching porn, it got her all sorts of hot and bothered and I was there to help make her hornyier and reap the benefits.
    She would ride me like a rented mule.

    • Tell me about about your sex life with the ex

    • It was very good. She liked mostly watching 2 guys and 1 girl, but she said she had no interest in trying it herself. So, while she was watching and getting all excited, I just added to her excitement until she couldn't take it anymore and had to screw my brains out. I was fine with that.

  • We only watch porn when we're not getting the real thing or our partner is not willing to fulfill certain fantasies we have. The real thing is almost always better unless the girl is extremely vanilla and not willing to go outside of that box.

  • It's not that porn is so good, it's that dealing with real women is often so tedious, frustrating and annoying that porn is just more convenient.

  • I voted that the porn stuff is far superior 👌🏻😋😋👀🥛😈 and i never have to have the baggage 🛄🛅

    • Thats why I love my PornHub and my OnlyFans that I view. The latter is subbed and free, not mine. And I view PornHub account free lol 😆

    • (as I watch verified amateur couples, no account for PH) lol 😆

    • Why do you like porn only and not looking at people fucking in real life?

  • Porn is crap because it is fake, yes. Reality is crap too, but for different reasons. Almost the opposite reasons, in fact. Reality can never match up to an ideal. Some people would rather an appealing lie over the disappointing truth.

    I don't really care for either.

    • What's your ideal?

  • I don't care for mutual / solo masturbation at all. Porn always fantasy exploration or gives ideas to try IRL. I don't prefer it to the real thing but the real thing isn't always available. It's just an outlet, not an addiction for me anyway

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