Do girls like sexual attention even it's in negative form?

[Anonymous]

I know girls usually feel flattered when someone shows interest in them, whether or not they are interested too. But how do you girls feel when guys pay you sexual attention? Like when they just want to get in your pants? Or when random guys pass you in the street and wolf-whistle at you or comment on your body and say things like "I would love to just f*** her!". Does that make you feel hot and sexy? Or are you disgusted and turned off by that kind of behavior ?

[xXMissBlissXx]

Honestly, some girls crave atention so badly that they will take it however they can get it even if it's extremely negative. That is the leading cause of sluttism.

But me...

If a guy just wants to get in my pants, then I get offended. To me that's like saying "I'd screw you but I wouldn't put in the effort to actually date you. I have no desire to give you an important place in my life." It's like a smack in the face. Not only that, but I'm nobody's sex object!

When random guys wolf whistle at me, yeah I can't help but grin, because in a way it is a compliment, but it's also like "Damn, your game sucks! ;P" lol, true charmers do better than wolf whistling! If a guy ever said that to me on the street, I'd shut him down in front of all of his friends and make him look/feel like a nasty pig. I'm totally turned off by that behavior and I'd never take a guy seriously after he acted like that.

[Anonymous]

I absolutely hate it when a guy does that. It's vulgar, rude, and just shows how low their intelligence really is if they'd do that out loud.

However, as disgusted as I am, a small part of me does feel kind of good knowing I'm at least attractive enough for them to think that. But then again, I've never had anyone really do that to me that badly (I think I've ever heard a comment once. I do consider myself lucky in that regard.), so maybe I don't understand as much as someone who's had that happen to them more frequently/harshly.

[dominatingkelly]

Those kind of things kinda make me feel degraded and worthless, like nothing but a piece of meat there to just f*** and chuck. Definitely a turn off.

If a guy is interested in me and actually wants something, it shouldn't be that hard to just say I look beautiful or something similar to that, rather than making me feel like a sexual object.

[crookthings]

No no no no no. Sexual harassment is not flattering, it's invasive and makes you feel violated as f***. Some guys make the argument, "Oh girls like it even if they say they don't, they love the attention!" No. The majority of us, particularly the ones without huge self-esteem issues, just want to be left alone, to be able to walk to the store without feeling like a piece of meat.

[upood]

It makes me feel good about my appearance, sure, but it does not make the guy doing it look/appear good to me... if that makes sense. You are increasing my view of myself but decreasing my view of you. Mainly because that kind of behavior is immature, and should probably only be kept for the bedroom.

[may04]

Don't like it.

[uglyswan]

My gut reaction to strangers who wolf whistle and say sexual things to me in the street is of disgust... I usually feel like throwing a couple of insults back at them... but then I think about it and well, at least they think I'm attractive, so I should also take it as a compliment. But, yeah, I feel disgust, especially when they're old enough to be my father/grandfather. I would never sleep with them, even if I can rationalize their comments as compliments.

Now, if it's a guy I know, if I don't like him that way, I feel flattered, though I also feel bad for not reciprocating. If I feel attracted to him and he shows sexual interest, if I'm only in the mood for something sexual, then I flirt for a while and then decide if I go for it... but if it's a guy I like romantically and he only shows sexual attention, then it makes me feel cheap and not special. But that's just me.

[enlightened]

no. eve teasing doesn't make me feel hot and sexy. it makes me feel violated and vulnerable.

[southerndancer]

I don't really find it a turn on, but I will take what ever compliment I can get, would I actually say anything back? No I just keep on walking, but I would never actually have a convo with you, but mostly guys just honk. You see I am not that a attractive so I'll take whatever compliment I can get. But if you are trying to impress a girl or have a relationship with her, don't do any of that, tell her she is beautiful not that you want to get in her pants.

[veronica12]

it is so.. gross. Being hot gives you confidence and thus dignity. It makes you know your worth. And my dignity doesn't allow me to enjoy that. Therefore I think that guy is an a**hole.

[ARWINGx1]

Honestly, this is what confuses me sometimes. I mean, on the surface, it's as if they want to (or at least don't mind) attract guys, with an emphasis on their looks.

But when they do, they give off a "not like that!" kind of reaction. I mean, looking as voluptuous as they can, and yet, they don't want guys to see them that way.

[Anonymous]

im sure some girls would like that. but personally, I hate it. I don't even dress like slut for me to get that type of attention. I prefer to dress like a cute person, not a hot or sexy person, in hopes that I don't get comments like the ones you mentioned above. those comments are really annoying and disgusting.

[Anonymous]

It's rude and offensive and an instant turn off.

Sometimes it makes me self-conscious and I start to wonder "Is my skirt too short?" or too tight. I don't like to be disrespecting. It's not a good feeling :(

[Opinion Owner]

*disrespected*

[Anonymous]

when I was younger and just becoming a woman I liked it at first, now that I am older and more confident in myself I am sick of it, I don't want to get laid, I want a relationship. I know I am attractive now, don't need that stuff.

[Anonymous]

I would b*tch slap you across your face and stupid mouth, then, kick you as hard as I can in the balls- NOW I feel hot and sexy.

[Asker]

Was that an attack at me secifically?

[Asker]

*specifically

[Opinion Owner]

No. It was at whoever does what you listed in your question.

[Anonymous]

It is very uncomfortable... I remember crying from one occasion the guy was so rude and sexually harassed me. It was totally unexpected when I was with my little cousin and my mother.

[Anonymous]

thats gross and disgusting and its even worse if the guy isn't not attractive what so ever