Can being sexually frustrated make you cry?

Cause I'm sobbing. Is this normal? I feel like a drug addict. There's just this gnawing something eating away at me and I can't find a way to get rid of it.
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  • I feel ya, I used to cry over that before my current boyfriend, but not because I didn't have sex, I had some casual flings, it wasn't often, but still some sex is better than none. but the reason i mostly cried about (and i realized that after i got in a relationship with my current bf) is that i was missing that closeness and intimacy that come with someone you really like, not just a casual fling. i don't know if it's the same for you, do you think that it could be intimacy you are missing or is it just the lack of sex altogether?

    • I think it's both btu touching myself isn't filling the void or feeding the gawing feeling. There's no warmth. It just feels hollow.

    • Same was with me. Like I didn't sometimes even care to masturbate even though I wanted to, but I missed just being intimate with someone not alone or with guys I didn't care about

  • Everyone gets frustrated about this. This is the driving force behind many great writers, fighters, warlords, bodybuilders, pretty much anyone who is good at sports or passionate behind a cause. You think they aren't horny people? Guess again? Hormones can make you great or crazy.

  • Masturbating doesn't help? Toys? Like you just need the guy?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sexual frustration can manifest emotional, but in my past experience more irritability and actual frustration rather than sadness. Do you cry when you are irritable or frustrated?

    • No I'm not a crier.

    • Well then my next question is this- How long has it been? We talking a week or a year? Not trying to pry but I'd probably cry after six months with no release.

    • Over 2 months. Plus, he was my first sexual partner, so I wanted to do it 3 times a day. We didn't of course but now it's like some sort of withdrawl.

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  • It's happened to me a lot of times. For about a week I would burst into tears after jacking off. That's what being a 24 year old virgin is like. It was mental torture.

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  • yes its possible n normal cz you feel unsatisfied/unwanted... this is why masturbation is important cz it helps you release some sexual frustration n keeps you happy. :)
    try it.

  • Aren't you in a relationship?
    Surely the cure is like... meters away? Well inches really but who know , maybe feet?
    *units everyywhereee*

  • One word... MASTERBATION!! If you are felling frustrated then it helps

  • Is it really sexual frustration or loneliness?

  • Lol that used to happen to me when I was a teen. I hope it's normal. You're not alone!

  • Sometimes I do feel so, and cry for nothing apparently.

  • No not normal. You need a release. Do you workout? Are you sure your not confusing it with being lonely amd not having anyone?

  • Are you sure it's just sexual frustration? Are there other factors that may be at play?

    • *Checks in my pants* pretty sure.

    • Hahaha... I meant, could there be other things like stress and anxiety from another source? Work? Family expectations, etc? Sorry, I didn't mean to sound condescending...

    • I can only think of sex and I haven't had sex in a little over 2 months. I've never experienced this before.

  • Welcome to the club. To quote a famous poet. "I feel your pain" - Bill Clinton

  • yeah it can emotionally effect you

  • yes it can be very annoying and depressing
    but i go to gym everyday and workout so i can fight with my sexual frustration too

    • He's right. Working out releases endorphins which are similar to the nice feelings we have when we are in love.

  • You have depression. Please talk to your dr

  • hey maybe I can help.

  • why frustration? not getting fucked? not enough fuck? didn't enjoy fuck?

  • yes it can

  • yeah I guess if you want it so badly

  • Just give yourself a good orgasm. You've got to deal with your body's needs.

  • Would seeing my body help you?

  • What about Masturbation?

  • I know being emotionally frustrated and feeling like nobody loves you can make you cry.

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