Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend has asked me to do something kinky for his birthday , his suggestions were a gangbang by myself with random guys (I record the video and show him, he doesn’t want to be present). He says he gets off on me being pleasured by other guys.
Um I really don’t know if I want to do it or not, I’m struggling with the idea I’ve only ever been monogamous in a relationship it feels wrong and like cheating to touch another guy. Is this a bad idea?
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Boyfriend wants gangbang for birthday?
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7 32Does the idea turn you on? What was your gut reaction when he asked you?
I do feel like it's a bad idea and maybe a little unsafe for you especially if your man is not there. It's a very uncommon kink but I have heard guys like see there girl pleasured by another guy. If you feel uncomfortable or don't want to do it don't. Maybe ask if there anything else he wants for his birthday like maybe a threesome with another girl or guy.
Are you really this dumb?
Kinks like that cannot be explored in a relationship without ruining it
Get a tripod because you ain't filming shit! Really though you should decline if it goes against who you are and how far you're willing to go.
If u both r fine.. go ahead.. don't let it screw your relationship afterwards... if it's mutual.. bang on
Well if not comfortable don't do it. Plus fantasy in your head might be fun in real life different
I'd suggest you make him your ex
Sounds like a terrible idea
Well he’s said it’s ok so it’s not cheating. How many guys does he want u to be with?
How comfortable do you feel about it
Dont lose yourself satisfying him.
Seems like you got yourself a cuck, congrats.
Random strangers, without him there? Great idea. lol
I talked to a girl who tried this, and no guys would do it. It's not as easy as it seems.
first line stole the show.
@MasterKS A dork on here asked if you would want a GAG T-shirt to wear in public. LMAO No, I'll pass on that.
Great idea! LOL
@MasterKS Let's face it, we all know we are wasting time here, but do we really need to tell that to the world? lol
No, better to waste time in private, remove your anon mask!
@MasterKS I hope the site removes the anon option. When that happens, 90% of us will go take a walk in the park.
LOL!
It is a bad ideea, I would dump him for HIS BIRTHDAY, he is a fucking moron.
He is not forcing me to do it it’s just something he’s always wanted and I feel bad not being comfortable with it especially on my own when he’s not there,
There is nothing to feel bad about something completely abnormal, look for a bound between souls don't go for lust and pleasure beyond what is normal
He says it’s a really common fantasy but I don’t think so is it? I’ve had boyfriends that were jealous and would never dream of me being in a gangbang , also never heard of any of my friends talk about it so I’m not sure how common it actually is. He’s the first guy I’ve ever had that’s had these kinks
No it is not... there is some of this fantasy in the Bdsm world but your guts tell you it is wrong because it really is wrong, maybe not wrong but you will lose yourself in stupidity of others, jealousy is passion and true love, 'owning' a woman for yourself and loving her with all your heart.