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Sexual Health Bumble date cum in me.. Did he use me?
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I'm 19 and went out with a hot guy thats 21. All seemed fine... we had sex and was good but then he finished inside me like it was normal. He did not ask or anything. He was on top holding me tight and I really couldn't stop him. Then after he said he always finishes inside. So I'm on pill but he did not know. He wants to go out again but I won't now. Do lots guys do this?
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7 52He sounds like he was gonna cum in you then leave. Do you know his name is even his real name? Sneak a picture of his ID before he leaves you and you don’t know his info. Either abortion or raise a fatherless child
Ya he said he does it to all his meet ups
I think if you let a man inside you without a condom, you are saying it's okay for him to ejaculate inside. Men assume that because not many women would let a bare penis in their vaginas if they weren't on birth control.
Arrogant, selfish assholes do that. Especially on the first date.
No, He raped you against your will. You should go to the police, and file a report immediately.
You stop that by not letting him inside to begin with without a condom lol. What I would tell any and every woman, if a guy is going inside you raw, NEVER trust that he will pull out. Even if he mentally wants to, the natural feeling (biological) is to orgasm inside you. It feels the best 100%. So NEVER trust him to pull out.
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He disrespected you by not asking upfront and then holding you so you couldn't stop him. It's a big red flag and you are right to not see him again.
Probably assumes you’re on the pill since you let him go raw since the pullout method is not good and you didn’t stop him to ask about putting on a condom
no they don't
Cumming inside is the most normal thing. People watch too much porn.
did he use you? prolly.
why shouldn't he? women are meant to be cummed in. That is their role in nature.
Not unless they want children
@PinkGiraffee she is on pill
I always cum inside regardless. Is that something I should reconsider?
Silly Gil. Let me ask you this. If you had let him toss your salad and he kissed you afterwards would you still be experiencing the same inner turmoil? What I'm trying to say is it was a one night stand. You should probably be thankful he didn't murder you. And if you had and pre conceived expectations how it was going to go you probably should have voiced them at the start.
I cum in girls all the time if they let me go bare so sounds normal.
Really
Ya if I'm bare I'm not pulling out and most girls know this
I am the same. I never pulled out and never will. I don't know why people are doing that because it's good for nothing
@Seppel Ya its expected
If he never talks to u again then I’d say he used u.