Sounds like you are primarily Submissive but have a desire to be considered at least a little bit assertive at times, when you try to do this, you feel insecure and think you are being rude and as such revert to being Submissive.
So with that info I would have to say you are a Submissive person who doesn't want to be.
Can you be Submissive and Dominant? Well... Not entirely, you can never truly be fully of both, I suppose you could have moments when you show signs of each in weak portions, it is just that you have to look at which one you are more of.
I know people are calling it a Switch, there are also cases medically where it is possible where people could have multiple personalities and display different assertive levels.
Sorry for such a long choice of explanation.0 0 0 0Its not what you do its how you do it different verbage could change everything
1 0 0 0
Most Helpful Girl
Take stand where you feel it is necessary, don't succumb to outer pressure when you are in rightfully strong position, and at the same time agree readily to others if they are right. You will maintain balance in your life.
1 0 0 0Thanks for MHG.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Related Questions
What Girls & Guys Said
2 12Well everyone is not an extreme. Everything has to have balance and a little grey in it. So in some situations you'll be submissive like at work when you get that check. But in your private home when you pay the bills you'll be dominate cause it's your place. Now of tou want to switch roles in your life then that's obviously a lot harder. It takes at least a month to develop a new routine in anyone's life.
1 0 0 0I don't know about anyone else but what I read in your Question was that you are a Woman that Is probably assertive and kinda tough on guys until you get a feel for how the guy acts, And if he falls into the assertive catagory (Aka. Alpha) you automatically know what you want, So you become less dominant than you were before you got to know the Guy. In Conclusion, You're A Driven Person and know what you want, or are at least You know what you want in a man and you know how to transform accordingly.
0 0 0 0Yes lots of people switch
0 0 0 0Do you? :P
@scooogy Yes! I'm one of the many
You're switch and you like both aspects. Maybe it's a way how you tease to get dominated later or to find out about it
0 0 0 0You are a switch
0 0 0 0Its called being a switch
0 0 0 0Sure you can. I do that. 😎
0 0 0 0yeah it's called being a switch.
0 0 0 0yes it's called switch and it's the best because it allows you to experience both sides
0 0 0 0How do you do that in an everyday relationship?
I think it's best if you have a partner who is switch too, that way you can keep exchanging the dominance between you which might spice up the relationship
That's called ''switch'' ^^
0 0 0 0Probably just submissive it sounds like its not you when your assertive.
0 0 0 0I believe so.
0 0 0 0Yes tes
0 0 0 0Yes 🙄
0 0 0 0How?
Most Helpful Guys