Directed to guys: if you had a girlfriend and she told you that (most of the time), when dry humping, she reaches an orgasm. Would you be weirded out?

Basically my boyfriend and I like to dry hump, as we're both trying our best to wait until marriage. However, we are 19 and when the mood is right, the whole waiting till marriage thing becomes a whole lot harder. ANYWAY, my boyfriend and I dry hump often, and usually he doesn't cum... but this time he did, and this is the first time he's cummed in front of me (dry humping is the furthest we've gone). But basically afterwards we were talking about it and he asked how it was for me. We have awesome communication and I wanted to tell him that I had an orgasm, but I was a little embarrassed, as I'm a little bit shy when it comes to things like that. But he ended up getting it out of me (he definitely knew, but just wanted to hear me confirm it), and after that he asked if this was the first time I've orgasmed while we dry hump. I wasn't gonna lie, so I told him that it happens often, and he seemed kind of into it. We had really great talks and both felt super connected after talking about it, but I just wanted to know what YOU all think... for guys, would you be weirded out at all to know that you can easily and often make your girlfriend orgasm just by dry humping? Hopefully this isn't a silly question... I'm just shy when it comes to sexual behaviour, so... thanks!
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  • Not at all. It's great that you can achieve orgasm through minimal contact and without actual penile penetration. For a lot of females it is hard to achieve orgasm even with penetration, clitoral stimulation or other ways and means. I think a lot of females would envy you for your ability. You may be hypersensitive and therefore your partner should use that to his and yours advantage and give you multiple orgasms. I know I would. :-)

    • I guess that's true about the whole hypersensitive thing considering I'm still a virgin! Thanks for the awesome answer :-) it's nice to get some insight into the male brain, hahaha

    • Your most welcome :-)

  • You should be honest and he won't be weirded out. If anything it is a compliment. If you can get each other off dry humping, just wait to you go all the way.

    I would love to know I was able to please my woman with a dry hump.

    It is hot that you can both cum that way! Be happy and be honest with him.

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  • I'd be turned on. It'd be cool to make someone orgasm without taking off my pants. I imagine. Like having super powers.

  • i would love it as long as i could finish myself off

  • I wouldn't be weirded out all. But would be turned on just that much more. Would want to lick you and savour every drop.

  • People orgasming, during sexual activity is never odd. That is the entire point of sexual activity that includes dry humping.

    • That's actually really true.. I guess it's just the whole thing that if you're not upfront and bold when it comes to sexual behaviour, you get insecure talking about it, you know?

    • Yeah all you need is a little cock-surety it all starts with talk.

  • It's not weird at all. We used to do that when we first started dating. She made me wait 3 month before penetration. And i must say, it was fucking nice even if i didn't cum from it. I would do it again any time! A good guy will LOVE that you cum from it.

    NOTHING is weird when it come to sex (excet maybe few rare things).

  • My girlfriend comes easily from dry humping, too. I like that!

  • I would wonder how, but, I'd be happy she did. Isn't that the point of sex, to orgasm

    Especially when you want kids

  • I know that you want to wait for marriage before intercourse, but you might consider having condoms around in case in the heat of passion, you want to go all the way with it. Not saying you should do it or shouldn't, just saying to be prepared.

  • However you want to rationalize sexual activity...

  • I would live it!