Starting to become insecure about my boobs?

Question

I wear a size B, sometimes C, it depends on my weight. Anyways, I've been forced to dislike my boobs lately. Everytime I see a girl having huge boobs on social media, I look in the comments and see those hundreds of compliments from people. Compared to smaller chested gals, there's a big difference in both, likes and comments/compliments. Does that really mean huge breasted girls are better than those smaller/medium chested ones? Should I get implants? I'm getting really sad and worried 'cause I've always liked the way my boobs looked...

Lliam · Accepted Answer

DO NOT get implants! Especially if you like the way your boobs look.

Getting implants is a physical ordeal and leaves unsightly scars. They eventually have to be replaced.
There is also the danger or infection or error. You could wind up permanently disfigured.
Those big, taut balloons don't look, move, or feel natural. They're just for show. And the majority of guys hate fake. Quality guys certainly do.
And "enhanced boobs" I've seen have ugly contours, especially when she is leaning over.

Here's the thing. Shape is far more important than size. And you'll find more men who prefer modest, perky boobs over large ones.
Know that everyone has different preferences, so you can't please everyone. But lots of guys will adore your beautiful titties, and the right guy certainly will.
And, basically, guys just love boobs. They aren't picky about details.

The only reason you see more comments about big boobs is because they are impressive and noticeable. They turn heads. But that doesn't mean that most guys prefer them. Like, I'm sure you would be impressed if you saw a long, fat cock. You'd go "Dang!" But would you actually prefer that guy?

There are so many things that factor into attraction. Boob size is a tiny consideration. Again, consider their shape. But there is also your fitness; posture; soft, curvy female figure; grooming and clothing choices; mannerisms; and most importantly personality and values.

Do you think it will make you happy to transform yourself into something you are not? Do you want to be a medically manufactured Barbie? Or do you think it is healthier to celebrate your natural beauty, have self-esteem, be cheerful, adorable, and walk like a confident, proud little bad ass who knows your power?

Could I ask you a favor? Would you share your bust and under-bust (rib) measurements either here in a PM? Bra sizes are completely misleading. You may not have big balloons, but I'll bet yours are larger than you think.
You might actually have a classic female figure without realizing it.

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

Okay. So I have enough experience in life and with women to offer some insight I think you need to hear. I’ll give you bullet points to make it easy but I can expand further, if you wish.

A/ Girls posting pics on social media is NOT a representation of reality nor are the comment from subscribers. Like AT ALL. Never use social media as a metric for ANYTHING in life.

B/ Ask guys if they like boobs, answer is yes. This cannot be disputed. Do some men prefer larger breasts? Yes. Absolutely. Do some men prefer smaller breasts? Also yes, absolutely. In my friend circle we have a group text and many of the younger guys routinely share pics of their tastes in women. Guess what? B-C cups absolutely dominate that thread. The guys who do like D or DD are the minority. The overall fitness of the woman matters FAR more than her cup size alone.

C/ If you feel some insecurity then just live with it for a little bit and see if it passes before making any changes, particularly implants.

D/ if you do decide implants are for you then by all means research the topic to exhaustion and seek out the experiences of women who have done so and NOT by taking a poll of male opinions. My wife, and all of the previous women in my life had implants. They all loved them and were glad they got them but it’s an expensive and personal decision. They got them for their own reasons and not for the happiness of men in the world.

E/ There are tastes for all kinds of women (and men) and if you become larger in the chest you may very well become more of one man’s type but less of another’s. Just do whatever you do FOR YOURSELF and own it proudly.

Feel free to DM if you want some perspective on what the women I’ve known have experienced behind implants. It comes with a few considerations but your probably better checking out a website more than the advice of a random male.

https://www.bustmob.com/

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't worry about the big boobies on social media. Truth is, guys like any type and size of boobs. Some guys like all boobs and others are a fan of a certain size. I'm a small chested woman too and I used to sometimes think about if my boobs were bigger. But then I remembered some of the side effects of having bigger boobs. Such as: More back pain & aches, more boob sweat, if you don't want your boobs showing they'll show either way, etc. But just like you, I've always loved my boobs. Breast implants themselves can also lead to cancer, scars, etc. And you have to get them replaced every few years too in order to maintain them. I think it's better to have the ones that don't need any maintenance. Plus, there's better things to spend your extra money on, like cute clothes.

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

No honey don't u dare go for implants... it's true people love bigger tits more but it's also true tht many people love smaller tits... you will always find someone somewhere liking n loving every kind of tits

b_lova · Answer

First I should start with you are still young so your boobs are not done developing or growing. That being said the function of your breasts are to provide nourishment to your offspring should you choose to have them. Believe it or not that function doesn't really correlate to the size of them. In other words, even if you are flat chested your breasts can fulfill the biological function there were designed to.

Function aside your issue is really about attraction, attention and potentially the belief that the larger the breast the more of a woman you are perceived to be. The reality is that you are experiencing insecurities because you are making a comparison of yourself to someone who was genetically born with something you don't see in yourself. It's a comparison that is mentally unhealthy and I would encourage you to stop doing that to yourself. Do most men and women think large chested women are more sexy? Yes, but that doesn't mean there isn't a man in this world who will view you as being sexy. And it doesn't mean you won't find a man who will "worship" your breasts for what they are naturally as there are many men who are also into medium/small chested women.

Finally I would like to point out that there are many celebrities who could easily afford implants but choose to not get them. It is all about your self perception, so don't let what you think will garner more attention, influence how you value yourself as a person or a woman.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Boobs are just boobs, however going off my dating history I tend to go for smaller boobs, lots of guys prefer smaller boobs dont get worried bout it

Berethor · Answer

Small boobs are better than fake boobs, so I don't think that you should get implants.

slatyb · Answer

Forget it. You're are perfect as you are. Many of us prefer smaller to larger.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

can i see your boobs? maybe you don't have anything to worry about?

RavVid · Answer

Can I cup yours with my hands? In that case they are perfectly sized. Big boobs can't be cupped - you can only lift them up sort of.

Tim2nice · Answer

You’re good. Stop worrying

laly520 · Answer

first of all u need to stop comparing urself with others

David94358 · Answer

Small boobs are great so stop worrying about it. I love all boobs but actually prefer smaller ones

bowenw · Answer

All boobs are unique and beautiful. Your size sounds just perfect. Don't concern yourself with the comments you see from superficial people who are focused on some physical feature and not the real person.

DaBiggestBird · Answer

There is a time and place for everything, this is a good time to not give a care. If some loser is projecting their own insecurities onto you, tell them they’re fake news and walk away feeling even better about yourself. Or in this case, just not care. Everyone has their preferences and that’s all there is too it (for now). Forget the medical distortion things, those are also fake news. If you like yours then really there isn’t anything to worry or be sad about.