Could you guys give me some advice on making out?

[Anonymous]

I've always been a little shy about making out and never really did much. But I've been with my current boyfriend for a while now and I want to go a little farther with him
He's always respected me not want to do alor but I think that's made him a little gun shy about making out more
1. How do I show him I want to do more with him? I want him to kiss my neck more, feel under my shirt, and squeeze my butt and rub my thighs.
2. Would it be ok if I sat on his lap like the girl in the photo? How do I do that without being awkward?
3. What could I wear to get his attention? I want something that cute but not too risque. Would leggings and a flannel shirt work? Should I wear shorts? If you have any ideas please post a pic
4. Any other tips to make it better for both of us?

[PrudentGuy]

For me, the #1 turn on is her confidence, and the #1 turn off is desperation.

TBH, delaying intimacy on your part was actually a plus to many guys, and I think him included.

Now that you're ready, you need to demonstrate your sexual confidence without appearing slutty.

These are my suggestions:

1) dress in smooth linen, without panty and bra. Ya, appear lady-like, yet message before meeting him that you'll be without underwear.

"Today is not my birthday, but how I wish I can go around in my birthday suit. What say you?"

2) the power of self-touch. Us guys are very visual. And when you touch yourself, we want to do the same.

Hence indoor or outdoor, when he's looking at you, slide your hand on where you want him to touch you in like manner.

When he's seated, walk infront and then in one move, glide your hand from your lower back across your butt cheek down to the thigh.

Just do it once. Then repeat after an hour or two as "reminders".

3) if there is an adult shop nearby, go shopping with him. He is definitely clever enough to know what you want.

4) it's normal for you feel awkward. Its intimate sexual moves.

So keep telling yourself, its normal and a common thing healthy people do (many here, me incuded).

To further help, just in case you are going to have sex, start a nude lifestyle at home when you have privacy.

Yes, just undress and do your daily chores naked, cooking, texting, ... sleeping.

You'll feel a lot less awkward when you finally need to undress in front of him.

4) be direct. Talk. Guys are sexual creatures. We are waiting for sex to happen. And we're delighted when our partner initiate. Yes, I particularly like it when my SO initiates sex.

Give my methods a try and I wish you two have great fun!

[MysticDevice]

1: If you kiss his neck first he'll probably feel the need to do the same. That trick worked on my every time. The easiest way to get him to feel around is to tell him to or just put his hands exactly where you want them.

2: That is the perfect position to make out it. Both of you are free to move your hands around.

3: leggings are a perfect option. Perhaps spandex or work out shorts as well. A skirt with stockings is sassy and classy and I bet he'd love that. I would. I like the flannel shirt cause he has to take his time taking it off. Maybe a low cut t-shirt.

4: Licking and gentle biting on his neck and ears will drive him nuts. A little grinding/dry humping helps too. If you're up to it you can put your hand on his crotch and feel around and possibly do a handjob after that.

All of those were something that past girls have tried on me and they worked like a charm.

[Asker]

Thank you that was very helpful

[MysticDevice]

You're welcome! I hope you two have a good time

[rachel776]

guys usually take care of these things on their own (feeling you up etc)

[Asker]

I know but I've asked him not to do it in the past BC I wasn't comfortable with it but now I want to try and I think he's worried about upsetting me

[rachel776]

just put his hand there when you're kissing him

[Asker]

Ok And should I just climb on his lap or would that be wired?

[rachel776]

yah anything you do he will like

[Asker]

Ok Do you have any other tips

[rachel776]

send me a message

[Asker]

Ok I just followed you

[Asker]

Could you send me a pm I'm only lvl 1

[rachel776]

no i don't think so but i don't have any new followers

[Asker]

I just tried again

[rachel776]

it says i have a new follower but it doesn't say who. what are the first and last letters of your username? (i wish they would get rid of the anonymous option)

[Asker]

First is L last is 6

[AustinMan]

Are you ready to go down on him?

[Asker]

No I'm not

[AustinMan]

Then maybe show up braless in some sexy shorts and a tank top.

[Asker]

Ok maybe I'll try that Would he like it if I got on his lap or should I ask him first?

[AustinMan]

Do NOT ask him. Just mount up and give him lots of positive feedback when he's doing the right things.

[Asker]

Ok How should I give him feed back Just tell him?

[AustinMan]

Tell him yes, baby when he's in the right spots. If he reaches for something, give it to him. Arch your back and push on his hand when he gropes your ass. Stick your chest out when he wants to squeeze your tits. Does that help?