Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I'm a switch but predominantly a sub.
I start talking to guys and they're all happy talking about me bottoming or subbing, then I mention I'm a switch and they get wary and start acting like I'm just a brat, if I start talking about domming they will try and redirect the conversation or just stop talking to me. A direct example, I was sexting this guy and he asked for a fantasy so I said pegging a guy until he was overstimmed and crying (a direct parallel to a submissive fantasy he had been really into) and then he straight up ghosted me.
I just want to know if there are guys out there who actually would be into that or if I'm just barking up the wrong tree.
Boys, would you sub for your partner?
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What Guys Said
(42)Sure. I need the rest, mentally to think of the scenarios, and physically to carry them out! Take my ropes- please!
I'm dominant, but I probably would. No butt stuff though. I'm not into that.
Definitely
No I don’t let a girl stick a dildo in my butt I’m a warrior I’m a dominant man that dominates the woman. So your fantasy is that you wanna man as your bitch? To butt F him
The way you said it is probably supposed to sound extreme but honestly sounds super inviting, like yes, get me a man who will be my bitch but also who will put me in my place when I need it. The life of a switch is a hard one
I wasn’t saying it to turn you on I certainly wasn’t talking about myself I hope you didn’t think that. Like I told you 5 minutes ago in your other question I like two wrestling girls
Oh no I didn't think that, your comment just sounded really aggressive when I read it, like one of those "is this extreme thing really what you want." Just chill dude, we all good
No I don’t want that I’m just tired and moody today and your question cut me off guard
Caught
Tbh i dont know what subbing, bottoming, or switching means lol, and just barely learned what pegging is. I was in a long distance relationship with a girl and she was a bit freaky, I told her I'd probably let her "plug" me if she wanted to, aftetall that's where the male g spot is. We broke up before actually meeting so it never happened. It's something I will def consider but not sure if I could go through with it lol. Ok got it submission, and switch is switching from being fucked to being the fucker?
I think the best way to describe submissive and dominant is who is in control, not necessarily the position they're in. Yes it's more likely the submissive is getting fucked but it's not definitive, it's more about who holds the power and who's in charge. As an example riding cowgirl, either person top or bottom could be domming it's all about who's in control. And a switch is someone who is not just submissive or just dominant
Peg not plug 🤣
I figured
Yeah. I'm not exactly a dom fellow so being a sub sounds easier.
I won't do pegging, anal or scat of any kind but others sure.
If she fullfills my fantasy ok.
Yes like lite to be down as a sub... so yes
Im a switch too. It would be fun to be with a girl like you. 😎
I would sub for my partner