Do dominant guys like to be kissed on the neck? how do I give him the hint to do it to me?

[Anonymous]

I really like to be kissed on the neck but a lot of the times I feel like the guy doesn’t get the hint that’s what I want even if I’m stretching it out in front of him, and I’m way too shy to ask, so sometimes I feel like maybe I should do it to him so he can get the idea to do it to me. But I also feel like it’s kind of a dominating thing to do to a guy to kiss him on the neck and I’m not dominant at all and I don’t want him to get that idea. I just want him to get the idea I want to be kissed on the neck lol
I also don’t know if this is something guys like too or would be turned off by, especially a dominant man
I know it’s probably easiest to just ask him to do this to me but I’m shy and can’t bring myself to!

[The_Sexpert]

There's nothing "dominating" about a simple Neck kiss.. it's just a simple intimate act
But some guys do hate a neck kiss and some love it

So , sorry to put it this way.. but you need to TALK... good sex is based on a good communication, communication is the 🔑

I'm pretty amazed about how someone can miss a more than obvious giveaway of you streching and opening up your neck to him.. that should've made it super clear that you just want him to eat that neck of yours

So again, I understand your shyness to communicate but just somehow convey it to him that you'd die for a Neck kiss
You can insert somewhere in a convo that "my neck is super sensitive"

Or if he has kissed your neck at least once, just say something like "It's so sexy when you kiss my neck.. as soon as your lips touch my neck, I melt"

Good luck

[Passerby19]

The best sex generally comes with great communication. You’re both there to enjoy each other, so if there is something that you want, tell him! Most guys would be over the moon for you to communicate what gets you going. We want you to feel great, as well! Nothing to be shy about, just tell him “kiss my neck”, three words. I think if you can find 3 seconds of courage to get those three words out, you’re going to enjoy things a whole lot more, especially after doing it a few times and getting comfortable with asking for what you want/need.

Best of luck!

[coolbreeze]

Give him neck hickies and he'll get the hint to give them back.

[Gent207-2]

That's odd

The neck is my usual go to place for kissing and biting 🫦

[BoopBoopBeep]

"it's kind of a dominating thing to do to a guy"

Uhm... ok... so you just lay there? Hot.

/s

[Asker]

I don’t know why guys do this. I asked for advice, not to be attacked with insults and assumptions about me. You’re more than able to be submissive without just laying there and doing nothing, which I don’t. There’s no point in me telling you this though since you already know so much about me apparently. I’m also not too concerned whether or not an internet stranger man pushing 50 finds me hot, but thanks for your shitty input anyways.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Aw, struck a nerve. Poor thing. See you don't have to be shy all the time now do you. Grow up child. Get a backbone off the internet, too.

[slatyb]

Get over your shyness. He can't read your mind. It's you can't talk openly about your sexual desires it's not much of a relationship.

[RealMarek]

Guys, especially young guys, don’t read minds.

[matty1889]

do it if he doesn’t like it he’ll say to stop

[BarryLiverstone]

Smh.

[Asker]

Why?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because

[Asker]

Because why?

[BarryLiverstone]

No one is a mind reader. Stop being so shy

[Anonymous]

Just tell him. He's not gonna get mad. If he really loves you he'll try to please you too.

[Anonymous]

You don’t. You tell him. WTF is w women hinting at things. You have a mouth. You’re an adult. Speak up. Simple as that. He’s not going to get the hint most likely to which you’ll be mad about cause somehow he’s supposed to be able to read your mind according to you as well as a lot of other women.

[Asker]

Damn bro chill, who hurt you? Don’t lump all women together. I’m not gonna get mad if he doesn’t. I don’t expect him to read my mind. I know it’s best to communicate generally, but it’s hard for me, that’s why I try to communicate other ways. I know it doesn’t always work but it isn’t always easy for me to speak up bc of insecurities. I already explained I lack the courage/confidence to do this. Some nice motivation to be able to speak up/speak out could be great instead of this degrading “advice” accusing me and assuming shit about me. I’d even take a “suck it up and just do it” over this shit lol

[Opinion Owner]

No one’s mad. You’re reading it that way cause it hit your feelings. But that’s the truth. Stop hinting around. Tell men what you want. If it’s a in reason but they can’t provide that then you move on.