Guys, can you describe your perfect blowjob?

[Emily_R]

I’m always looking for perspective from the other side. Thanks :)

What techniques do you like?
Where do you wanna cum?

[CarpeDM]

Great question.
Take your time. Play with his cock with your hands for awhile. Tickling, caressing, and stroking it. Tell him how much you love his big fat cock. Then start licking it. All over. Moving from the head down to the underside of his balls and then licking and sucking as low as you want to go. For me the Perfect blowjob includes lots of rimming. But if you are not into that any licking and sucking between my ass and the base of my cock is very much appreciated. Finally you are back up to the head and begin taking his cock into your mouth. You're bobbing up and down working toward getting as much of it down your throat as you can. But alternate, like 45-60 seconds of sucking it deep then 45-60 seconds of concentrated licking and sucking on the head. The best blowjobs also include some more cock worship. Tell him how much you love to taste him. Lots of moaning while sucking, tell him how turned on your are and how dripping wet your pussy is from having his big hard cock down your throat. Don't forget that getting your head sucked feels the best and is where all the nerve endings are. In fact once you've been alternating that for a while and can tell he is about to cum then go back to the head and really work it, sucking a little harder and gyrating a little faster. At this time you might want to grip the base of his cock under his balls to stop him from cumming and prolonging the head sucking pleasure. Then when he can't take it anymore you let loose of the base of his cock and use your index finger, preferably with a long fingernail, to stimulate him between his ass and the base of his cock. You do this by sort of tickling by dragging the tip of that fingernail up from his ass toward his balls repeatedly. This stimulates the prostrate and will help bring on the release. So since he is about to cum you will be using your other hand to vigorously stroke his cock making sure every stroke has the whole of your hand stroking the nerve endings in the head of his cock. You do that while begging for him to cum on your face. And this is very important, when he finally starts to ejaculate on your face you have to act like it is the greatest thing that has ever happened to you. Say "yes baby cum for me, pump that cum all over my face" and do not wince or turn away when the ejaculation starts hitting you in the face. And for me you don't even need to swallow it. The best is to try to get quite a bit of it in your mouth and then slobber it back out all over the head of his cock while you go back to sucking it and just letting all the cum run down his cock. Some more licking all over the cock is good but at this point you have finished off the perfect blowjob. Please tell all your friends. 😊

[Emily_R]

Great answer, thank you!

[Guardian45]

And the Oscar goes to...🙄 I prefer she doesn't act, but really emote her true feelings. The Biggest Letdown is finding she is Faking It!

[Dargil]

I get weary of the size and "what does it mean, when..." questions but I answer these every time I see them. I feel a skilled BJ is critical to most young relationships and can keep a relationship healthy.

Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error because guys don't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of productive ejaculation. What struck me is how uniform they were. So I took the time to summarize the successful routine. I've posted this here before.

*What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. The goal is to get us hard and flowing precum but not near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production and volume will be bigger and orgasm will be stronger. There are guidelines for the main event that I think are almost always true.

*A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. The best blow job is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking.

*Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, go aggressive. Increase sucking and bobbing to as fast as you can sustain for several minutes. Break away hand stroking and go as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

*He wants to cum in your mouth. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight suck only. Keep hand stroking at a slower pace to coax out the last squirts.

*Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. A little brief, occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier is good while we drain.

*Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out.

*Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could.

*Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I like her to spit into her palm to see how we did.

*There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious.

*One more thing, This Meme is funny but absolutely true

[Emily_R]

Thank you so much for the detailed answer! <3

[Snickermarstwix]

You're blowjob heroe, help every women on earth man!

[JackSmy]

Personally, I don't want that, or like it!! I love kissing her, and don't want her sensual soft lips, down there! I don't want to taste dick, when kissing!!

[ZackBan]

There are many ways a blowjob can be perfect.
If she's very immersed into it for example and not just getting it over with.
Another way is when I get to control the action and hold her head sometimes even facefuck her a little.

[TheBootyChest]

When I get a decent one, I will let you know. I feel like they dont work on me. Or we have a lack of experience so it's not easy to enjoy.

[Emily_R]

Fingers crossed

[Glenn603]

When a girl is giving me a blow job, I love it when she sucks it nice and slow with lots of eye contact.
I love it when she wants me to cum in her mouth, but if she doesn`t want that i`m happy to cum anywhere

[Emily_R]

It’s about what you want

[Liam29]

The kind of blowjob that seems like she enjoys it so much that just doesn't want to stop

[TheCerealKilla]

Sloppy and a lot of spit and ease up on the deep throat. Just spit on it and look at me and I'm as happy as a pig in poop

[harunnn01]

mouth and face but here I can't find a girl who wants it 😔

[TCredo]

Slow and firm with eye contact - and if it's to be done, her swallowing
When giving one, the same - with her cumming in my mouth or while I am rimming her

[4mazing]

Sorry dude

[your_guy_23]

I like it slow at first, kissing and licking from bottom to the tip, the sucking using her tongue to lick around the tip and just doing stuff that overall gets me close to cumming lol as far as cumming goes, I would love to cum on her face or in her mouth, but if she is not into it then I don't mind, I'll cum wherever she wants lol