Bulge when not erect and sitting, does that mean he has a large penis?

I like my guy friend and I think he likes me too. Anyhow, he was sitting next to me on the couch. He is a very tall and muscular guy. He was sitting with his legs spread and even though he was not erect he looked like he had a nice size bulge going on. If it looks big in that position even when not hard does that mean he has a large penis?
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  • Dan Savage (the sex advice columnist who gave a new definition to "Santorum") said that there are "showers" and "growers". Some guys are six inches long flaccid and seven inches erect. Some guys are three inches flaccid and eight inches erect. You really can't tell until you know. As for myself, I'm more of a "grower" although a couple of girls remarked that I had a big one when it wasn't even hard (one of the remarks came to me secondhand, so I'm sure she didn't say it for my ego). Also, I've noticed (from porn films, where else?) that most guys with really big penises don't get really hard. John Holmes never put his into a girl without using both his hands (and sometimes the girl's hands) to guide it in. You could see that it was bending in half and not very hard. He was a "shower". I am a "grower" and when my penis is hard, I sometimes challenge the girl to hand her coat on it. It usually holds it up, unless she's just come in covered in wet snow. Why don't you just ask your guy friend to take his clothes off so you can look at him? Not the right approach? Then invite him to go skinny dipping with you. Not the right approach? Do you want his penis or not?

  • No. Flacid size is not indicative of erect size. Well, if he's 8 inches flacid, chances are he'll be at least that much when erect, it won't shrink lol :D

    However, a 1 inch flacid penis can turn into a 6 inch. Similarly a 3 inch flacid penis can also turn into a 6 inch when erect. A small flacid size does not mean small when erect and similarly a large flacid size can remain more or less the same size when erect, just harder.

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  • That doesn't necessarily mean he's well hung.
    He's more than likely simply a shower versus a grower. Which means he won't get much bigger when he's erect.

  • It could be been his pants, it could be that, or he could have has a boner

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  • It might mean he has a potato.

    • A potato?

  • It means his Flaccid penis size is large, how much bigger it gets when erect varies. It can increase 25% up to 100%. Height/muscles/age/race don't make a difference.

    But from what you said, yeah it's probably big.

  • There are growers and showers. It really depends on the guy. There is no way to know unless he is full on erect. It's possible he was turned on a little and chubbing. I knew a guy that I saw in the shower one day and he looked normal. Then I happened to walk in on him after he just finished thrashing this chick and Jesus Christ I thought he had been attacked by an Anaconda. That girl had to be in pain. For weeks.

  • I had some good female friends of mine always trying to check out my package. One day one of them just straight up tried to fill me up with my pants on and measure it with her hand. I actually had quite a few of my female friends do similar things. I never minded lol. I guess if you want, just size him up. I never cared...

  • Ask him.

  • Some may be small flacid and are huge when errect while those that are larger normally dont get much bigger... infinite variations

  • Possibly, how do you know it wasn't erect?

  • Only way to check is to CHECK

  • Depends

  • No, it always bulges up big. But if you want to know for sure, slide your hand over it, stroking over his dick and slightly grab into it. It'll send it to erect in no time, you'll see it's size, and he'll love it. :-)
    Also if his pants aren't stretchy at all, stick your hand into his pants under his underwear and grab his penis by the shaft. It'll send him into erect, I want to fuck something mode. :-)

  • Well you can tell from my pic

  • Not necessarily.

    Some flaccid penises are growers (look and are small when not erect) and other's are showers (they look and are big) ... therefore you can have a small flaccid penis turn into a donkey c0ck and vice versa.

    So the question of how big it is while erect is one you'll have to get "first-hand" knowledge of.

  • geez you creeper. so shallow... .

  • it means he needs bigger pants

    it happens to a lot of guys even who have small ones.

  • I have a small penis. It's 5 inches hard and about 1 inch soft. Because it's so small it doesn't really hang down more of just stays straight if that makes sense. So it makes my buldge look big but in reality I'm not at all.

  • Size queen, eh?

  • depends, are you sure it is not just pants folds?

    • Yes!

  • Not always

  • Muscular one

  • Most likely yes or could be a shower and not a grower

    • Even if it doesn't grow much it still looks big a this size ahaha

    • Wouldn't you like to know, lol

    • Yes lol

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