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Can a guy get satisfaction from just playing with his girl's body without penetration?

Can a guy get satisfaction from just playing with his girls body without penetration?

At least until marriage? since he is active and she's still a V but he wants to play and promises not to penetrate.

Is it possible?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • First simple answer is YES. We often use the words “sex” and “intercourse” interchangeably. “Sex” is an umbrella term that includes much more than penetration. When intercourse is not an option, it can feel like a devastating loss. But a whole world of sexual options opens up that may feel even better than what they started with. Even for couples without physical issues, there are reasons penis-in-vagina intercourse may not be the best destination. For instance, girl may be having a painful UTI, a heavy period, or a stressful day. Or guy may have any of STIs or just not want to do it. Intercourse is not the sexual be-all and end-all for most men and women. Clitoral stimulation to girl is a necessary piece of the pleasure puzzle for many vulvas.

    Penetrative Sex is often considered an all-or-nothing game. Many of us are stuck in an archaic script and a male-centered model of sexual pleasure. For couples in which sex does not involve one penis and one vagina, breaking free from this narrative paid off: Men and Women – both have many options. For example, women who have sex with other women are more likely to have strong orgasms than those who have sex with men. It is not their anatomy that is different; it is what they are doing.

    If penetrative intercourse is not an option, or if you are just looking to spice things up by breaking free of an outdated script, concentrate on the term “foreplay.” That word indicates that there is a special event and everything that comes before penetration do not matters less. If you will start thinking about it, you will never miss the good stuff. Foreplay is sex!

    Outercourse is exactly what it sounds like: sex that keeps his penis outside her orifices and doing all the same things. It means touching, rubbing, massaging, licking, or playing with toys. It means making out, dry humping, and cuddling. It will satisfy both the partner. It is mutual masturbation. Girl can easily please her man giving hand job, sensual massage and blowjob. She can collect his cum on paper towel or in her hand while giving him hand job, see him shooting out his cum, feel hardness of his organ at climax and many more exciting things. She can feel his organ getting harder and harder while giving blowjob and feel when he is at climax – just ready to explode volcano of pleasure, swallowing is not must for blowjob, but it makes some special bonding stronger.

    Outercourse removes some of the psychological pressure of guy: A soft penis can feel plenty of delicious sensations without erections, and a vagina does not need to be lubricated for the vulva (the visible part of the female genitalia) to find pleasure and orgasm. Also, countless other body parts (boobs, nipples, inner thighs, and more – including her mouth for blowjob) are packed with nerve endings and ready to be explored. The traditional narrative that goes “intercourse-orgasm---done” can lead to a pressure to perform, sex that is unsatisfying overall, and faking of orgasms are not here, increasing your communication game. Ask for what feels good to your unique body.

    • wow. thanks a lot. you have a wealth of knowledge.

  • I think so, but ask older women, most of the ones I have talked too, said that they did their "counting" in a cinema, a lot of fingering, and it seems the boys were happy with that, and I know once, on our first threesome, my husband climaxed without any touching, the same time I did

Most Helpful Guys

  • Absolutely…A man who appreciates the feminine body can spend hours exploring his lover’s body. Pacing her breath and pulse can lead to explosive results. Soft but purposeful touch allows the right guy the the time needed to discover areas of your body that makes your body react to his touch. Frankly, any man who just wants to go directly to penetration will not be a satisfying lover.

  • Of course that's possible, and certainly enjoyable. Kissing, massaging, masturbating together, or each other, are for instance in my opinion nice acceptable intimate moments. This is also a matter of the guy having respect for his girlfriend's wishes.

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  • It's possible if he respects his lady enough not to cross that line/boundary till marriage and he's a gentlemen and he feels happy enough doing that.

    • This is accurate if it’s a short romance. If it takes years to be married it’s more challenging

  • It's definitely a strong probability.

  • He's hoping you give in once you both get naked.

  • He might but he likely trying to trick her into penetration, also technical virgins are hypocrites.

  • Depends on the guy, he's just going to get a raging boner touching her. Are you willing to touch him? Because you can rub his penis and relieve his tension

  • Theoretically yes, but realistically in the culture modern feminism has created for us all that is very unlikely.

  • Oh yeah! It can be great fun for both the guy and the girl. There are many ways to pleasure a woman without penetration. And pleasuring the woman almost always pleases the man.

  • yes, i dont like penetration at all and i get all my pleasure from playing with a womans body :)

  • Yes, he can

  • It depends on what you mean by "playing".

    • kissing, touching, caressing etc. like ronance

    • It may be enough for him. I suggest discussing it with him so you're both on the same page.

  • I’ve gotten hard from eating pussy many times. So yes

  • Yes, easily.


  • I could do that, and even prefer it.

  • I'd probably still enjoy that

  • Sure. I have in the past. There are plenty of other fun things you can do.

  • Honestly that’s not a good idea. Both will want intercourse eventually

  • its definitely possible

  • absolutely

  • Its called dry humping. Best type of "safe sex" you can have.

    • how is it done? with clothes still on?

    • @gloree You got it. You can even practice sex positions doing this and figure out what you like when you want to do penetration. Finding what's comfortable.

    • okay. great. thank you for sharing.

  • Satisfaction? Depends on the guy. But I would say maybe. Sometimes we just want to see you have fun and gain pleasure. Other times we need a release.

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