Let's say your partner is completely loyal, treats you wonderfully, is fully romantic except when it comes to sex. You even have permission to find sex anywhere else you want it, just not with your partner. Could you do it?
Inspired by a series of messages I just had in DM.
Could you have a loving relationship with a good person that included everything except sex?
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 46I don't know. Part of a relationship is working through those problems.
Hardly
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I like the bond good sex can create
No because even if she let me have sex with other people I would like to have sex with the girl I’m dating
Except it's a platonic relationship , but personally i think sex is a bond that keeps the relationship intact
I could
Trust me it doesn't work. I am a so called impotent man if u can call me a man. I can't get it up. Its small and flaccid. My girlfriend first accused me of cheating. Finally publicly told everyone I am impotent created a lot of humiliation and left. Even though I liked her I couldn't save the relation
no, too complicated lol
You have me and my girlfriend we have a good relationship without sex
But I let her have sex with who ever she wants
Never, wanting to sex him is how I know I am attracted to him. It's the thing that separates us from family or friends
No, sex is what makes it romantic. A relationship without sex becomes a friendship or neighbor
Iunno. I'm not trying to cuddle or kiss my neighbors
Before marriage, yes; afterwards, nope.
No. The virgins who say yes are simply virtue signalling.
Sex for a man is like emotion and romance to a female. Could you be in an emotionally empty relationship?
Or maybe there are those who don't share your sentiment
Yeah biology agrees with me.
And yet there are those out there who aren't beholden to the whims of their cock.
You are a female... you think like a female and will never think like a male. It is typical of a female to assume men think the way they do, but we do not. males are driven to mate, it is a biological imperative.
And yet, here we are, with guys saying they could do it and are definitely not virgins. You'll have to learn to accept that not everyone is the same.
You have no idea what the males on this site are like... they are mostly pick me’s and not to be taken as normal. I do understand that people are different, that does not discount basic male traits. Ex: Women are more emotional... that does not mean ALL women are always emotional. It means that it’s Basic female biology that women are more emotional.
So basically your argument is, don't trust these guys just because they don't agree with me and don't fit the mold while also I acknowledge that not everyone fits the mold.
I think I could definitely do that IF we'd had a decent amount of sex when the relationship started and so I could bond to her then. But if a few years in, she was like "listen, honey--I think I'm done having sex, but I still want to be with you and I'm totally fine with you having sex outside the relationship" I'd be totally down.