Boyfriend thinks my pictures are too sexual?

Question

I would never do nudes, not even for my boyfriend. But I absolutely love taking selfies, in lingerie, bikinis etc. Sometimes I snap with our common friends, and I send pictures in bikinis? Is there anything wrong with that? He knows I love him, and that I wouldn't cheat.

So why does it bother him?

Boyfriend thinks my pictures are too sexual?

ChocolateBrowny · Answer

you're giving the wrong signals, if you want to flaunt your body its because you're interested in more than just your boyfriend looking. That is not relationship behaviour and you'll make him insecure. Imagine your guy working out and wearing muscle tshirts everywhere he goes, would you like that?

kingakuto · Answer

You are obviously proud of your body and aren't afraid of showing your stunning body, which I'll applaud you for that, however, you sending such sexy pics out draws the attention of other males, which to your man is a sign of an invasion on what his, you. No one would like the thought that other people were guning for their partner so it's understandable that he'll feel that way. Just come to an undeterstanding that your body is yours and you can do whatsoever ever you please, but your also love him

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

Do you send them to guy friends? If you do then pictures like these are too much. I wouldn't like that either as your boyfriend. It's like his attention isn't enough, and you want to pose sexily for other people. I wouldn't send snaps of my abs or bare torso to other women when with someone.

UnicornLobotomy · Answer

If you post that on social media and you're not entering some kind of bikini contest and you aren't a personal trainer, yeah that's basically putting yourself out there to find another partner.

humanearth · Answer

Maybe he feels like your advertising yourself appearing single and feels like you don't want him. Thats how I would see it

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well no there's nothing wrong in that at all and also its not as sexual ad he is saying tbh

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Clear catfish, but I’d find that wildly inappropriate.

justawhiteman · Answer

I woudnt say there overly sexual just a bit revealing booty wise...

GermanGuy87 · Answer

wow I say keep doing it if it makes you happy - I like seeing these types of pics

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

I dislike it when girls post too revealing pictures when single, and I double dislike it if she posts that in a relationship. It demonstrates that she's desperaate for attention

OhmIsTyping · Answer

Cause he wants all of you to himself. He wants you to be exclusive to him. Isn't that what boyfriends and girlfriends are anyway? What's the point of being in a relationship if you are sending lingerie pictures to random people. Hell, Belle Delphine sells lingerie photographs for money 🤷‍♂️

Massageman · Answer

I can see why he might be a bit territorial about you: you are very sexy.

xyz94 · Answer

Um kind of but it's up to you, it's your body. Is your boyfriend unhappy with you posting pics like that on social media?

Justbeyouandbehappy_ · Answer

You are pretty but honestly they are too sexual

genericname85 · Answer

yeah that's way too attentionseeking for someone who has a boyfriend.

IIGrifterSixII · Answer

your showing off the goods to everyone else. Its disrespectful and lets him know you're still fielding options

4spie · Answer

Can't think why lol

JimboGB · Answer

You are seeking unwanted attention from other men besides him. You literally have your arse out to strangers and won't give him a nude 😀 that's a madness.