Is it just me who gets annoyed that so many people think young women want to have sex with older guys only for money?

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Every-time I say i like older men, lot of people think its because of money otherwise I can't get any benefits from it.

I NEVER had sex with an older man for money, it was always because i found him hot and i had lot of fun and got satisfied.

Is this really that hard for people to understand that some fancy older men for the experience, maturity and kinks?

Caroline91 · Accepted Answer

What's your definition of an "older guy"? I got married at 22 to a man 15 years older than I am. Is that an "older" man in your opinion? At this point, it's ten years and counting to eternity for us. I was a mature young woman and men my own age or a bit older didn't interest me other than as friends. I never had to deal with other people's opinions about dating him for his money because we never actually dated -- we just got married. In your case, unless you're putting yourself in a sugar baby situation, it isn't about the money, it's about the other things you enjoy about being with an older guy. At least, that's the way I see it.

LaurenM1997 · Accepted Answer

I would never have sex for money full stop I don’t go selling myself

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Thats just as bad in my opinion, wanting experience in a sexual relationship is bad, it means you want someone who had sex before really thinking it through as to whether or not it will work out. You're basically saying stupidity and danger is attractive. We don't need that in society.

Med_guy1978 · Accepted Answer

I understand you and I guess men change with time and time is experience and I guess that's what does it for a lot of girls. It's like a mechanic, doctor or dentist... You prefer someone who has been in the game a lot longer... Fair play to exceptions.

Confucious900 · Answer

Every person has their own choice and preference when it comes to sex. If you fancy older men for your reasons it has nothing to do with them. If they want to think there is money involved it just shows their perception. Ignore them. By giving attention to what they say you are not focusing on you. Many people prefer older partners although it is a very gray area in society when it comes to differences between age.

Lliam · Answer

People who make "ass"umptions are "asses". Ignore them. Follow your bliss.

Avicenna · Answer

There are always haters who think their opinions are all that matters and assume everyone should think the same as them.

DJB72 · Answer

As an older guy with no money I can't say I've ever been propositioned...

But then I'm married and oblivious, so unless she walks up to me, takes her top off and puts her hands down my pants I probably wouldn't notice...

Rami_NL · Answer

Actually it's very common for women to like older guys, I don't find it strange unless there is a huge age gap.

bowenw · Answer

It is annoying that people don't realize that age-gap relationships are fun and rewarding for both partners.

hellothere90 · Answer

Old men are unattractive objectively. I would never date them even for money.

worldscolide · Answer

My wife is 9 years my junior. She met me when I was broke and nearly homeless. Her being with me was never about the money.

Jennz6 · Answer

Experience and they understand my kinks

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Yea it's an excuse to deal with rejection. They feel powerless so they come up with a reason they can't control. Some people get taught this by other people. And there are some women who are gold diggers. But its rare.

Dassmen · Answer

older men = Have a great experience in sex and can make you enjoy

Surely · Answer

If I see an older guy with a younger woman. I think “Lucky Guy!” If I see a younger guy with an older woman. I think that everything must still work and needs scratching.