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Dick slipping out into butt during sex. How to prevent my boyfriend slipping into my ass by accident during sex?

My boyfriend has a bad habit of accidently slipping into my ass during sex. This has happened 3 times... it kills the mood, makes me cry, and bleed. We have butt sex ever once in a while, but during normal sex he just seems not to be able to am when he gets way to into it. I don't want to do a but plug for butt safety every time we want sex and now I have to cover my ass with my fingers cause I am afraid, but I don't know how to prevent him slipping. It causes me to avoid sex.. what can we do?
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  • I've also had this problem. He just pulls out a little too far and slips right into me kicking him off and crying. He feels awful when it happens. The last time, there was a lot of blood. All he could hear out of the bathroom was my frantic, "oh no" ing. By the time i got out, he had my clothes ready to drive me to the E. R. lol i felt more bad for him at that moment. And we dont do anal. And he tells me all the time how tight i am, so i know its not on my end. But i too, am now so afraid of it happening again. About to make a butt charm of metal so he slams into that instead of me lol so i also feel your pain. And we both are just too scared to really get into like before, now. Whats a girl to do?

  • "By accident" never ever happened to me. None of the guys ever accidently did that. I believe it is quite hard to do it by accident. It is always on purpoes. If it happens by accident it is highly unlikely it will end up exactly in your but. If it slips out it usually hits some other spots.

    I would talk to him and ask him to never do that again or you will not have sex with him again. If he does it again, kick him off and consider breaking it up. Because what is he doing is not by accident and that basically means he forces you into anal sex (you obviously dont want at that moment). That is not acceptable by any means!

    • My boyfriend has slipped out 3 times and all by accident. He knows how much pain it causes me and he always tries to avoid it but accidents happen. He is not interested in it if it causes me that much pain. He always feels really bad when it does happen. I really want a way to prevent it.

  • he can’t “accidentally” go in your bum any more than he can “accidentally” go into another girl. that dude just wants anal and will say anything to get it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is on him. Let him know if he can't control himself you'll start biting his cock during blowjobs. Hell smarten up

  • Nobody ever slips into a girl's ass by accident! He is just a selfish boyfriend. Is he otherwise 100% wonderful?

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  • I doubt it happens by accident tbh. It's never happened to me before.

  • I guess my dick is too big because I've never ran into a butthole I can just accidentally slip into like that. The buttsex stuff takes lots of lube and a lot of time... and most of the time can't fit in there unless I'm semi-limp. Unless you have a huge butthole or he has a midget dick... none of this makes any sense.

  • it's no accident lol. he wants to go in the back door.

    • Exactly my thoughts too @Pinay_ako 😉

    • @TaureanBull81 happens more than once is no accident lol

    • I agree! He definitely likes sliding inside her rosebud lol 😉

  • LOL 😂😂👌

  • I would seriously question the "by accident" part...

  • been there done that and the SCREAMS, the abrupt STOP, the finger pointing, even though clearly an accident
    b/c we neither go for anal play at all UGH
    I admit ONE TIME in accident it actually felt good, never before? so I can see where some guys might be tempted when mind lost in passions...

    Back to your prevention so sex desires can resurface.
    Agreed butt plug is best + will make the planned anal sessions more tolerable for you if the BP has had enough time prior to give a good stretch.

  • He wants anal... he tries for it everyday.
    Maybe if you both have it more planned what you’re willingly enjoying to do , maybe , it’ll sort out the mistake / confusion.

  • It's no accident.

  • "Accidentally"... yeah, ok 😂

  • lol "by accident"... just tell him to do more deep strokes not pulling that far out. i highly doubt this happens on "accident" a lot...

    • 😜 ..

  • Give him a big slap and stop having sex with him! If he doesn't respect u don't want anal he's not worth having sex with

  • Anal sex is "normal" sex too. But why are you so slippery all the time? Do you guys use lube or something every time?

  • Bite his dick once and he will be careful next time

  • You can put a piece of tape over it like prisoner's do

  • its not an accident. its probably tighter in there. than the other side. DID HE TELL YOU ITS AN ACCIDENT?

  • No such thing as accidental anal.

  • He wants tight pussy I guess so he jumped into ur ass so just put something in ur ass prior to sex like a small dildo types

  • Be on top. A lot of the time it isn't an accidental thing fyi.

  • Maybe it's too loose for him to get pleasure

    • And he wants the other one instead

  • You must have a loose butthole. The anus shouldn't be so close to the vagina in the first place. Bad design.

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